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Raphsays:
I sense a deep feeling of frustration and regret in your words.

However you must understand that You're not doomed! Unless u just want to be

At 34, you're still relatively young, and many people have successfully transitioned
careers or acquired new skills in their 30s, 40s, and beyond. So yours cannot be different

Take a deep breath and let's break this down:

Acknowledge your strengths: You have a first degree and 8 years of experience in customer care. These are valuable assets!

Identify your interests: What are your other dreams and passions? Make a list, no matter how wild or impractical they may seem.They can always be handy to help you make helpful progress in life.

Explore new skills:: Research high-rated skills that align with your interests. You can start with online courses or certifications to test the waters.The good thing is that these courses are easily available online and offline.

Take small steps: Don't feel pressured to quit your job immediately. Start by dedicating time outside of work to learn and explore new things that aligns with your experience and interests.

Seek support: Just like you have done here, talk to trusted friends, family, or a mentor about your feelings and aspirations. You might be surprised by the encouragement and guidance you receive.

Marriage and skills are not directly correlated: Your worth and readiness for marriage aren't defined by your skills. Focus on personal growth,and making more money as get fulfillment in your purpose and the right person will appreciate you for who you are.

You have today and you can start now. Don't give way to despair at this young age.

Aptly penned

Agentsalt:
They are all afraid of Dr Abel Damina

yes, Damina is exposing the deceptive men.

[quote author= post=131327325]Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/8/nigerian-woman-slumps-and-des-while-preparing-breakfast-for-her-family-2.html[/quote]sad loss
R.I.P

fergie001:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/entertainment/music/719897-theres-no-more-p-square-paul-confirms-latest-split.html

Another split?
What's wrong with this twins

Mynd44:
As we celebrate the life of musical icon, Onyeka Onwenu, I can't help but go back to my playlist and pay her discography (the music I could find though) and I was able to pick my top three songs. Which are

Peace Song

Iyogogo

And

One love

These songs reminds me of my childhood


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=geoXyFW9_fM?si=Ckx8A_XDRZDTzmvc


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5QkeHOllD5c?si=abFJ_Ugh0VX88J9h


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JciM-pbXQEc?si=ffHZmgvPdwbTB7u6

one love

Wait for me

You and I will live as one,etc.


Nostalgia

tensazangetsu20:
One year today I left Nigeria. I won't lie even though my research was solid, I was still very scared. I remember when the plane crossed the Andes mountains and the pilot mentioned they were landing in Santiago in 40 minutes I was super scared. My mind was like this isn't Google, reddit, wikipedia or the economist. This is real life. A place with hardly any Nigerians or anyone. No one speaks English.

A year later, I am proud to say coming here was the second best decision I have made in my entire life. Men, I will always bet on myself always. Men in this life, whatever comes to your mind go and do it. It's better to do it and fail than to not do it at all. I don't even believe in failure. It's a social construct. The real failure in life is not doing or taking any action at all.

I believe even if I came here and it didn't work out in anyway for me, I would still have had the experience of at least knowing another country, making friends and also knowing a new language. But men I have found everything I want here. I have friends, I have girls, I have good jobs. I have everything everything I want or need

Congratulations to you

Here yesterday, gone today.
May her gentle soul rest in peace.😢

press9jatv:
https://www.thecable.ng/obi-cubanas-lavish-burial-of-his-mother/amp/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eISRJYFLB14?si=Nop6VhCuo_hD1La6

May her gentle soul rest in peace. 😢

Vikalinda:
I remember then days when I regularly pass that Azikiwe rout to rsust back gate as a student. All those brothels around that zone were death trap the girls can drag you in if you walk alone late night. So we avoid returning to our apartment late night alone

Yes,
Azikiwe street that leads to RSU back gate is the first street in Mile 3, I wonder why the OP post Mile 2.

