₦airaland Forum

Thundafireseun:
A lot of Nigerians and other Africans are still preparing to go to South Africa

I saw one planning and excited to go to South africa and boasting to everyone at work say he dey go South africa for greener pastures. I just shook my head and closed my mouth before they call me bad belle,hater or envious. Them no dey advise people at work if you want peace

Celepope:
Nigeria is really an underdeveloped country. Even the Government house that should have some level of sanity is still being left out. The Government house Security/ Police should have an animal control department that within an hour should have used tranquilizer to control the dog and get it out of the premises. But unfortunately, we’re all in the zoo as usual.

na all this big big English you dey speak for people wey no get sense

Chris225:
It always pisses me off wen issues of family, child upbringing,marriage ,relationship etc is being compared or Europe is being used as yardstick

Those guys have the worst family dynamics
Their kids are wayward most ppl are crazy
Divorce, drugs,woke etc

Economic,population, morality etc are all in decline

them be wannabe oyinbos

They want to be oyinbo so bad

Chris225:
No parents have the right to come to school and assault a teacher in name of "he/she beats my child"

If they have any grievances they can take it up with the appropriate channels

exactly but some people think violence is the only way of expressing their displeasure to the extent of disgracing themselves in their children's school in the presence of their children's peers

RealLordZeus:
Is our Lord not good?
The elders that chose negotiation instead of delivering crushing military force on the riffraffs are being kidnapped by the same entity they are protecting

na so.

The snake they were pampering, covering, making excuses for don grow big enough to bite them.as them no wan gree get sense.shebi them say bandits be their pikin and brothers.na wetin karma be be that

As yorubas will say if there's peace in the home,na the bast@ds there wey never grow up,once them grow up nobody go rest

Mattswaggz:
Awwnnn.....massive improvement and great effort....you're almost there....just keep it up while trying harder Okay. .

lmaooo

This one don dey reach desperate level to cover her embarrassment.

Shame wan choke am

Pele I understand

Very true.it hurts badly

Mattswaggz:
Keep it up.....you're almost there kiddo.... don't stop, keep the firing burning okay. .

pikim wey dey born pikin is in severe pains

The truth hurts,we all know, it tastes bitter abi? na so e suppose be

Yorubas say when you see a f00l,you show it its folly so he go become wise

placeofallure:
Kudos to OP for a job well done. Teachers are seeing premium ṣege from parents cause I'm in the system. I don't know from what lens parents are viewing from; but why would a teacher single out a pupil with the intent of meting out hatred to them? It doesn't make sense!

You see this rot has been in existence for long. I served in the year 2001. We, some Corp members, and I were in the Zonal Inspector's office, and one of us asked me if I could help her with a write-up on culture, a task assigned to her by her boss, who was serving with one of the state commissioners. I don't know why she asked me, but I collected the paper and in a few minutes, I was done. (Those were not AI days). I didn't know the ZI was eavesdropping on me. He asked to see the article afterwards and he nodded appreciatively. He went on to scold my friend wondering why she couldn't write a line by herself.

I became the ZI's unofficial PA, he moved me from my PPA to some place close to his office. I did a lot of stuff for him. I became his friend such that I got away with many things, even going AWOL. He said there's nothing he couldn't do for me. He was stunned that many graduates couldn't even respond to a query. So that rot has been in existence for a long time, and dare I say it's getting worse now. There is practically no part of Nigeria that is untouched by the corruption that we now wear as a tag. Everybody needs to do better.

the way some parents are feeling entitled to gross foolishness, they will soon pay teachers and principals for their kids to be doing exam at home while they're watching TV TV with a glass of drink.nor be all these premature parents wey dey sag trousers again?

Chris225:
Stop using Europe as a moral compass

Europe is in steep decline due to moral decadence

It's annoying u kept using the "Europ" example

What's enviable about their morality ?

no mind .Europe wey don dey turn 3rd world country gradually

Chris225:
The thing is the teachers don't explore legal options cos if they do those parents would also be in jail for assault and battary

exactly o.e don so master them that's why there's an influx of clueless and ignorant parents

Major7:
Thank God we're enjoying democracy,else military regime are more strict with orderliness. I don't support violence as I wasn't brought up in it,my dad only flogged me twice as a child till I grew up cos my parents prefer dialogue. If an adult wants to be treated like one then he/she should act like it

exactly.

flexyrule:
UAdo atata ebot.

First of all, you talked about receiving "emotional quotes" .... But in your post, you said that you will lock up a teacher for cutting your ward's hair.. What do you call that?

Secondly, you are comparing Nigeria to Europe.

Are you in Europe?


