₦airaland Forum

Youths are really jobless. Tinubu is here showing you all shege but this is the only thing in your mind. Wake up to the really, 2027 is too from from 2024

tundegan:
The FG is already aware of this issue and are working towards it.

ok Mr. Federal government

tundegan:
Tinubu is the man!

The CNG initiative is a game changer.

I can never change my car to cng, cng kill faster than u can imagine. Let tinubu and government officials convert their cars to cng.

Mom007:
But did he lìe? Y do you hate truth?

if you ladies refused to give them kpeku what do you have them do? Most married men are sex starved expecially those with children. Until women wake to the reality, cheating won't stop

Why is seun allowing his platform to be use as a platform to freely divide Nigeria? Is dss not aware of what's happening? Both yorubas and Igbos need to be caution and dealt with in this platform. I will report all of you with these rubbish write up. Nonsense

VinnyBaba:
Lols,Fear of Coup de dat.

I Told Pple here that to Remove Tinibu from Aso Rock is VERY easy.

Just TAKE OUT his Yoruba Chief of Army Staff and Mastermind the Impeachment of that Woman Wrapper Akpabio,,
Tinibu will be like a Fowl inside a Heavy Rainfall.

If Lagbaja is DEAD, then the next move is to Impeach Akpabio and then Tinibu, so that Nigerians can Breathe again.

that was what they tried to do last week in National assembly before dss went and took over. Tinubu seat isn't secure yet

CoronaVirusPro:
Fvck you!

only English this one sabi na Bleep you. Everything about terrorist is Bleep, sex and 72 virgins etc. May God deliver you and your likes Mr. Bleep you

GBTYO:
The funniest thing about this video is how the cowardly IDF drone operator flinched the moment Sinwar threw a stick at the drone.

That was his last act if defiance to the Zionist pigs.

He took his death as a warrior and told the cowards to fck off one last time.

The Israeli Diaper force were so chicken shit to enter the building to take him out and had to resort to shelling the building.

This is after Sinwar fought them off by lobbing two grenades and expending his mag fighting kike roaches.

The man lived as a hero and died to become a legend.

Rest on Warrior.

terrorist, your end will be worse

gimids:
Thank God there people are no longer part of the government

which thank God? Every Muslim is a potential terrorist

Every Muslim is a potential terrorist, know this and have peace,

Kewtt:
No. He who ALLEGES MUST PROVE!!

VDM has alleged. He must prove. Na aboniki dey im blokos

don't forget Faz already confirmed speaking to Bob. He ought to be humble enough to apologise and moved on. Falana just wanted to clear his name and he already promised not to proceed with criminal case against them

NL1960:
Let us stretch this further. The man and woman work and leave home by 6am to come back between 9-10pm. How will that work?..

My wife is a businesswoman so she has more time than me.

Klass99:
As a female I will say boarding school for these reasons;

1. I learned self sufficiency and hard work in boarding school. Growing up, two of my mother's sisters lived with us, there was a cook, a maid, a driver and what I would call a dry cleaner as well, his task was to wash and iron only, including my clothes and school uniforms.

All of that changed when I went to boarding school, I learnt how to fetch water in a bucket and trek long distance from the school borehole to our dormitories, how to thoroughly clean the dorm toilets, rooms, gutters, etc Boarding school essentially turned me from a lazy child to a hard working one .

2. I learned how to stand up for myself and fight back at bullies/injustice. The senior students at my school (an all girls school) were terrorists! Just mean and cruel for no reason other than their seniority in age and class, omoh by JSS 2 or 3, I had toughened up so bad and began to hit back, I became so stubborn and difficult to deal with, they knew better than to mess with me. My own school mother disowned me because of that but I couldn't be bothered so long as all the mean girls knew to avoid me, I was fine.

3. Boarding school instilled in me a level of independence and responsibility at an early age, where I had to be responsible for myself, personal hygiene, environment and properties. Adulthood has since enhanced those things but boarding school was a learning field where I grew from. That's where I also learned cleanliness and neatness to a fault!

4. Interaction with girls from other states and backgrounds was also a good thing. Cohabiting together, sharing similar routines, fighting and playing together were experiences that helped to build courage, confidence and social skills.

