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TheTundeMuniru:
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Do na... You can't marry both... Follow your heart and hand the available to me... I don't bite

Why not DM her contact so i can fulfill her dreams... That way it becomes a win-win situation for you both....

Won't make sense for you to ditch her for the new girl.

I rize

TheTundeMuniru:
Alright!

Hey Nairalanders! Lemme put this on here. Two years ago, I was on the street of Lagos working as a Dispatch Rider until I met a certain lady in Lekki who liked my person and wasn't shy to relate with me about how she felt about me. Before I knew it, the lady got me a Room & a Parlour Apartment in the Lekki phase 2 area.

Although, I always have a clear idea of what to do with my life and the resources needed to put my career on sail. As she found out about my lofty ideas, she liked me more and was proud to introduce me to her friends. She got me what I needed, a laptop, an iPhone XR, Wifi router and also credited my account with 300K, not forgetting, she stocked my new apartment with food stuffs, so I have nothing to worry about. I was fully empowered by the lady and I was happy to do what brings out the creativity in me.

I wouldn't say I fell in love with her, but I like and appreciate all she has done on me, and of course, she's head over hills with me. She's obsessed with me, my ways and my doings as I was already making my own money legitimately, earning in multiple streams both in Dollars and Euros. She always bring up the idea of marriage which didn't sit well with me cos the lady isn't the woman of my dreams but I always feel I gotta pay back her kindness in whatever ways possible.

Now, this is the thing. I am in my mid 30s and under crazy pressure from my parents especially my Dad to bring home a wife. Just last Sunday, my Mum called my line saying she found me a lady that I would like a lady who shares the same ideologies as mine and she promised me it will be hard for me to resist her. I laughed hard at her, telling her it won't be possible for her to choose a wife for me, she pleaded with me and assured me that I will like the lady. Okay, as my Mum, I hearken her demands, so I requested to see the lady's picture before having her contact. When she sent the picture, I was wowed by the looks of the lady cos she's so so cute. Well, being cute have never been a requisite for choosing a woman for me.

Furthermore, I requested for her contact to find out who she is and what she stands for, my people, I was blown away by the level of intelligence of the lady. Her mentality and ideas made me realize she's the woman I dreamt of all these years. We became so excited about each other. The lady also lives on the Island and her estate is just a few kilometers from mine. We went on a date last Friday and it is obvious from the look of things that we are gonna be together for long.

Here is my challenge, the first girl who gave me life and set me up for greatness have bigger expectation than what she currently get from our relationship. Although, I never promised her marriage, not even when am drunk. Although, she will make a good wife and probably do everything to satisfy me. But the challenge is she doesn't stand for the same philosophy as me. She knows little or nothing about my life call. As things stands right now, I am richer than her and have a few better connections than she does and she was the reason why I achieved all that I have today.

Now, how do I breakup with the first lady cos I can't stay in a relationship that leads nowhere. Neither do I want to waste her time cos I just wanna comeout plain. I feel some pity and sorriness in my spirit but I don't wanna succumb to it. I know she will be heart broken and I might be a reason why she become vile towards men. I am a bit confused and at the same time lucid about my wants in life.

How do I repay back the first lady? At this junction, I found the woman of my dreams, my parents have been so happy with me than ever before. I need your advice guys.

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Sonnobax15:
ogborigbo .

If to say na orogun he take kill am, nothing wey for stop am from doing burial rites for am

He get luck... I be Orogun man

I've been a prodigal son... Me that usually visits my mom weekly... Been months i last saw her..

Kenobsky:
Oga Na wetin you love most you just vote against with your mouth waaaaaa.
You and Slawormirr Na the same plane carry wuna come naira land.

God abeg o... See me see success... Na u get my phobia? Shuoooo...

Slawomir na my Bendel brother with whom I'm well pleased... Na same plane go carry us comot nairaland when China take over naija...

However what's Clitophobia?

Kokaine:
Who will buy my benz. C180 1999 model

Photo and pictures

Mine is clitophobia...

Make the phobia kuku go round

jeeqaa7:
Which people come carry my guy so?

Wetin your guy do?

[quote author= post=132856170]What Is Really Happening Inside This DELTA[/quote]Nothing

My guy!! Na man you be....

