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HealthRe: Baldness: Any Help? by Samotobor1(m): 7:03am On Oct 15, 2013
D solution is steady bololo coupled with wearin of caps/hats..u can ask 2baba sha
EducationRe: ASUU Strike: Lecturers Map Out Strategies To Survive Fg’s ‘no Work No Pay’ by Samotobor1(m): 9:13am On Oct 14, 2013
4 sale..jst a token
TravelRe: A Nairalanders Trip To Obudu Cattle Ranch by Samotobor1(m): 8:28am On Oct 13, 2013
Make sense
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Single And Lonely by Samotobor1(m):
Hmm..
EducationRe: ASUU/FG Face-off: Private Varsities’ Vcs Callfor Truce by Samotobor1(m): 4:31am On Sep 26, 2013
Ok na..
PoliticsRe: Delta Most-wanted Kidnapper Ibruvwe Arrested by Samotobor1(m): 7:10pm On Sep 25, 2013
Wahala dey o
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Fulham (2 - 0) On 21st September 2013 by Samotobor1(m): 7:23pm On Sep 21, 2013
Mikel don score o..hehehehe
EducationRe: What Cgpa Indicate In Your Schools That You Are In 1st Class,2nd Or 3rd Class by Samotobor1(m): 7:57am On Sep 21, 2013
Meet ur course adviser
EntertainmentRe: Nobody Delivered Baby On Board In Our Flight – Arik by Samotobor1(m): 9:32am On Sep 17, 2013
We don hear
TravelRe: Nobody Delivered A Baby On Board Our Flight - Arik Air by Samotobor1(m): 9:31am On Sep 17, 2013
Nawa o
EducationRe: 2013 Shell Geosciences Summer School by Samotobor1(op):
Ol
RomanceRe: Let's Solve The "Husband Scarcity" Syndrome. by Samotobor1(m): 3:06pm On Sep 07, 2013
hrmkz: Let get serious and proffer solution to these lingering issue.

There are 2 categories of ladies that is mostly affected.
(A) Ages 20yrs to 30yrs- this age is when u should ensure you are in the right relationship and after fun, you need not make huge demands from your man and accept his financial standard. The shopping, cinema's and eatery things should be from him and not you insisting. You can even decline some of his offers to take you by simply saying "instead of eating out today again, why don't you take me to market so I can prepare you a good meal".
Be concerned about his prospects, his future,advice on how he can improve on his weakness and take interest in him being succesfull no matter what.
When you guys talk about marriage, he will be willing and optimistic since his "wife to be is not finacially inclined", and when he eventually get rich...you will both enjoy the wealth.

(B) This ladies of above 30yrs...now let say this " what am going to say here is strictly my opinion".

It is only in Nigeria and some few countries that we plague the above 30yrs women, we detest them and make fun of them where they are not all at fault.
So,what is the solution for these women to get married?
The only one I can think of is polygamy... Yes, POLYGAMY.
At that age, majority of the suitors that would come are married men, many of whom want to chop and clean mouth, it is now left to you to play your cards wisely, meet his sexual demands and fill in the gaps, where the wife is not meeting up.
Accept to be a second wife if you meet a man who wishes to have one, or make yourself a second wife by being pregnant. Never go diabolical to achieve this, use your woman "power",It not a curse to be a second wife.
Again, be nice to his first wife if eventually you become the second, you need not treat his first wife and children badly either and be submissive...this is Africa.

Like I wrote above, being a second wife and having your kids is better to remain single. Am not saying you cannot find a single guy to date you but we all know the chances are very slim.
Most family in Nigeria and Africa will never allow their son to marry and older woman.

Let me allow peoples contribution before saying more..
yes!polygamy..isaiah 4vs 1 confirmed dis(end time tinz)
CelebritiesRe: Psquare Peter & Paul Okoye Sworn In As Honorary Calgarians In Canada (photos) by Samotobor1(m): 6:05am On Sep 06, 2013
Etumgbe: After an amazing concert in Canada, Nigeria's top singing twins Peter and Paul Okoye were presented with their own official white hats and sworn in as honorary Calgarians - an honour bestowed on foreigners of exceptional merit.
Officially making them the newest cowboys in town! Big congrats to them.
congrats
BusinessRe: Miners And Solid Mineral Enthusiasts by Samotobor1(m):
Ol
BusinessRe: Miners And Solid Mineral Enthusiasts by Samotobor1(m): 6:33am On Aug 26, 2013
Ok..
CelebritiesRe: FG Partners D’banj, PMAN On Fascinating Nigeria Project. by Samotobor1(m): 6:47am On Aug 25, 2013
Welcum initiative
NYSCRe: NYSC Gets Software To Check Mistakes In Data Collation by Samotobor1(m): 12:35pm On Aug 21, 2013
Ok....
SportsRe: Nigeria Premier League Seals 5.2billion Naira Deal by Samotobor1(m): 10:20pm On Aug 19, 2013
Okk..we don hear
SportsRe: Where Does Blessing Okagbare Go From Here? by Samotobor1(m): 3:08pm On Aug 19, 2013
Space booked
CelebritiesRe: Majek Fashek Chained In White Garment Church In Badagry by Samotobor1(m): 12:19pm On Aug 19, 2013
Raining season is nt always gud 4 pple lyk him..kasala dn burst
EducationRe: 2013 Shell Geosciences Summer School by Samotobor1(op):
Ol
EducationRe: 2013 Shell Geosciences Summer School by Samotobor1(op): 4:50pm On Aug 14, 2013
Delsu representa alongside seven others(includin five rockites)..
EducationRe: 2013 Shell Geosciences Summer School by Samotobor1(op): 10:49pm On Aug 02, 2013
Uwc
Education2013 Shell Geosciences Summer School by Samotobor1(op):
Ol
CareerRe: 5 Things Every Unemployed Nigerian Graduate Should Know! by Samotobor1(m): 12:22am On Jul 23, 2013
Make real sense..1st 2 comment
EducationDelsu Utme/direct Entry Venue/seat Number Is Out by Samotobor1(op):
Good
PoliticsRe: Senator Representing Delta Central-Senator Puis Ewherido is dead by Samotobor1(m): 6:30pm On Jun 30, 2013
So bad..rip senator
Jobs/VacanciesRe: What Course Would You Not Advise Anyone To Study? by Samotobor1(m):
Ol

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