EmmyMaestro:
Man Collapse Goes Into Coma Shortly After Coming Out From Brothel In Mile2 Area PHC

There was pandemonium at Azikiwe street in Mile 2 Diobu, Porthacourt, Rivers state on Sunday,28th July 2024 as a man whose identity is unknown fell and went into coma seconds after coming out of a brothel in the street.

Our correspondent who saw the man in his unconscious state reports that he had bitter kola, alligator pepper, in his possession

Efforts to reach his family proved abortive as hoodlums was reported to have stolen his phone immediately he fell before passersby and other business owners in the area became aware of the situation.

Sources told our reporter that the man was in one of the brothel when he started complaining of chest pain and he quickly came out of the brothel to take a vehicle to his destination when he fell and went into coma.

Our correspondent who was on ground reports that as at the time the Azikiwe Police Division arrived with ambulance to take the man to a medical facility, the man was no longer breathing.

It could also be ascertained if the man finally lost his life or not as at press time.

Weird news from brothels in Azikiwe.
A man died there, years ago.

PortHarcourtcit:
https://saharareporters.com/2024/07/27/breaking-nigerian-senator-ifeanyi-ubah-dies-london?fbclid=IwY2xjawERojBleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHUaN_8ffR5W3Q_rfWkiXoN1Rez8SO5hUhbTyK55YtZrJwLA050sTJv4m8Q_aem_PAvdPse85zn_wzsNRMKfsw

R.I.P to the senator

Interesting15:
Avoid backbiting, gossiping and tarnishing people's image behind their back. There is a divine ordinance called "The Law of Sowing and Reaping".

For every single person you backbite or whose image you tarnished(particularly if it now closed a door of opportunity against them), at least 10 other persons are meant to do the same to you too behind your back. It's an ordinance.

Just mind your own business and learn not to dabble in things not your business. Focus on your own life and destiny. And if you know you are guilty of this, plead the blood of Jesus to cancel anything the enemy might want to hold on to bring accusations against you in the courtroom of heaven.

https://www.instagram.com/p/C9u4nSPIgaY/?igsh=MXBvanFhb2oxbWNpMg==

well written

Racoon:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9_Vu19wiDC0?si=uW0hBnH7rw-n33_H

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/C2NsoEQbQDmZ4KWy/?mibextid=oFDknk

one love keep us together
she is a legend

JigsawKillah:
See, I write words that check men Suffocate the B's, the vibe worse with S men My gang chaotic, we ride wars like X Men Blasting every thing, we Cyclops with Tex, men 24 to life? I'm not invested Hit 30, that stuff, I'm not interested But niggas move mad and nobody checks them I visit they fathers , 'cause I'm not repented Niggas tapping screens, while I tap they chicks They wait for listing days, she hits me place They fight for CEX, all night we sex Now they crying dust, while she rides me crotch They hate when I say it, a man splits his time To a woman who's worth it, when he leaves the grind He gotta stay fit, so he brings all his game And she gotta hawk tuah and speet on his thang Money is a must, so he needs all the change Before the engines get knocked, get the grease off, get laid Family is a challenge, ensuring kids are well raised But if he puts the ring on it, he's got himself to blame Age comes with clarity, stay strong on salary The message is important so stay off the gallery It's never enough so make something passively Life's an action movie, with fake guns start packaging Never be afraid to change all you acting with Play the game no matter whose baseball you're batting with Every morning is a gift, so praise God, unwrapping it If you don't get the part, break off, come back again

Jigs Lionheart

welcome back jigs

Rubyjade:
A little google would solve your ignorance

It is you that is ignorant here
how can you compare a clean and serene Port Harcourt to onitsha ？

your opinion shows that you have not lived nor visited Port Harcourt .