Normally that senior son when dey share yeye bills to you and your co-inlaw is actually the one who's to buy the casket and the goat.

Bro, normally you have no financial obligation to perform as long as that burial is concerned, your only stance is to give financial support to your wife based on the amount them ask her to contribute for the burial. On your part, you only have to go with few of your folks on the burial day to greet as in-law and nothing more...

If your wife wishes to have her own canopy and refreshments for her invited guests, that's where you come in to support her financially.

Again too, since you've tried all available options to quit the marriage and it's not working, just try and make the marriage work. Learn to love your wife. Be careful of the things you say to her, make she nor go poison you and her one day... Say if she can't have you, then no other woman will have you.. Women dey act before them think o...

Just try apologize to your wife... But you see that mumu list, no accept am at all, else na you go chest the full burial expenses...

Senior son when dey dodge responsibility... E dey craze well well... If them no get money for funfare, make them bury their papa like that without anything... Yeye children

BlindAngel:
As I'm talking to you right now, they are saying all manners of words, that I disrespected them and the they won't pity me with the list they'd give me.

That aside, to be brutally honest with you, I didn't mean to disrespect them, I have tried all manner of ways to walk out of this marriage but I don't see that happening. Maybe this will be the deal breaker, I won't do any of what they mentioned, absolutely none. I believe it'd make them hate me and by God's grace I pray and I'm praying hard for them to talk about returning my bride price to me.

AntiChristian:
Pope and his people i think!

Alright...

AntiChristian:
Not much still!

Yea... But who are the citizens of Vatican?

Vatican has risen to 764

AntiChristian:


The total Populations of all these countries put together is not even up to half of that of Lagos!

Costa Rica: 5,137,751
Palau: 17,683
Mauritius: 1,270,123
Iceland: 395,160
Liechtenstein: 39,964
Monaco: 38,525
Panama: 4,515,577
Vatican City: 496
Kiribati: 135,231
Samoa: 218,483
Total= 6,724,954.

Jigawa state alone - 6,979,080 - 2023
Lagos state - 15,772,884 - 2023

It's a blessing

Them suppose arrest the man in the car when video the incident.

Instead of am to use the car threaten the dogs and see how he go help the victim... E dey there dey play music while videoing...

Normally we nor value life for naija. Sad

Nice

Bros abeg qayet and face your business of marrying kids old enough to be ya granddaughters...

When Okowayo was governor, u were mute for good 8yrs... Now you don discover ur ability to speak.. anyways the governor answer u well.. e dey pay d debts ur brother owe full everywhere

Obviouslyblunt:
I asked this question previously, and i got one of the best phones for a second device. Get the Samsung A40, 100k.

Which phone did you get after asking?

TheGift:
Is it the team that made Lybian authorities abandon the team at the airport for 12 hours?

No Sir, but them don too cut my ticket...
However i read it was a pay back similar to what the Libyan team experienced on arrival in naija too

Peterzoom20:
Even if he escaped that night his life would still be in danger in the coming ones, a cultist especially one that's just a foot soldier is always in danger. It's a dark life.

Was told he's not a foot soldier... He was amongst the top echelon of his cult in that town... Own like 2 mansions...

If only he had listened to his wife...

According to feedbacks reaching me, it's a case of cultist fight base on kingship tussle.
This deceased is a knock cultist... Now see where cultism don carry am reach... Sad

Got no rip for em cultist

Overhaul the team

So no more baby shakututututu or SpongeBob

He should come to Warri and stay

My cousin bro wife... Nice one there

Na content

LocalFARMERS:
I still collect half plate of assorted meat pepper soup. This is #500.

This pepper soup na 2500 for my area

Ttipsy:
Iran should rest abeg

I hope USA n Israel will just snub them for peace sake

E go hard for oga Benji to snub them o... Oga Benji nor wan gree for anybody... I just hope Biden sit am down and talk to am make he listen

Exceed15:
What could have killed this fellow hustling to survive

Too many factors...

Could have been the thought of balancing the keke which is on a high..
Pressure from family...
Over thinking...

E no easy ooo

Who come share moi moi or ewa goin?

Sonnobax15:
. Good morning bro.

Na so oh...na God dey steadily dey save us......

As for the yellow Keke,so na that one dey strong pass?

Yes o... Na d yellow strong pass... Pardon my late response