Thank God for men like you.the only people I noticed doesn't like vdm are promiscuous men and women,those engaged in agege activities,fake skin care vendors and those promoting sexual recklessness and nudity on social media e.g blessing, Saida etc.even James brown has started behaving himself and started dressing properly.at least small sanity don enter social media

Dittodat:
This is what I voted for.
An accountable, resourceful, and innovative govt.
Glod bless Tinubu and may God continue to bless Nigeria.

exactly.tinubu dey hold criminals for blokos

Rada Rada

Msheww

Clazzone:
The fact is japa isn't for everybody. You have a name and a celebrity for that matter, he could have leverage on that popularity, create a brand for himself. Abroad doesn't send status. He should be going there for vacation not all these menial jobs.

exactly.even his junior colleagues in the industry sef have made a name for themselves and developed buisnesses that's thriving

People like odunlade adekola has hotels that he's making money from plus he's a brand ambassador of many companies

Iyabo Ojo runs a restaurant which she's leveraging on her name and brand.same with mercy signed she has several clothing lines, boutique and hair businesses including Lizzy anjorin

He would have been financially successful if he stayed back but all of them dey form woke dey japa.now day don break say the grass is green whenever you water it.its not everyone that should go abroad but they won't here.theyll be calling you envious or enemy of progress so make them go see wetin them dey find.nody go tell them

FreeStuffsNG:
Speaking on the perks as well as the disadvantages attached to relocating abroad, especially being a celebrity, Femi Brainard said it is better to be celebrated and be a prince in Nigeria than to move abroad and be a nobody. He also noted that his wife does not love it at all.

Eni awifun Oba je o gbo.

Many of them are so stuck now that they can't even be as sincere to themselves as he is.

It's nothing but a wrong mindset to think that you will resent your own land/ country and expect that you will prosper on that land or overseas, it's impossible!

When you are not blessed in Nigeria, it's not because others are not doing well here in Nigeria, for most of you, you were horribly raised with the wrong mindset and indoctrinated to hate Nigeria by some of your parents who were part of those behind the multiple problems now facing the nation so you ended up and continued your life in a circle of negative minded unpatriotic people. You curse Nigeria, the land curses you back in multiple folds and nothing you sow in the land will prosper but if you bless Nigeria, the land blesses you back in multiples.

Until you wish Nigeria well and do your best in patriotism, you will never be blessed by this land and if you carry your resentment and hatred for Nigeria overseas, the rejection by Nigeria will follow you like your shadow.

The grass is always greener on the other side until you get there. What you are doing here in Nigeria is so valuable that if you nurture it well, you will one day be going overseas for business/ professional travels and enjoy vacations with your family and friends. And even if you still don't go overseas, you will be happy, safe, fulfilled and blessed here in Nigeria.

God bless Nigeria for ever! Check my signature for free stuffs!

exactly.many are still stuck there deceiving themselves and will come to Nigeria to be doing fake life.make them continue.anybody wey use him left hand point him Papa house they always see the repercussions

SonOfDSoil01:
idiat, do you know him personally? How can you be so insensitive to talk recklessly about a total stranger? Just because he is an associate of some you hate. And you made you there spokes person? You are even talking like you gonna live forever, do you even know if you will even drop dead any minute? Keep playing God, idiat😂

again akutuku e Lona orun.motun so lekan si.

If he had positive impact you Will not need to be defending him here.a follower of someone who exploits all the commercial drivers, truck drivers and vendors all over Lagos to live a lavish lifestyle.

Kotuni ragba fun lonaorun.if I see him grave sef I go spit and urinate on top am

Justiceleague1:

Exactly
Everybody knows that...they also settle police and military as well. Bro, Nigeria is a "somehow" place.
It's really horrible raising kids in a country like this.
You are home with your kids and family,no lights.
Outside,some rigg raffs agberoes,area boys are terrorising everybody.....

j remember Coming home from work.from my very before agbero tear police slap

This last year elections too revealed a lot of things.if you notice, people were initially reluctant to come out to vote but it took a lot of begging, electioneering, publicity and convincing to make people come out en masse to vote.the issue of bvas too contributed to reducing the political apathy Ashe politicians had another gimmick up their sleeves.afyer convincing people to come out to vote even when they knew they would ordinarily not and were even assuring the electorate that they'll put in enough security personnels to put thugs and touts at bay,e come reach elections,they flipped the script/agreement or promise on everybody and instead of the police and soildiers protecting the voters,it was the agberos they were protecting.it was so disgusting that it was even the agberos calling the shots and threatening people on who to vote for in the presence of police and soildiers who were right there.i just shook my head and went back home.