Mtcheeewww. You're just making noise man!

leave am make he dey boast

Na for social media chicken dey boast of having teeth and cats boasting of flying

Mattswaggz:
Was such contract agreed upon by the school authorities and the parents to barb their child without their consent or there any law that permits such in Nigeria?.

And also stop dodging my question and get straight to the point let me know the kind of person I am dealing with.....are you in support of extrajudicial justice system....Yes or No?.

if there was an existing law and the parents were informed but they still chose to disobey,why cry if e pain the parents that much take the matter to court.its as simple as that

Na because we dey in a generation where pikin dey born pikin na wetin cause all these tears

Mattswaggz:
Lol.....keep it up okay you'll soon be able to sleep better at night....this is called classic creating one's happiness....keep the entertainment going kiddo you'll soon be there. .

I slept like a beautiful princess but I can't say the same about you since you've been doubling down on your tears,trying to push for parents disgracing themselves in their children's schools

Parents that need parenting themselves

And for the records, my children are in the university behaving decent and self respecting.results I get from their lecturers.i don't need to go to their school because I raised independent, decent,sensible children not the ones dressing like touts from secondary school with scruffy hair


You sef try and rest.you don try

Oyinbo wannabe, rest,you hear

Host78:
You like to imagine things because you think you're educated or enlightened

Take a seat

lol she go explain taya

You go know say e really pain am gir body

Fake woke mothers everywhere.trying to form western parenting by force

Ajoself:
I had the opportunity to be a part-time teacher in a private school. The problem is from the school (private) and the parents. If one school did not promote a child another school would accept the child with open arms. Parents do not even monitor their children school notes and assignments believing it is the work of the teacher. The reality is after school hours, the work of the teacher is closed till the next school day.

exactly

Host78:
If your child's hair is cut in primary school it always mean one thing: it was bushy and unkept.

Most of us that grew up in the village know this. Every Monday was inspection day where they check your uniform to see if it's clean, your nails to see if it's short and your hair and teeth.

Teaching goes beyond ABCD. The teachers also want these kids to be healthy.

As a parent if you fail in this responsibility, your kids will often bear the repercussions. In those days, they will use a metre rule to flog your nails or carry a scissors to scatter the hair. If the use the scissors to make two lines in front of the bushy hair, the kid becomes ashamed of his scattered hair, forcing the parent to barb the hair.

This is why I'm not taking this mother seriously because if she loved her child as much as she want us to believe, he'll not be going to school with bushy and dirty hair and nails.

She's a terrible mother and it's reflecting on the kid.

those were when mothers were mothers,not the type of apology we have now,especially the one crying from page to page deceiving herself

Mattswaggz:
You can keep on insulting me and answer the question while at it......are you the kids god......from your write up you were creating an impression that any kid that doesn't follow ur so called discipline will end up as a very terrible person in life.... someone that can end up keeling their guardian.....and I asked if you're anyone's god then you're suddenly getting all worked up. .

Stop deceiving yourself.....life isn't the Nollywood that have brainwashed U......you're not Mr know it all and should you cross your boundaries you'll be well dealt with accordingly.

keep crying here

Na una type go dey find lawyers and therapist. E pain you abi?

No train your child you hear,na the child go train you

Mattswaggz:
When you're done spewing the gibberish that has nothing to do with the post nor my question then you should come back to reality and answer appropriately......are you in support of extrajudicial justice system and would like to be a victim of it with your entire household eh mini Yekini?.

I support appropriate discipline of a child and if you know you don't want that for your child, home school your child yourself

Host78:
They feed kids junk because they think it's enjoyment.

You'll hear "I want to give my kids the kind of life I never had"

These little children become obese and are made fun of in the class. Worst, they can't even do what other kids are doing.

To any parent out there, you turned out fine, trust me, your kids will turn out better if you don't indulge them.

It's the kind of life you wanted. Your kids didn't tell you they wanted the kind of life you never had.

This is why some rich people have their kids spoilt and they tend to hate them because they ene up forcing "the enjoyment life" they imagine they would have wanted in their own childhood on the innocent kid.

Because you think "oh my parents should have protected me, or my parents should not have allowed any teachers to touch me" doesn't mean it's the best life for your kids.

Some of you parents need to grow up

leave them,make them dey argue blindly

Them no dey tell person

SixSeven:
All of you keep bringing your rules in defence of your children but don't think about when the child will become an adult and have to follow rules. Parents today want to use their adult profile for their children so of course, no one can help you parent your own child because only you can be the adult to speak to them and correct them YOUR WAY. Everyone else is not qualified to do it. The village did not raise the child by mistake but keep it up, na you go de there for your child 24/7.


