vanitybutiwanti: This is from the Appeal court, the judges even asked pro wike lawmakers to serve pro sim lawmakers via watsapp because they are trying to employ delay tactics, why employ delay tactics if they are so sure of winning?
I told you and I will say it again, the Amaewhule led- 25 wike puppets will lose their Assembly seats. We stand with the Oku Jumbo led Assembly. Good riddance
Goodnewsupdate1: My wife was pregnant for another man inside marriage’ – Harrysong
Nigerian singer Harrysong has claimed that his estranged wife, Alexer Peres Harry was pregnant for another man inside their marriage.
He lamented that he married into a promiscuous family.
The singer said his ex-wife informed him that she was pregnant one year after he stopped sleeping with her, which made him realise that another man was responsible.
Speaking during a recent Instagram live session, Harrysong said, “My ex-wife’s mother just married her seventh or sixth husband yet she is still cheating in that marriage. That’s the kind of family I married into.
“My wife came to inform me that she was pregnant when I stopped sleeping with her for almost a year. She was pregnant for another man inside my marriage. The only thing I did was to ask her to return to her family. I needed time to get to know her because I didn’t know who she really is. I married her because people said she was a loyal, humble and God-fearing Christian.”
I have just handed over a 22 years old son to the mother, whom by birth was not my biological child as claimed by his mother. Raymond's mother mrs Helmina made this open confession in the presence of my family elders, & her cousin sister mrs Mercy Ogounga, she claimed. 'I was impregnated by my father's next door neighbour somewhere in port harcourt'. The man is from Nembe & not Peremabiri in Southern Ijaw Lga.
Though the boy's mother insisted that I adopt him as my child since she had not mentioned any other name as his father from birth. But I declined the offer & insisted the boy be taken to his real father. I took the child when the mother abandoned him to my relatives in small village called Onyoma at the age of 11 months. He had grown to be a man under my watch & went to one of the most expensive schools (Lead British International Schools) in Abuja, from primary to secondary.
Raymond school fees alone was N970,000.00 as of when he finished from secondary school. But that wasn't the most painful side of the story, the most painful side of the story was losing someone you onced shared as family, not because death took him away, but that you can not retain him because of birthrights that he is no long your child. In 2018, i have built a 4 bedroom flat in the village for Helmina's family as Raymond's mother. Though I did out of free will & I do not regret my desire & share of goodwill. Though, it is painful.
You know what it means to bring up a child like a king, in the kind of comfort every poor or rich father will wish for his kids, only to end up that the child was another person's own & not yours, this is painful. But just like I cannot share the love of my children with anyone, so equally I will not mix up my bloodline with another person's blood as mine when God knows he is not, no I can't. Imagine when the elders of the family asked, 'how old was the pregnancy when you took steps to change the father from your father's next door neighbour to Paul Eris'? '4 months old' she replied. Are you saying one can just wake up to accept a 4 months old pregnancy without proper investigations to ascertain the true nature of the child', the elders asked again?
No sir, I once had an abortion for him, 9 months after, I came back with this very one & tell him it was not properly removed, so the belly floated up', Helmina answered.So what was his react -ions, they asked? He argued that the child was not his own right from birth, but I abandoned the child with his far relatives at Onyoma community when the boy was 7 months old & ran to port harcourt, that was how he went back to carry the child' .. Helmina replied. Well, I have tried to keep the pain since then, knowing life is pain, & pains are signs of courage in every beautiful life you intend to make. Don't get angry, don't fight or rush pain, as long as pain van teach you gently as it can do to the other person.
Just like no one will say to hold a permanent empty heart is easy, I also don't want to confront it. This pain is my privilege, I don't want to continue to get a grip on it. The worst is to get killed by silence, some pains hurt but silence kills. I have tried to turn cold after asking the mother to return the boy to his biological father, & that will give me an immense pleasure, but people still keep the feelings like he is my son, this is why am turning up. Please Raymond is no more my son, accept it & let's move on. To me, he looks very irritating because i cannot adopt him as his mother wished. We shared all the love for 22 years, we can't continue boy, bye!!!
Another Paternity fraud case, I hope he finds closure soon.
The kind of mentality he has is the sole reason for high poverty rate in NIGERIA and the sole reason why the various prisons around the country are filled with a lot of men.
In as much as i understand that responsibilities and purpose are great motivator but not in the case of NIGERIA. I can confidently tell you that the vast amount of married people living from hand to mouth in NIGERIA are more than single men living from hand to mouth. Many among these men were motivated by their girlfriends to carry on into MARRIAGE that things will get better but there they are today.
You don't really need a Female Human to motivate you to hustle more in life. There are thousands of other important reasons to motivate you to hustle more in life.
As for me, I love to look good, stay in shape, eat good and organic foods, reading, researching, traveling, very adventurous and lots more. The Female Human isn't among the Top Ten Of Things that motivates me to hustle more. A Female Human that has no stable feelings and can fade into thin air leaving you to your faith when things isn't rossy!
