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Thanks @OP. This is a great piece. About 2 years ago, a friend told me how he bought a car after selling some domain names but didnt really understand

Bollinger:
You mean the oyibo people in Abakaliki right?

No, in Jalingo

It is what we call spiritual husband and spiritual wife in Africa. Even the oyinbo people believe in it. It is very real.

peeps4u:
You just commented on the same thread

Holy sh1t, I dont know this guy from anywhere o. Thanks bro.

Guys, I dont know this guy. He just copied my post from another thread on Nairaland and pasted it here

Here is the link to the original thread: https://www.nairaland.com/4277990/neighbour-whose-husband-abroad-wants

GiantParrot:
@OP, It's obvious you have put some thought into this. I'll advise you consider the following too:

1. She has taken marriage vows. We are not much different from instinctive crude beasts with no sense of discipline or honour if we can't even stick to our own vows and commitments. You shouldn't be an accomplice in the violation of her vows.

2. Once you have her, you will no longer be the same person. You would have seared your conscience, and would henceforth begin to justify wrong or ill-advised actions as okay. You won't run out of excuses to do so. You will come out a worse person, and will know deep down that you are undeniably deficient in character.

3. Although she might be very attractive, the sexual experience could be nothing to write home about, and therefore not worth the hassle. Even if it turns out to be very pleasing, it would only be a matter of time before you get used to it. What's next after then? Is a few weeks or months of pleasure worth the loss of the person you have become?

4. You could get an STI. Not all that glitters is gold.

5. You could be setting the stage for unnecessary complications in your life.
-You may get tired of the whole thing at some point, but she may be unwilling to let go, and may begin to feel used. Yes, women have emotions and insecurities, and hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
-The 10 year old kid could grow up, find out, and hate you and the mother.
-The husband could show up at any time and who knows what his reaction would be when he finds out. She may promise you her silence. But a weak and guilt-stricken moment can cause her to reveal her sins to her husband. People have been killed for less.
-She could get pregnant. And so on.

6. No one can tell how far the tales about your escapade with a married woman can go. People have lost life changing opportunities for less.

7. There are over a million attractive single women out there.

Wow! The best analysis into this topic so far. Thanks. I think I will just take to my heels.

peeps4u:
Hello samtoles, someone is opening another thread on your matter, na u send am?

Could you mention me in that thread?

bloodmoneyspita:
if she tells you everything and is close to you then there are chances people in the compound think you guys are dating already.

Yes, this is correct. Another neighbour (Married man) who is a close friend has asked me severally if I am shagging her and claim other neighours think there is something between us.

I have a beautiful, curvy, tall and fair woman in my compound. Her husband has been in America for 2 years without visiting once. She is clearly sex deprived. I am the only barchelor in the compound. She a 10 year old kid.

This woman has given me too many green lights. It is just too clear that she wants to sleep with me, but I can see she is kind of careful cos of fear of rejection. She discusses everything in the world with me including how she misses sex and doesnt mind cheating on her husband. She didnt tell me or show me directly that she wants to sleep with me but from her expression and our discussion, everuthing points towards that direction.

I have reprimanded guys who have slept with married women and would tell others not to indulge in such, but sincerely I am in a dilemma here. This woman is too beautiful to ignore and coupled with the fact that the husband hasnt been around. I am tempted to show her some real good signs too and just sleep with her. Plus some other benefits will follow: She is the richest in the compound, a big business woman, drives the best car et al.

I know most of you will ask why I have come here since I already want to do it. Well, I just need some people to give me reason why I shouldnt maybe that would keep my mind off it.

Writing....

God catch them...Happy news

The troops recovered Honda Accord car, one mobile telephone handset, 4 MTN, 1 Airtel Subscribers identified module (SIM) cards, 1 micro SD card, a national identity card, an INEC voters registration card, a Miyetti Allah cattle Breeders’ Association of Nigeria Identity Card, United Bank for Africa and Keystone Bank Debit Cards, cash sum of Twelve Thousand, Seven Hundred and Ten Naira (N12,710.00k) and a Notebook containing several names, addresses and telephone numbers of kidnap victims families and relations. The suspects are currently being investigated.

Cattle rearers again abi....

She is beautiful, but certainly not the most beautiful...I have fvcked one babe more stunning than her

Okay na

Jesus!!

Category1:
[size=19pt]he's an Igbo man[/size]

Benson is a LAGOS surname.

Congrats bro...But its not about the award, its about getting funds from the man who is worth 56 billion USD. If its not making money its not making sense. Would be a happier news if Zuck can pay 3 mil dols to own 40 percent of the guy's business.

Please, is there anyone or anyone who knows anyone who is in the business of car hire purchase? I need used and clean Toyota Corolla car from 2005 model and upwards. I need someone who can leave the car for me to pay instalmentally till payment is complete and I own the car.

Please, is there anyone or anyone who knows anyone who is in the business of car hire purchase? I need used and clean Toyota Corolla car from 2005 model and upwards. I need someone who can leave the car for me to pay instalmentally till payment is complete and I own the car.

Ay, the most boring Nigerian comedianpreneur

Oya. Good one. Aregbe, somehow you will always find yourself in the media. If you are absent, your aids will help you.