No wonder society is having more problems than it can handle. I would let you know that your child will watch how you solve the problem and learn from you. Teacher no teach me nonsense.

leave them. Them go meet their results when the child enter university shebi na for this generation pikin dey slap him mama for Public, na this same generation pikin dey beat him mama say she no quick cook him food. shey teacher go dey there when the pikin begin dey disgrace them.just enter private universities, you go see the results of their sick parenting. You will see their kids doing drugs and all mannerif foolishness

Some will graduate and can't keep a job.abeg na because of their type lawyers dey cash out .they'll need the services of a lawyer and therapist when they see the result of an over indulgent kid

Mattswaggz:
So you're now supporting extrajudicial justice system right.....don't complain when it comes for you.....I pray it'll come to you soonest so you can enjoy it to the fullest.

na them

Na those mothers wey go buy 1 carton of popcorn, ice cream ,indomie and all manner of junks and then be wondering why the child's attention span is low,why she's lazy,dull and not bright .all they want their kids to do is dance on tiktok all day,eat, watch TV,sleep.reading to them is punishment and doing assignments is abusive.

Coming to class late is good sef in their own dictionary. Wonkin shoromo

Mattswaggz:
Lol....because without you the child won't make it in life right?....kuku declare yourself the child's god na.

If you don't know your boundaries as a teacher then why not try another profession....or is it because you're in a third world country where anything goes that you're saying all this thrash?.

like I said IF I WAS A TEACHER


Obviously you're guilty of what I wrote because if not why are you this triggered and aggressive? I said what I said. I no hide mouth talk am,I talk am fully .you can raise you child however way you want, abi na my jajaina you take born am? Wetin be my own


Again you said another amusing thing that without you he can't make it in life? Joker.pupils spend more time in school with their teachers and peers than with their parents, teachers literally raise these kids and notice when they're sick,develop a bad behaviour or habit or are going through anything even before their parents realise it,so you're free to treat your children's teachers anyhow. Slap them sef if you like. And as for boundaries, you must be sick for you to attempt to twist my words and gaslight me.like I said,every teacher must know his boundaries, if a pupil doesn't want to learn,why are you doing too much by forcing the child to learn, leave him for his parents na.is it until the child lie on top your head say you are molesting or abusing her shoou

If I'm a teacher and you dare confront me to the extent of attacking assaulting or embarrassing me,that will be the end of me showing interest,care or concern towards your child. If e like make he sick,fail,pass,join cult,join bad gang,smoke igbo I no go even say anything. No advise,no correction, na look I go dey look am until he either disgrace you or k1ll you. I will literally wash hand for your pikin matter.whether he fail or pass e no consain me.i will watch him deteriorate.i will watch him make child like mistakes and never correct him till he destroy himself.

There are ways you can correct or complain to a teacher when you are not pleased with what happens to your kids but violence isn't 1 of it.if I see say a child get violent and obnoxious parents. Na to leave that child o.

As a teacher you must understand 1 thing,you cannot be over zealous over another person's child especially in this type of generation. You can't love another person's child more than the way the parents love then make you no go enter problem way go make you explain taya. When it comes to other peoples children you have to be very wise ,have boundaries and don't overdo .that's why even though I'm not a teacher as a standing rule I no dey allow make person drop him pikin for my house say he dey go anywhere because even as a teacher if you're a man and you're doing extra classes with a child even when she doesn't want it,she fit frame you up or lie on top your head say you're sexually molesting or harassing her or touching her inappropriately if you are a male teacher and if you are a female teacher and you are forcing a child to do extra lessons, they might say you're physically or mentally abusing the children


Leave useless children for their parents o,make you no go explain taya.yoruba say iya tobabimo oran lomapon.children of this generation are more dangerous than you think

Listen to men say at your own risk instead of watching what they do.its men that will say they want decent, homely women.it doesn't matter what she has or doesn't have and cheat on her with the same vulgar women aka slay queen's they criticise from Jan to Dec

It's them that will say they don't want liability but if they see a working class woman they'll tell her to resign

Na them go call woman wey no dey work lazy and the 1 wey dey work unsubmissive.

Listen to men say at your own risk

Drforsuiciders:
Aunty for d brother-man to tell u to resign, either he has seen things that kept u single until ur menopause day or he is just an unfornate idiot.
Bcs all these daughter of eve can lie for Africa snd still play d victim card

wicked man.in this tinubu era you want her to resign abi. Una no dey ever disappoint with una selfishness.

Madam if you like allow dracula push you to where you nor know. Na the same men go insult you if you dare complain whether anybody force you to marry or force you to resign

Abi you want to depend on him financially after you resign so 1 day he go call you liability or alumanjiri

Continue listening to men instead of their actions. You will see film


In this 2026 tinubu era you wan resign?

The way sapa go hold you henn.if you like throw away everything you have worked for