The interesting part is i have seen many and have some of these made people living the type of life i aspire for around me. So that's enough motivation for any man who knows his onions very well.
franchasofficia: This story is touching. Unfortunately one person alone who isn't a billionaire yet and not even a government official cannot make a visible change.
Seun please how can you pull willing Nairalanders together to assist some focused, willing, sincere and dedicated Nairalanders with a Nairaland skill acquisition and business training with some startup capital or tools at the end of the training? I am willing to be a part of it, unfortunately I am not a billionaire yet to embark on this journey alone, so we need a crowdfunding or joint committee of volunteers to do this, I am in.
Seun Osewa lead this, open a thread for it and call for volunteers and put the thread on front page everyday for 30 days let's get this started because APC government have shattered hope for most Nigerian youths, it's sad. We need to play our own part as willing individuals and help the few we can and also encourage more volunteers to come on board to pull more youths out of this situation.
u3fine: Praise God!!! She has been found. She called her dad with someone's phone at Iriebe. He then went and picked her up with his sister, Kidnapped at Abuloma and found at Iriebe
emmaodet: This is the summary of what you wrote in the Bible -
Ecclesiastes 9:11
New International Version I have seen something else under the sun: The race is not to the swift or the battle to the strong, nor does food come to the wise or wealth to the brilliant or favor to the learned; but time and chance happen to them all.
New Living Translation I have observed something else under the sun. The fastest runner doesn’t always win the race, and the strongest warrior doesn’t always win the battle. The wise sometimes go hungry, and the skillful are not necessarily wealthy. And those who are educated don’t always lead successful lives. It is all decided by chance, by being in the right place at the right time.
Sprinklepee: Hello nairalanders, i want study cyber security online, i need your advicd on how to start, i graduated from uniben, dept of religion, so someone told me to apply for cyber security and i dont know how to start, pleasd advice and guidelines on how to apply, thank you.
Enroll, study and get certified in Comptia A+. That's a recognized cyber security certification.
NSK4U: After learning the skill nko?? Empowerment money suppose dey anything like this cos there are many graduates with good skills but lacking financial muscle to kick-start their own
Pertinent questions that needs to be considered in the scheme.
Faiththatworks: I totally believe some people actually read our comments on Nairaland,I proposed this idea something last year and I'm very joyful it has been passed into law. There's nothing more befitting than an individual getting paid to learn a skill. I really hope the government will look at specific industries and not just make it an open affair. Please let us never stopping making suggestions on ways to move this country forward, enough of Insults and bad Energy God bless Senator Nwoye Gov bless Nigeria
Nwoye did well with this bill, if implemented well.
AImiron: Nigerian forward, Ademola Lookman scored a hat-trick on Wednesday as Atalanta thrashed Bayer Leverkusen 3-0 to win the Europa League trophy in Dublin, Ireland.
The Nigerian striker made history as he becomes the first player to score a hat-trick in Europa League final. He also helped Atalanta to win their first continental trophy in 49 years.
The defeat ended Leverkusen’s 51 games unbeaten run of the season in all competition.
Leverkusen opened the scoring 12 minutes into the match. Davide Zappacosta fed the ball through to Lookman, who picked up the pass inside the box and quickly sent it into the left side of the goal.
Eight minutes minute later, Charles De Ketelaere placed a shot from the edge of the box towards the bottom right corner, but Matej Kovar made a terrific save to deny him.
Lookman completed his hat-trick in the 75th minute. He made a great solo run and pulled the trigger from inside the box, beating Matej Kovar with a strike under the crossbar to make it 3-0.
LeeMason: They died while working in the recording studio located along Transformer Road in Amarata axis of Yenagoa.
The young men in the studio were working from night to morning using their generator but may have fallen asleep and forgot to switch off the generator.
The generator was kept inside and the studio had no ventilation
Six of them were discovered dead in the morning, while one of the victims who was unconscious was rushed to the hospital where he later gave up the ghost.
The owner of the studio, a popular producer named Akpos Barakubo AKA SlimKelz was among the deceased
Essence20: Chelsea has just made the same mistake they are known for- lack of patient, repeating same cycle over and over. Why not leave Pochetino and see how next season will be.
seanfer: Samuel Nwanosike, Chidi Llyod and their committee of friends will soon know that they're on their way to political oblivion in June this year.
Yes ooo we look forward to 18th June. They have to leave office.
vanitybutiwanti: wike was not Amaechis boy, wike was an outstanding LGA Chairman. If it was not for wikes sacrifice, Amaechi won't be Governor and Magnus wouldn't have been secretary to the Government of Rivers State
Stop lying Even Wike knows that he was Amaechi's Boy for 6 years(2007 - 2013) before Amaechi joined APC. Without Amaechi, Wike would not be chief of staff to Amaechi and later, Minister of education under Jonathan.