I even saw videos were agberos were attacking and assaulting people trying to defend their votes and police were standing there looking like everything was ok.i mean serious attacking o.using matchetes and knives.

So it was at that point I knew even agberos are more powerful than the stage agencies and institutions.remeber the endsars too? They killed innocent protesters, arrested some and freed the agberos that came to create chaos and distort the protest

SonOfDSoil01:
sad yeast savage, they will rejoice over your death soon, since you lack human empathy…Oloriburuku omo Igbo☹️

o please shut up

Of what use was he when he was alive.making commuters experience difficulty in going/Coming back from work/businesses,extorting, assaulting and harassing bus drivers or Street vendors going through stress and pain to put food in their mouth?

Akutuku e lonaorun.good riddance

Justiceleague1:

It's just so unfortunate. The drivers work like crazy everyday and agberoes don't care if he's able to make something at the end of the day cos their own money must be completely paid.
The transport workers and their conductors will only know if they have made any profit by evening time and that is if they escaped bus mechanical faults,police wahala,council wahala,lastman wahala, taskforce wahala...but long before then,the agberoes would've already collected their own money forcefully...

seriously.those agberos are always unfair to those lower than them.they act exactly the same way politicians act.meanwhile it's this same higher agberos that will send them to the roads to milk these drivers dry.

Again agberos are one of the reasons transportation is expensive and when ambode wanted to introduce a decent standard of transportation to stop the agbero exploitation.you need to see how the agberos, traditional rulers and council elders came after ambode and made sure he didn't go for 2nd term and it's the reason why even Jide cannot touch those guys because they have serious state backing even more powerful than Jide

That also made me realise that those agberos are not just delivering to their agbero bosses/state and regional chairmen, they're also delivering to some of these traditional rulers and local/grassroot politicians that don't want to be seen or known

Justiceleague1:
May God have mercy on your soul o...see how well fed he looks...that's how the chairmen agberoes union looks..living so large with mansions everywhere and kids in expensive foreign schools...in sharp contrast to the the hardworking sanfo korope keke drivers and riders who work under the sun everyday and can hardly afford to build a house or send their children to foreign schools.
God have mercy on your soul o.

those agbero dogs operate like Shylock landlords.dey scrape the sweat of those korope and bus drivers to live a luxury lifestyle while those at the lower food chain sleep on bridges and buses

Agbero too get aidee!

Nothing wey person no go see for this country.the other day Na police dey carry politicians wife bag

Nokio2:
If u accuse me of doing what I didn't do
I will later do it to prove both of us right
Sleep on my guy
Last week my colleague say I drink her Hollandia in office fridge
Today she brought another one ,boss is sending her to mile 12...
Holla hollandia..!

all that are just office drama that you can fight and laugh over but sleeping with another person's wife because he accused you of it or encouraging someone to do it doesn't end well

realist34:
OP reeks of immaturity. You will get married one day. if another guy gets close to your wife in such a manner, how would you feel?

if not that the world is perverted and married and unmarried women don turn 2 for ₦5 there's nothing wrong in giving lift or helping each other.thats what makes us human and humane.even animals give their ñeighbors food but in all single men should stay away from married women.their poosy na 3 for 5 ₦naira with baggages and problems

seanery:
Oga..., no be ur faada marry the wife give him.

Distance urself.

Been social and nice get LIMIT.

Even me sef i go para 4u.

No dey carry person wife for motor, talkless of wo
walking side by side with person wife; irrespective of ur purest of mind.

And pls limit ur eating their food, and their closeness with them.
Them be Married women ooo, not ladies.

Mind ur business, and distance urself.

Most men believe that na he dey start..., from gisting to bedroom.

Oga u sef go marry.

Na so e easy to marry Na him men dey marry retired and in service oloshos put for house.yes he lacked boundaries and that is the reason for the rubbish but getting married is not as easy cooking indomie.if it was none of bimbo odukoyas kids should be divorced

Magnificenttop:


Lol.
At least, finally one sensitive, frank advice unlike most comments here doing copy copy and repeating previous comment they read.

exactly.this is another mature advice.

