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#100 Facts You Didn't Know About Words. THE MOST NEGLECTED BUILDING BLOCK TO A SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND A HAPPY HOME. Life's most neglected building block to a successful life and career is our choice of words. Talk is cheap to come by, but the end product is quite huge and expensive. Ever wondered what happens to an ongoing building project where the necessary materials or bricks that would ensure that the building stands strong with the test of time after its completion is neglected? Certainly the future of the building is bleak; eventual collapse is inevitable. Words are the chief raw material needed in the building and successful completion of any project in our lives. Building your marriage with the right kind of language. A marriage that lacks positive communication channel, is as good as a marriage that's experiencing communication breakdown. Separation or divorce is not far fetched in such marriage. Some husband finds it difficult to tell the wife how much he loves her. The simple words "I Love You", becomes a commodity that is scarce in every day vocabulary of both partners. Little did they know that, while they were courting, one of the things that made the relationship romantic was the constant use of the word "I love you" in their day to day conversations. And now that they are married, instead of loving words, its been replaced with words of hate, shouting at every slight provocation, suspicions etc. One of the effective solutions to marital crisis is to learn to forgive, re- introduce and increase the "I love you'" language in your communications with your spouse, act and shower her with love and then regain your marriage. Building your Career with Words A lady that's dreaming of a successful career in her chosen profession that is also gifted in the art of negative talking is only having a 'nightmare'. Every successful career has always been made possible with a right and positive attitude. A successful sales person is one with the necessary knowledge, skills and regular trainings received in the field of sales and marketing. But this is not enough for him or her to become a success. Without acquiring a positive attitude needed to make success from this area, will eventually make him or her a failure regardless of the number of qualifications attained. A positive attitude entails thinking and talking right. That is, been positive at all times regardless of pressure, or opposition in the course of your work. Am yet to find a very successful career person who is a negative talker. There is a saying that "the walls has ear", so also every issues that is of concern to us has ears. Building your finances You need positive words to build your financial life. Example, your finances has an ear. What are you always saying about your finances? When you always complain about your finances, you are calling in hard times. Stop saying you are broke! You may say, its just a sentence to explain your immediate financial situation, but you are in real sense strengthening financial lack in your life. Rather you say, "I am rich!" Or, "I am experiencing some temporal financial challenge". Staying healthy Learn to always talk health and not sickness. Most people are cautious of the meals they take just to be healthy, others are on pills in other to stay healthy or to recover from a failed health. But how many of these people learn to always talk sound health always and not sickness. Many of us don't know that positive words is the best medicine. When you are always speaking right words that strengthens the spirit, your spirit is energised to withstand attacks on your health thereby making you healthy always. Lastly, you can't always talk right and act wrong! You can't be a positive thinker and talker and live a negative lifestyle!! And you can not be a positive person and possess a negative attitude at the same time!!!. |
#100 Facts You Didn't Know About Words. THE MOST NEGLECTED BUILDING BLOCK TO A SUCCESSFUL LIFE. . Life's most neglected building block to a successful life and career is our choice of words. Talk is cheap to come by, but the end product is quite huge and expensive. Ever wondered what happens to an ongoing building project where the necessary materials or bricks that would ensure that the building stands strong with the test of time after its completion is neglected? Certainly the future of the building is bleak; eventual collapse is inevitable. Words are the chief raw material needed in the building of any project in our lives. Building your marriage with the right kind of language. A marriage that lacks positive communication channel, is as good as a marriage that's experiencing communication breakdown. Separation or divorce is not far fetched in such marriage. Some husband finds it difficult to tell the wife how much he loves her. The simple words "I Love You", becomes a commodity that is scarce in every day vocabulary of both partners. Little did they know that, while they were courting, one of the things that made the relationship romantic was the constant use of the word "I love you" in their day to day conversations. And now that they are married, instead of loving words, its been replaced with words of hate, shouting at every slight provocation, suspicions etc. Re-introduce and increase the "I love you'" language in your communications with your spouse, act and shower her with love and regain your marriage. Building your Career with Words A lady that's dreaming of a successful career in her chosen profession that is also gifted in the art of negative talking is only having a 'nightmare'. Every successful career has always been made possible with a right and positive attitude. A successful sales person is one with the necessary knowledge, skills and regular trainings received in the field of sales and marketing. But this is not enough for him or her to become a success. Without acquiring a positive attitude needed to make success from this area, will eventually make him or her a failure regardless of the number of qualifications attained. A positive attitude entails thinking and talking right. That is, been positive at all times regardless of pressure, or opposition in the course of your work. Am yet to find a very successful career person who is a negative talker. There is a saying that "the walls has ear", so also every issues that is of concern to us has ears. Building your finances You need positive words to build your financial