i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 months now. we went straight from talking to being in a relationship as he did not want to do the whole dating thing since he said he already knew what he wanted. things have been going good even though we have arguments here and there. He started talking to this girl on skype that his sisters met when they went back home this summer. She really likes him and even said she would be coming to the us this december. I knew they chatted but i thought nothing of it because he would say how she is weird and how he is not attracted to her and said they only spoke once on skype. I recently went on his skype and saw that he has been talking to this chick for weeks, both of em calling each other. he would tell her things like i miss u and i am thinking about u and will kiss u in december. When i confronted him about it, he said he just told her that stuff because she would cry when he wouldnt talk to her, said he didnt mean any of it and would stop talking to her and said i am making a big deal out of it because she is back home, i forgave him and told him if he ever spoke to her again we would be done. On monday he accidentally left his skype on and when i confronted him for talking to her again, he said how his sister was at her house so he was talkin to his sister ad not her, i dont believe him, I love him and dont want to end things but at the same time, i dont trust him. i even offered to give him $2000 for a car next week but this has happened and now idk, HELP!

Life is too short for you to give urself stress cus of a dude, if you are having doubts about him den leave him.
At least u'll b saving urself 2grand

I dont trust the guy. three months is not too much for u to give up.

I think u should fasheeee rather than stay and suffer.

Save urself heartbreak in future with him.

the relationship is too young to be having this drama, it might be best for you to get out now since its only three months.

my advice is keep your $2000, he might be using you to just get the money after which he will dump you especially since the girl is coming in December.

MY DEAR, you need to thank God for exposing him at this early stage before it will be to late

You should run while you have the chance. He is lying to you and you know it.
By the way why are you giving him money for a car buying gifts would not garuntee him being faithful to you. Save your money and move on. It would hurt as hell but think of Decmber.

omega25red:

You should run while you have the chance. He is lying to you and you know it.
By the way why are you giving him money for a car buying gifts would not garuntee him being faithful to you. Save your money and move on. It would hurt as hell but think of Decmber.

i concur with the above statement, the guy is obviously deceiving you, its isn't a good sign when a guy starts lying to you over another woman,

Your relationship is only 3mnts and the guy is already trying to cheat
I think you shud break up with . . . SAVE YOURSELF

thx for the advice. I told him that i dont trust him and he said that he stopped talking to the girl. he says the girl is ulgy and weird and she isnt even a friend. he doesnt know y he was flirting with her but has no interest in her.

Now dats a lie he is tryin 2 get away wit it, jvst dump him

Dump him.

@Poster,
Ur b/f is a jerk,can i just get d $2,000?

On a serious note,if the gurl comes in december,something will go down btw both of them.So all u should do is give him d conditions n beliv me,he'll fail to meet them,and so u'll have to decide whether to leave or stay!

sagluva:

thx for the advice. I told him that i dont trust him and he said that he stopped talking to the girl. he says the girl is ulgy and weird and she isnt even a friend. he doesnt know y he was flirting with her but has no interest in her.

@ poster why are you being a donkey are you that deperate for love that you would accept any explanation you are given even if you know the truth your behavior is annoying