Lesbianism wasn't a thing in my school as such, what we had were friendships where some girls were closer than others and due to how close they were they were called a nickname I can't recall now. But, in my 6 years of being a boarder only two girls were ever caught kissing. I say this to put to rest any fears you may have about boarding schools being a breeding ground for homosexuality, that is not always true or the case in some schools.

sorry for still disturbing you. I read this more than 3 times, if I may ask, were you better off in school academically in boarding than when at day?

atiku4President:
Nonsense. But at least it shows Libyan leaders are more responsible than their counterparts in Nigeria. If it were Nigeria, nobody would have resigned.

we can't treat our guests so bad, it's not part of us as Nigerians, from south to the north we're naturally hospitable.

This is pure wickedness and I hope the ministry and Nigeria government get some balls to deal with these uncircumcised Arabs

Winks2:
Abeg make una rest with all these "giving your life to Christ" balderdash

You lots are very wicked people. I've lost regards for humanity. People are terrible

you're nothing without humanity in you. I pray you find peace in God soonest. A life without Christ is disaster, bitterness and frustration. God love you and He really do

SmartPolician:
He should be. There's an age someone gets to, life generally becomes tasteless. You see your mom, dad and age mates die. You begin to wonder what life still has for you when all those who mean the world to you are gone.

beyond your age, when you gave your life to Christ and truly served him in accordance with the scriptures, you shouldn't fear death at any age but when you don't have Christ at age 90, it means you lived a wasted life.

Dovescenty:
Have you decided what to do now. You yourself did you go to day or boarding school? What is your wife's opinion that is the mother of your daughter.

my decision and my wife are the same. I and my wife attended day. Based on the informations here, we will make decisions. Thanks alot

Sincerely appreciate all of you for your help.

Magicalsineros:
You spoke my mind. Thank you.
@op, sometimes, I wonder how it's so easy for parents to let their teenage children off their sight without thinking twice.
What about love, family bound, value?
Many things are needed and put together in children's upbringing, not only school and book.
Keep your children under your watch. Life is short and the world is not as friendly as it use to be.
Most of the people applauding boarding school here, left there about 10-20 years ago. You can't compare the time, behavior and the amount of information.

At least try your best before ''what will be will be''

thanks alot,

folake4u:
With the advent of social media, we've seen in recent times the atrocities happening in boarding school.

Your daughter needs you in her teenage years more than ever. This is the time to build a relationship with her and teach the child Sex Ed and how to protect herself. You also get a chance to know your child's personality type, the traits she exhibits, and also scrutinize the company she keeps.

The world is dangerous really for children. Parents need to be eagled-eye to protect their loved ones in today's society.

I'm speaking from experience because my mum wanted me to experience boarding school as she did in her days, but that choice was left to me. I wrote common entrance to Federal Government Girls College in my state, also did interview for another school with boarding facilities and a Day School. I just picked the Day School and I turned out fine.

Also had the blank cheque to stay in the school hostel when I gained admission to the University, I rejected it as well. Lol. And only experienced hostel life in my final year because I wanted to experience it and tick it off my list.

There isn't much outside, to be honest.

But yeah, your child's formative years should be under your watchful eyes.

thanks alot

Magnoliaa:
A day school is the better option, in my opinion.

There are no advantages a boarding school has that a day school doesn't, and a day school has the only privilege of proximity over the other.

It is a school, a place of learning formally; it's not a place meant to take over the responsibility and role of parents in a child's life. Everything they can potentially learn in a boarding school can be learnt in a day school. A child who is prone to being a sloth or anything of the like would be one over in a boarding school, with much less supervision. The kids who turned out fine and well-adjusted would likely still have turned out the same way they did in the day school. I don't believe the boarding school is much if a 'defining factor' there.

Teenagehood is one of the most confusing, tumultuous and overwhelming period of person's life, and this doesn't even have anything to do with external factors yet. The very experience of going through adolescence can be daunting. Changing body, new feelings about oneself, peer pressure, deciding which values to pick and adapt to - all of these become much easier to work through with the guidance of good and present parents. Sending almost adolescent children off away like that, when they've barely formed their own personality and ideals, with empty "know the kind of house you came from" admonishment doesn't really sit well with me. You'd have no idea of the kind of company they're keeping, and habits they are forming. Things that you can easily pick up and notice and correct about them when they are at home everyday. You will have the choice and authority to raise them the best way possible. Give them responsible tasks to carry out. Help them learn to be kind and cooperative with their siblings. Spend quality family time together. Take them out on weekend. Anything.