life. Example, your finances has an ear. What are you always saying about your finances? When you always complain about your finances, you are calling in hard times. Stop saying you are broke! You may say, its just a sentence to explain your immediate financial situation, but you are in real sense strengthening financial lack in your life. Rather you say, "I am rich!" Or, "I am experiencing some temporal financial challenge". Staying healthy Learn to always talk health and not sickness. Most people are cautious of the meals they take just to be healthy, others are on pills in other to stay healthy or to recover from a failed health. But how many of these people learn to always talk sound health always and not sickness. Many of us don't know that positive words is the best medicine. When you are always speaking right words that strengthens the spirit, your spirit is energised to withstand attacks on your health thereby making you healthy always. Lastly, you can't always talk right and act wrong! You can't be a positive thinker and talker and live a negative lifestyle!! And you can not be a positive person and possess a negative attitude at the same time!!!. |
#100 Facts You Didn't Know About Words. The most neglected building block to a successful life. Ever wondered what happens to an ongoing building project where the necessary materials or bricks that would ensure that the building stands strong with the test of time after its completion is neglected? Certainly the future of the building is bleak; eventual collapse is inevitable. Words are the chief raw material needed in the building of any project in our lives. Building your marriage with the right kind of language. A marriage that lacks positive communication channel, is as good as a marriage that's experiencing communication breakdown. Separation or divorce is not far fetched in such marriage. Some husband finds it difficult to tell the wife how much he loves her. The simple words "I Love You", becomes a commodity that is scarce in every day vocabulary of both partners. Little did they know that, while they were courting, one of the things that made the relationship romantic was the constant use of the word "I love you" in their day to day conversations. And now that they are married, instead of loving words, its been replaced with words of hate, shouting at every slight provocation, suspicions etc. Re-introduce and increase the "I love you'" language to your spouse and regain your marriage. Building your Career with Words A lady that's dreaming of a successful career in her chosen profession that is also gifted in the art of negative talking is only having a 'nightmare'. Every successful career has always been made possible with a right and positive attitude. A successful sales person is one with the necessary knowledge, skills and regular trainings received in the field of sales and marketing. But this is not enough for him or her to become a success. Without acquiring a positive attitude needed to make success from this area, will eventually make him or her a failure regardless of the number of qualifications attained. A positive attitude entails thinking and talking right. That is, been positive at all times regardless of pressure, or opposition in the course of your work. Am yet to find a very successful career person who is a negative talker. There is a saying that "the walls has ear", so also every issues that is of concern to us has ears. Building your finances You need positive words to build your financial life. Example, your finances has an ear. What are you always saying about your finances? When you always complain about your finances, you are calling in hard times. Stop saying you are broke! You may say, its just a sentence to explain your immediate financial situation, but you are in real sense strengthening financial lack in your life. Rather you say, "I am rich!" Or, "I am experiencing some temporal financial challenge". Staying healthy Learn to always talk health and not sickness. Most people are cautious of the meals they take just to be healthy, others are on pills in other to stay healthy or to recover from a failed health. But how many of these people learn to always talk sound health always and not sickness. Many of us don't know that positive words is the best medicine. When you are always speaking right words that strengthens the spirit, your spirit is energised to withstand attacks on your health thereby making you healthy always. |
I shall be treating and listing often on this platform, in coming days, ' one hundred' facts you may not know about the Power of words. Our words are so loaded with power. We can change and transform our lives by just saying the right things. The holy scripture declared that "death and life resides in the tongue", meaning, the words we speak, has the ability to cause death or bring life. In fact, our Lord Jesus says "we shall all give account of the words we speak." ( Proverb 18:21, Matthew 12:36). #100 facts on Words. Words are containers for Power. How many of us realise that what we are today is a product of words? Too many are struggling under the destiny crushing power of negative words spoken to them when they were young by their parents, teachers, or someone that had an influence over them or even spoken by themselves. These words might have been said with no intention to harm the victim, but was said out of provocation. I know a lady who was told by her dad on her first date at age 18 that she was too ugly for any man to want her hand in marriage. She later experienced a lot of broken relationships such that every man that asks her hand in marriage, would renege when it was time to tie the knot. It was only at her early fifties she discovered that it was her father's words that was working against her. Words are not mere letters, they are carriers of power. I know a guy in his second year, who was told by his lecturer that he will never graduate from the institution he was in. After many struggles to graduate with his colleagues, he dropped out in his final year for reasons beyond his control. If only we realise how powerful our words can be, we'll be very cautious of what comes out of our mouth. And if there's anyone going thru this post and suffering because of wrong words spoken into his/her life, I ask that the Lord Jesus set such person free right now in Jesus name. I strongly recommend you see a genuine minister of the gospel for counselling if you are convinced you are a victim of the power of evil words. |