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OK fellas, am back again, I need to ask a question that urgently needs an answer...here it goes...
she started out with this guy lately last year but they are from different tribe, they started talking and all, she was liking him and feeling it was mutual, tins went on like that only for her to later realise it wasn't mutual..she's dumb! yea I know!! but she took up the courage and asked him nd he told her he was sorry, nothing could come up between them and tada! that was the end of the story for them. she was very angry and hurt but she acted all cool anyway...and she moved on. later on, lk shock, anoda guy came but wait till I tell u the most shocking part of it, d guy is a close pal to d oda guy that left...
at first it felt like it was planned but az time goes on, u realized he like her for real and she started falling for him but they were worried bout his frnd, so dey decided to ask for his permission, not that it was compulsory but it was necessary... he said for them to move on anyway....now he's dating(that's the oda guy that left) and I think wat he wanted was a girl from his tribe, who's ready to sex him and all the bull shit....why didn't he fucking say that at the beginning, she wouldn't have loved him anyway...well let's live that for the later...
now she and his friend are going out and if u had earlier followed my topics, u would understand better..
now the questions.....
was it ryt in this first place to av dated him?
is he giving her signs of getting dump soon?
did he really loved her?
just like bubbles, is he gonna disappear too?
nairalanders need your comments on this one, don't crucify pls....

agarawu23:
story in full if u need advice

. follow up on my oda stories pls, do me that favour, you would understand better.. thanks

is it right that he lives his life and she can't live hers? is it ok for her to make the first move by dumping his sorry ass? I need answers nairalander....#peace#..

sometimes life doesn't feel so cool but I thank
God for giving me one..life they say is unfair...but
we cry for the dead...what then has love got to
do with life?...people you love ain't the ones that
loves you and people that loves you ain't the one
u love..trust me on this one cos ama living
witness...but why do dis happen, I tot Disney told
us that there is something like "true love"..well i
believe love exists but true love..nah...today, I
believe that when you truly feel something for
your opposite sex, you just have to let
somethings b, afterall they say and I quote "love
is sacrifice" "love is not about possession" love is
about appreciation" but reverse is the case. some
say u talk bout love like this because you haven't
seen someone that really loves you and I ask
them "what is love" give me a good definition of
relationship" some thinks love is feeling and
relationship is courtship but they know deep
inside them that its more than that...you can't
say u love someone and she keeps begging for u,
you guys are meant to b der for each other....well,
hope you find someone that truly loves you...

love is not about possession. love is about appreciation. Are you appreciating wat u possess?...

she keeps asking herself, "wat would I do to stop loving this guy?" well, maybe wat I need is a little distraction...but it really ain't working for her..he keeps complaining about everything involving her...your hair is old, go make a new one...your nails are dirty,do sometin bout it, your tummy is getting too big, your are dis and DAT....its not that she has nothing to complain bout him but she doesn't like to make him feel bad and she endures all the pain..he can't even introduce her to his frnds as his galfriend...pls wat is she waiting for, well she's hoping bcus she loves him...other guys want her, other guys loves her but she loves this guy....when they started out at first, everything was fine, he loved her lk he shud, then she wasn't gonna have sex wit him and just like bubbles, his love started busting out..he calls her 30secs n dey chat 30mins in 24hrs...she can't love him forever..she's gonna liv him but she still love him...its gonna apen soon anyway....

why can't she just see her Mr right? does she have to keep trying and failure all the way?
does anyone know how she really feel right now? so alone and empty. if you're in the wilderness like her, then you know it can be insane. her eyes are bleeding tears and her smiles are protecting her fears.she cant even go around and fake happiness because she's in stagnation and its hitting her in all direction.
there is this disturbing feeling that time is passing her by, she's paralysed, she's can't think too far, at night she can't sleep too easy because her heart aches from the pain of love.
I say"no single lady owns a guy, talkless of married ones, are men monsters?

there is always a time in your relationship when you start to question certain things, including how your partner truly feels about you, especially at times when the going gets a little tough..
they were in a relationship, she is a v*rgin and he's not close to it..she's an introvert and he's an extrovert....but they love themselves, things were going on well and fine and then he start caring about s*x and wat pple av to say..she is not ready to giv him s*x.and the relationship can't go well without sex but he keeps assuring her that all is well wen his actions speaks otherwise...who is deceiving who?
she can't stay without him, she loves him more than he do and she still can't giv him wat he wants.
she knew all along that he was cheating, but she stayed because she loved him. she never realized he didn't love her back cos definitely "a man who cheats does not love you, he just likes you..
he keeps reminding her that if she doesn't sex him, he would cheat on her with that..but she still stay wit him hoping it won't happen.....
COULD THIS BE LOVE?..