Thank God there are still decent men on this forum

santaclaws:


1. Are you 100% certain that one or both of these women have never given you the green light before? If you've seen a green light from a married woman, the best thing is to japa and dissociate yourself from them cos when the gbege busts, you will bear the majority of the blame. Trust me, when husband and wife palava starts, you will always be the outsider, hence the sacrificial lamb...

2. Try your possible best to avoid those women. If you have female friends or colleagues, let them visit you so that the women can back off a bit. Also when the husbands notice you with younger ladies or females, it would reduce their suspicions cos you can't be sleeping with their wives while bringing home single girls...

3. Try as much as possible to confide in someone mature in the area and tell them what you're facing in the house so you can have someone to defend you in case something else pops up in the future.

4. Finally, always make it a habit to avoid married women in your daily life. You might not have an ulterior motive but they can lure you. I was almost a victim of this if not because I cut ties with the lady... A lot of married women like to lure single men into sex, especially when they notice you don't have a female partner. Most of them were cheating on their husbands before marriage and are still looking for ways to cheat, especially where it's easy for them without the husband suspecting... In all your doings, fear women, especially married women!

this is the best and most mature advice ever.

He has said everything in a wrap and please make sure the person you want to confide in is an older man not an older woman ooo.e get why

Letuspray4niger:
Good day all, please I need ur advice

I’m the only bachelor in my neighborhood, three rented apartments. I’m in between two families, they both have three three kids each, they are all very nice people, they rendered assistance to me in any slightest opportunity that presents itself, they pack my washed clothes under the sun fold it and well arranged before I returned home. They always sweep my surroundings, when they are doing theirs.

One of them, her husband is not always around. He goes and comes once in a while, she will always like to engage me in conversation any little chance she finds me outside, knowing fully well that she is a married woman, I don’t give room for such familiarity, she always offer me food by giving it to her children to give to me. (Make I no lie I need the food cus I no fit cook) I’ll also get things for her children too.

I noticed her getting me food was getting too frequent, I started given her attitude and being very official with her, and she took caution.

The other lady is here with her husband, she will join me in my car if I’m going out maybe coincidentally. It happened she was going to my direction, also, there was a faithful day I left my apartment keys at a barbershop in front of my estate, I came back that evening looking for this barber guy his number was not connecting, I went to my neighbor's house to ask her if he knew where I can find this guy, the man was not in the house, the wife came out that she will lead me to the guys house, and me I don’t know where the guys lives.

On our way going the husband was coming back home, he saw us walking in the street of the estate, he confronted us and we told him, just yesterday I came back at about 11:30pm when this woman with her husband here came knocking at my door that her husband is accusing her of having an affair with me, that he threatened to send her parking if she dares disclose the information to me and it happened that I’m close to the husband, we both discuss about politics a lot, the other neighbor who’s husband is not always around also came out, I had to confront the husband why dragging me into ur family issues did u seen me on top ur wife, why this allegation? He said is his family issue that he will take care of it.

A this point, I’m considering taking a legal action against him for character assassination, did I do wrong for given my Neiboure’s mwife a lift Or asking for where I can locate the barber guy? I’m guilty of this)? The husband has the right to suspect, but since nothing going on between me and his wife what I’m supposed to do, should I proceed with the legal action?

Matured advice please.

my guy please stay away from married Women and reject anything be it food or whatever.i know a lot of new generation married women lack self respect but please keep them at arms length because they come with baggages.dont create room for unnecessary familiarity because as a woman I will tell you married women are extremely dangerous EMPHASIS ON THE WORD EXTREMELY.the day the husband is not at home and she's ho..ney she go bring her poosy come your house and God help you if you turn down her offer.she can accuse you of rape or trying to woo her.

I know what I am saying o.na from bringing food e dey start.afyer that it will graduate to my husband travelled, I'm bored so I just came to gist with you,from there it will extend to the bathroom in our house is faulty,can I bath in yours.

There are a lot of alakoba hoooney married women all over the place and Na bachelor be their targets especially the relatively comfortable ones,when you see them japa o

Again if you don't know how to cook,order food online.they are all over Tiktok depending on where you stay.you can order for a week or month and stock it in the freezer then microwave each portion you want for the day


Married women are bad news whenever it comes to bachelors.if possible warn her not to come except she informs her husband first and if she ever comes call the husband to inform him his wife is here .avoid nonsense

Lastly please work on searching for a decent,self respecting and dignified girlfriend.i don't mean those ones that twerk naked on Instagram because those ones are not even different from married Women.look for a homely girl

Namaster:
Some friends of the deceased alleged that Chidozie was in the habit of beating his wife daily without provocation.

