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Point To Consider When Building A Successful Home. by samblessed: 8:12am On Jun 18, 2015
#100 Facts You Didn't Know About Words.

THE MOST NEGLECTED BUILDING BLOCK TO A
SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND A HAPPY HOME.

Life's most neglected building block to a successful
life and career is our choice of words. Talk is cheap to
come by, but the end product is quite huge and
expensive.
Ever wondered what happens to an ongoing building
project where the necessary materials or bricks that
would ensure that the building stands strong with the
test of time after its completion is neglected? Certainly
the future of the building is bleak; eventual collapse is
inevitable.

Words are the chief raw material needed in the
building and successful completion of any project in our lives.

Building your marriage with the right kind of
language.

A marriage that lacks positive communication
channel, is as good as a marriage that's experiencing
communication breakdown. Separation or divorce is
not far fetched in such marriage.
Some husband finds it difficult to tell the wife how
much he loves her. The simple words "I Love You",
becomes a commodity that is scarce in every day
vocabulary of both partners. Little did they know that,
while they were courting, one of the things that made
the relationship romantic was the constant use of the
word "I love you" in their day to day conversations.
And now that they are married, instead of loving
words, its been replaced with words of hate, shouting
at every slight provocation, suspicions etc.
One of the effective solutions to marital crisis is to learn to forgive, re-
introduce and increase the "I love you'" language in
your communications with your spouse, act and
shower her with love and then regain your marriage.

Building your Career with Words

A lady that's dreaming of a successful career in her
chosen profession that is also gifted in the art of
negative talking is only having a 'nightmare'. Every
successful career has always been made possible
with a right and positive attitude.
A successful sales
person is one with the necessary knowledge, skills
and regular trainings received in the field of sales and
marketing. But this is not enough for him or her to
become a success. Without acquiring a positive
attitude needed to make success from this area, will
eventually make him or her a failure regardless of the
number of qualifications attained. A positive attitude
entails thinking and talking right. That is, been
positive at all times regardless of pressure, or
opposition in the course of your work. Am yet to find a
very successful career person who is a negative
talker.

There is a saying that "the walls has ear", so also
every issues that is of concern to us has ears.

Building your finances

You need positive words to build your financial life.
Example, your finances has an ear. What are you
always saying about your finances? When you
always complain about your finances, you are calling
in hard times. Stop saying you are broke! You may
say, its just a sentence to explain your immediate
financial situation, but you are in real sense
strengthening financial lack in your life. Rather you
say, "I am rich!" Or, "I am experiencing some temporal
financial challenge".

Staying healthy

Learn to always talk health and not sickness. Most
people are cautious of the meals they take just to be
healthy, others are on pills in other to stay healthy or
to recover from a failed health. But how many of these
people learn to always talk sound health always and
not sickness.
Many of us don't know that positive words is the best
medicine. When you are always speaking right words
that strengthens the spirit, your spirit is energised to
withstand attacks on your health thereby making you
healthy always.

Lastly, you can't always talk right and act wrong!
You can't be a positive thinker and talker and live a
negative lifestyle!!
And you can not be a positive person and possess a
negative attitude at the same time!!!.
Re: Point To Consider When Building A Successful Home. by volcanoash(f): 10:02am On Jun 18, 2015
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Re: Point To Consider When Building A Successful Home. by Nobody: 10:20am On Jun 18, 2015
You have some really nice points but you should have made your write up more readable. ..

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