The university is still there for them to learn all the independence and self-sufficiency they need to learn. But they'll go to a boarding school, come back home for a while and off to college again.

Where is the time to know them? Where is the time to bond?


I mean, it's one thing to look at the "logical" benefits of boarding school- more time for the parents to attend to work and other duties outside the home, and the child figuring out the world on their own, but personally, for the child, are those worth the emotional neglect and psychological effects?

Children deserve 100% commitment until they are ready to be their own person, but until then, they shouldn't be treated like accessories.

thank you so much for contribution

CoronaVirusPro:
If there is one thing I love about criminals, it is that, they have love for each other.

Sincere and upright people don’t even share that kind of love among each other.

Criminals are always ride or die. They promote, support and share companionship with each other. You will never find them criticize each other.

bitterness kill

Klass99:
As a female I will say boarding school for these reasons;

1. I learned self sufficiency and hard work in boarding school. Growing up, two of my mother's sisters lived with us, there was a cook, a maid, a driver and what I would call a dry cleaner as well, his task was to wash and iron only, including my clothes and school uniforms.

All of that changed when I went to boarding school, I learnt how to fetch water in a bucket and trek long distance from the school borehole to our dormitories, how to thoroughly clean the dorm toilets, rooms, gutters, etc Boarding school essentially turned me from a lazy child to a hard working one .

2. I learned how to stand up for myself and fight back at bullies/injustice. The senior students at my school (an all girls school) were terrorists! Just mean and cruel for no reason other than their seniority in age and class, omoh by JSS 2 or 3, I had toughened up so bad and began to hit back, I became so stubborn and difficult to deal with, they knew better than to mess with me. My own school mother disowned me because of that but I couldn't be bothered so long as all the mean girls knew to avoid, I was fine.

3. Boarding school instilled in me a level of independence and responsibility at an early age, where I had to be responsible for myself, personal hygiene, environment and properties. Adulthood has since enhanced those things but boarding school was a learning field where I grew from. That's where I also learned cleanliness and neatness to a fault!

4. Social interaction with girls from other states and backgrounds was also a good thing. Cohabiting together, sharing similar routines, fighting and playing together were experiences that helped to build confidence.

Lesbianism wasn't a thing in my school as such, what we had were friendships where some girls were closer than others and due to how close they were they were called a nickname I can't recall now. But, in my 6 years of being a boarder only two girls were ever caught kissing. I say this to put to rest any fears you may have about boarding schools being a breeding ground for homosexuality, that is not always true or the case in some schools.

thank you so much for sharing experience. I really appreciate your help

NL1960:
I went to a Unity school but my children went to Catholic schools.

You cannot rule out those vices but the students are encouraged to report any advances. It also starts from the home as you have to continously drum it into the ears of your children. These days in boarding, year sets stay in the same hostel or dormitory. Security ie not an issue.

It is not only in boarding that you have gay and lebianism. Children these days know all these things through technology. So day students can also be affected.

thank you so much, I really appreciate all contributions. God bless you

NL1960:
Just to add that I also a bias for missionary schools especially Catholic boarding schools in case that is of any help.

ok my major concerns in boarding school are the security of students, gay or lesbianism, and are children more better of? During your days, did you had any such ugly experience? I think love the missionaries boarding school. I really appreciate help

NL1960:
I have a bias for boarding because I went to boarding and I enjoyed it and it shaped my life. All my children went to boarding.

great, thanks for contribution.

Hello please family I need to sample your opinion.
My daughter will soon be going to secondary school so please I need your opinion. day or boarding school which is most preferred? Experienced advice please

Thank you

Gerrard59:
Was Nigeria better before Tinubu? Did people not complain worse, especially in 2015-2016, under Buhari? So, why have many children? If you have two children, would you die?

Haa before tinubu era naija na heaven on earth. May God take us back to pre-tinubu Amen

highchief1:
u supose preview say tinubu Dey come o.

lol except u be spirit, before dey election nobody go fit predict tinubu because dey way bubu hated him

steeltrust:
Yes our govt bad but why you go born 5 children when you know say you poor
Na govt still do you that one

family of five means, 3 children, mother and father.