Nothing more to add.

and yet she still stayed there

I'm sure the reasons was
1. What will people say
2.it is better to die a Mrs than to leave a violent marriage
3.if I leave am another woman go come chop am
4.if I leave him who go dey fvck me like him

I have no rip to give a woman who valued her marriage than her life

Ekpekus:
Na wah
What could have caused the fire bayi?
Hope none was hurt...

anyhow behaviour of lagosians.recklessness,chaos and lack of basic social etiquette and consideration for others

YoungLionken:
I seriously pity the man..

pity yourself.theyre both adults who have made their Choice.i am beginning to suspect women being happy makes some of you mad.i thought Jeon and other feminists were extreme and sometimes overdo but with this level of hate on women it seems they're right

Marcus2:
She is Ug lee

to you.not to her husband or loved ones

finallybusy:
She jumped into marriage. She’ll regret, like all women do.

ok so shes not of marriageable age to marry? She should be hoeing about? Na the same Una go bash am if she no marry.make Una rest for this misogyny

DiskJokeyManic:
There is always a man somewhere who will be willing to wife Dem Oloshos😂😂😂😂😂😂

So because she chop breakfast like anybody can suddenly makes her an olosho? Abi would you rather she be a baby mama? Nawa o

Blamelesscompas:
Oloriburuku

why the curses? Doesn't she deserve to move on and have a fresh start?

tiswell:
Very uncultured girl.


Israel should give thanksgiving 🦃 for dodging a missile aimed at destroying him.

uncultured girl indeed but he still dey wail up and down for socio medium

Shebi he talk say 300 girls dey the line dey wait for am, Wetin he still dey wait for.make he select Na

You think say Na only women with bad character dey stay unmarried? uncouth men with no character no fit marry

If he marry 20 times he go divorce 20 times

naija4life247:
After being dumped by the Yahoo Yahoo boy who impregnated her leading to the birth of her bastard children, and after being passed around by the members of Yoruba and Igbo Demons Association (YIDA) like a common intimacy gadget which she is, why won't she be drained hearing or speaking Nigeria's traditional languages.

yes she misyarned but the insults are not necessary

EleventhWeirdo:
I've always suspected that she's senseless. I have been right all along. The same Yoruba that fed and blossomed her acting career

she would have looked wiser if she kept her mouth shut.she used her left hand to point her papa house,to impress who exactly? No idea.

I trust some Yoruba actors and actresses to come for her

sammymax:
I seriously need advice as I really don't know what the right or best thing to do at this time. Please elders in the house be kind enough to suggest what I could do.

I did not think something like this can still happen in this era but this is what I have to deal with. So my mum flat out told me she does not like the girl I took home because she is not fine. About 3years ago when we went home together she told me this but I just disregarded it like when I'm ready she won't have a choice but to accept her as she is. To be honest she is not fine at all but she gives me peace of mind which I feel is the ultimate.

She was involved in an accident with my dad last year and we lost my dad in the process. During the burial I went home with my babe again and my mum still made her displeasure with the girl show.

The thing now is that I went home again to see how she is doing and she called to speak me again after stating that I had disobeyed her by not breaking up with the girl she said is still not having her and if I insist she is the one I should count her out of the marriage. She can never come visiting or even call her. She will not attend the wedding. Now I am 32 and she is 30

How do I navigate this situation. I plead for good advice. Have you been in a similar situation how did you handle it.

if your Mama a woman says she's not fine.imagine how she will look when she's pregnant or after 1 or 2 kids

Imagine how you will feel looking at her face when fvking her

I'm not saying beauty is the only standard to make a marriage work o but if you marry an unattractive woman there are chances that you might cheat on her with a more beautiful babe

Your mom sees what you can't see.i suggest you listen to her.women never finish.at least there are still good women even though the lousy Instagram baddies and disgraceful girls are the ones all over the place walking naked on and off social media

Honesty still pays.i remember how some criminally minded clowns on NL were mocking and insulting him calling him stupid and wishing it was them WHO saw the money and what they could have done with the money.now Na another song they'll be prrtentiously singing.awon alabosi oshi

franugo:
How old is the child first of all...
The parents teally should be glad that he/she was not taken to an enclave

12 years old