₦airaland Forum

TechToyin:
This morning I woke up on the bright side, hopeful about starting my journey after NYSC.

I saw the notice about Kaduna Polytechnic and prepared myself fully. I borrowed ₦5,000 just for transport and photocopying, since they said we must bring 10 photocopies of all credentials. I printed my CV, wrote an application letter, and made 10 copies each of my NYSC certificate, statement of result, and other documents.

This was my first application after NYSC, so I gave it my all.

When I got to the Central Administrative Block, to my shock, they simply told me it was closed.

Just yesterday, there was no notice of any deadline. Today, I’m left stranded — transport wasted, photocopies wasted, money wasted.

Right now, I honestly feel depressed. I struggled to put this money together, only for everything to go down the drain without even getting the chance to submit.

Sometimes it feels like the system doesn’t care how much we struggle as young people trying to build our future.

Sent you a message bro. Pls reply with your bank details and I will send some cash to make up for this disappointment.

GodwilldoitAmen:
I am just so tired of everything,I am depressed,almost suicidal.A new doctor says I should try hysteroscopy.Who has done it before? How much does it cost? I just feel God has forsaken me,everywhere I go to,people keep staring at my stomach,babies everywhere,people we got married at the same time now have kids to call theirs.even people we both waited at the same time are now with kids.People who have no need of children,still get pregnant.



Why is my own different?is my offence so great that I can't receive mercy,I have prayed,fasted,what haven't I done...I feel ashamed for myself,4th cycle of letrozole yet nothing.tubal flushing all to no avail.Is it so hard to get pregnant after a miscarriage??Even if it's spiritual,am I not praying enough,God just seems to hate me.

Anytime,they are talking about children at my place of work,I go mute,it just seems as if some are even willingly discussing it to spite me,atimes,I excuse myself from that discussion.people bring their children to work atimes.All I do is play with them and silently pray for my own.

This is the last day of January,I remember this time last year I was full of Joy,with my pregnancy and showing already....my Joy was taken away.


I now avoid going to some places with my husband,I feel like killing myself honestly.This is too much for me to bear.Life is so unfair.

So sorry to hear this. It is well with you dear! Sorry don’t know much about these things but have you tried IVF?

Hey folks,

Was wondering if there are any fertility charities in Nigeria? Or some sort of platform where people seeking funding for treatments like IVF could be matched with potential sponsors?

Or do the clinics themselves offer reduced rates for couples who are struggling financially?