Rubyjade:
Onitsha senlense. PH is one of the most expensive City in Nigeria and pollution is huge compared to Onitsha, cost of living is considerable compared PH

which pollution are you talking about ？

PH is cleaner and serene than onitsha

dopedan:
For ur sanity stay in ph since u have accommodation already. People here are living below that without accommodation assistance
Please connect me to get a job im in ph

the guy is lucky they offered him accommodation in ph.
cost of rent here in PH is expensive

fergie001:
Joe Biden will not seek re-election as US President



Joseph Biden
President of the United States

good decision

Uriel, so you want to snatch pocohantas crush ？ we will not take it

jumpandpas:
https://saharareporters.com/2024/07/18/abia-state-lp-lawmaker-commissions-waste-bins-constituency-project-mark-one-year-office

imagine

Seun:
Hello Nairalanders,
Yesterday the 17th was my birthday.
As for my new age, let me just say that I'm slightly older than Don Jazzy.
Please send me your kind words and good wishes!
Cheers!

happy birthday sir

Lolz419:
David Umahi:
Umahi is the current minister of work. He is the immediate past governor of Ebonyi state. He was elected into the senate in 2023 election, but resigned to take the appointment of minister of works.

Simon Lalong:
Lalong is currently a senator. He is the immediate past governor of Plateau state. He was appointed minister of Labour, but resigned his ministerial position when the court declared him senator of his senatorial zone.

Considering the uncertainties and failure of this govt so far, who do you think made the right decision between the two of them?

lalong made the right choice
An elected position is better than a ministerial position which is by appointment

naptu2:
Daddy D.O. @DOlusegun

congratulations to her A brilliant Ijaw lady

mrksquare:
Justice James Omotosho. I really do not know why I feel he is a hatchet judge. Probably it is because of the way and manner he dispenses cases that involves Wike. I have never seen Justice Omotosho given unfavorable judgement to any case Wike has interest. This is not to opined that Wike has interest Philip's case.

I OBSERVED SAME TREND , REMEMBER THE STATE HOUSE OF ASSEMBLY MATTER AND OMOTOSHO JUDGEMENT IN FAVOUR OF AMAEWHULE AND THE wike loyalist

mrksquare:
It was reversed because Tinubu knew it would have ignited tension in Ogoni land. Since HYREP was created, it has been manned by indigenous Ogonis whose environment was polluted by Shell. And the appointment would have stalled the bid of the Federal Government to resume oil exploration in Ogoni land.

Tinubu wanted to extend his Nepotism to HYREP. Tinubu record in Nepotism has surpassed that of his predecessor.

the sad truth
stadium road was blocked by security officers

ruggedtimi:
Saw the protest yesterday

yeah stadium road was blocked by military officers yesterday

marketingoracle:
Hey guys,
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I have personally gone through this training. I did mine in February and It was a great one. I had previous started doing social media marketing years ago but the training opened my eyes and I got the opportunity to learn from experts. I still got over 12 certificates from Twitter, Google and other top international digital marketing training centres.

If you are interested indicate in with a comment.

P.S This isn't an ad or something of those nature. I saw their re-opening and I decided to put it out there.

After the training I kinda switch niche from social media marketing to SEO, and I've been doing well and getting lots of gig too. I highly recommend this program if you want to take digital marketing seriously

post the name of the facilitator and location of training

OredoPikin:
As part of the transition programme from military regime to elected civilian government, local government elections were conducted in 1999 across the country for a three-year term. At the expiration of the tenure of Local Governments in 2002, it was expected that election would be conducted immediately, more so as the country was in a democratic dispensation. Unfortunately, it was not so. While the consistent attempts by state governments to weaken local governments in the country is not yet new, the complacency of the federal government and the possible complicity in the delay of Local Government election is disturbing. The state government all over the country are not interested in conducting election in the Local Councils across the country because the non-conduct of election gave them the absolute control over Local Government machinery in their respective states. It is sad that the state government have failed to appreciate the fact that Local Government is fundamentally an integral part of democracy. They have undermined Section 7(1) of 1999 constitution which guarantees democratically elected Local Government council across the country, only few states had witness election since 1999 till date. The diagram below shows states where election has been conducted from 1999 to 2019

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/333267851_Local_Government_Administration_in_Nigeria_A_Historical_Perspective#pf15

correction
BAYELSA LG ELECTION HELD MONTHS AGO so it's four times .