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heya! i've been a member for a while but just now starting to post.

i bought my bf a macbook pro, a 52 inch flat screen sony tv, $600 worth of shoes, expensive perfume and a ps3 with games and a gshock watch, paid for his car and other things, wut can i say i'm a giver, lol, sad thing all i've gotten in return is a dolce gabanna perfume set and a burberry teddy bear, always claims to be broke

mine is december 12th, anyone?

heya! i've been a member on Nl for a while but havent posted much,  i'm looking to make new friends,  just people i can chat with on facebook, skype or yim,  males and females,  i'm a very friendly person.

thx for the advice. I told him that i dont trust him and he said that he stopped talking to the girl. he says the girl is ulgy and weird and she isnt even a friend. he doesnt know y he was flirting with her but has no interest in her.

i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 months now. we went straight from talking to being in a relationship as he did not want to do the whole dating thing since he said he already knew what he wanted. things have been going good even though we have arguments here and there. He started talking to this girl on skype that his sisters met when they went back home this summer. She really likes him and even said she would be coming to the us this december. I knew they chatted but i thought nothing of it because he would say how she is weird and how he is not attracted to her and said they only spoke once on skype. I recently went on his skype and saw that he has been talking to this chick for weeks, both of em calling each other. he would tell her things like i miss u and i am thinking about u and will kiss u in december. When i confronted him about it, he said he just told her that stuff because she would cry when he wouldnt talk to her, said he didnt mean any of it and would stop talking to her and said i am making a big deal out of it because she is back home, i forgave him and told him if he ever spoke to her again we would be done. On monday he accidentally left his skype on and when i confronted him for talking to her again, he said how his sister was at her house so he was talkin to his sister ad not her, i dont believe him, I love him and dont want to end things but at the same time, i dont trust him. i even offered to give him $2000 for a car next week but this has happened and now idk, HELP!

thx for the advice. him and his ex broke up like 8 months ago. She came back for the summer and they ran into each other and even though she has a bf, she still wants him. we were just talking then when this incident happened and he told me that he wants nothing to do with her and that if he wants her, he can easily have her because she will come to him but he still talks about her alot. Like for ex: he'll always tell me stories about their past, bad and good. when i ask if he misses her, he just says that he just misses some of the things she did and that he was very comfortable in the relationship but doesnt want her.

I have been seeing this guy for about two months. Alot of the time we have been on the phone talking to each other for hours. We always talk about our past r and he always brings up his recent ex all the time. I've began to wonder if he still has feelings for her. I asked him and he said no. He just misses alot of things about the relationship. He broke up with her because she had to go away to school and said she still wants him but he doesnt want her and they dont communicate. My problem is that i feel its heartless for him to always be telling me about his ex. i've told him that and he says he'll stop but he always still brings her up. i really love him but i dont want to get involved with someone who is still thinking about their ex. this is my first serious relationship. Do you guys think he may still have feelings for his ex or is it normal for guys to talk about their exes and miss things about the relationship if they dont have feelings for em? help please.