₦airaland Forum

Leonardo4:
For you to know the importance of the money men contribute. Know that a family can survive without sex. But will end without money.
Sex is nothing.

If sex is nothing stop asking. Sxxx is nothing but you are a product of sxxxx. Funny.

jaxxy:
I'm still standing on business. She is a fraudster.

And the who destroyed her body is what? Body builder?

blueghost:
Just imagine what is spitting from your mouth why must everything be about sex sex sex. I wanted to engaged you on your first comment but after this your comment it shows how myopic you are and so no need to engage you

No need to engage because you actually have nothing to say.

Excallibur:
monetary transfer has only one beneficiary, how do you proof that sex only benefited the guy and not the two parties involved. Abi did you remove your genitals and give it to the person

ho initiated it?

jaxxy:
Sex goes both ways and affects both partners bodies. The man loses energy and needs to recharge..

The woman body remains thesame mostly but her dignity after sleeping around like a female dig on heat can never remain thesame. The body count reduces her dignity. its normal cos it means she's cheap.

Taking money under false pretense is a criminal offence.

Stop contradicting yourself.

Hhh4444:
come out from the delusion that you are doing any man a favour by having sex with him. Were you in any way forced to have sex with him? it's you women that even enjoy sex more but you come here to pretend like you don't enjoy it.

you are too dummmb to understand my point.
We u say that women were never forced to have sxxx, were men forced to send women money?

cr7lomo:
But men are scum andd u don't need men according to u feminists.....so wetin come de pain una if man talk say e no want again

It doesn't pain me if man says he doesn't want me again. I am not even doing them. my concern is that they should stop using women as their sxx toys. We were not created to quash their urge.

oweniwe:
Na women dey build roads?

All those power lines, telecoms masts, plumbers , welders... They're all built by women?

Feminist builds women only island and fails


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qp_v9HcU-Hs?si=d9FiTnOno587a3Xd

lol. I was talking about what men bring to the home. is road in the home?

brain54:
Sure, it's very possible to sue...

If you can establish the fact that the partner was promised marriage and didn't meet the obligation.


It's very possible legally. Marriage is like any other contract and promising to marry can be either formal or informal. A breach can be pursued legally.


Especially those that ones that live/date with the partner for a long extended period then the partner finally disappoints. So many things to sue for and damages to claim sef.


It's just that Africas and Nigerians in particular don't like following legal procedures because of the time, costs and stress involved.


But it's very possible to sue!

God bless you for not being bias like ur kind.

michoim:
Does sex automatically translate to a promise to marry someone? The lessons for both sides of the divide are that you should be able to tender verifiable and tangible proofs...

Did you go to school at all? I was talking about men suing women if they refused to visit them and why we can't sue men for not marrying women whom they promised marriage.

Sonnobax15:
. Trust me,you wouldn't want to go down that lane with me this hot afternoon,cuz I've got less customers to attend to and wouldn't mind giving it back to back to you

List 3 logical things men bring to the table.

Kingosytex:
Men offer money and sex. Now tell me what women offer.

If men are the one offering sxxx, who do men always say that the only thing women offer is sxxx? Are you even logical at all? Or should we say that men are so confused that same them say we offer sexxx and same them say they offer sxxx?

Is Dangote now a blogger?

Sonnobax15:

To them, it has to be sexxx being the only thing they can offer to a

List 3 logical things men really offer in a relationship. They only thing men have to offer is money. Util men offer more we wont offer anything other than the sxxx.

You can't expect more when you give less.

Sicklebear28:
Men offer accommodation (shelter), feeding (food) , comfort (gadgets in the house) . I'm not talking about when the children start coming oooo

I laugh at "men offer food". Women are the only one who offer food. You thought the statement "women belong to the kitchen" came from where? We offer food. men only offer money and maybe shelter.

creolehunt:
ChatGPT on the beat.

You didn't even bother to edit

That's Grok not ChatGPT

So a lady promises a guy she was going to visit him. She later didn't go and was sued and made to pay damages.

On the other hand, a guy promises a lady marriage and did not marry her and she cannot sue him. Like seriously?

For those who would say that the former scenario collected money and refused to go visit him, also note that the latter collected sxxx and refused to marry her.

jaxxy:
The lady isn't sued because she promised and failed but because she took money under false pretence knowing she wasn't going to Come. She is a fruadstar

The guy should be sued not because he promised and failed but because he slept with her, probably damaged her body.
Do you even know that women body always not the same again after being sexxed? If the body remain the same, why do u guys always reject a lady with many body count?
So you see it works both ways.

Excallibur:
you can proof monetary transfer with a receipt, how do you proof sex in a court of law, it's about what you can proof

If he can use transfer receipt as evidence against me in court, why can't I use whatsapp chats about the sxxx we had as evidence too? I always tell you guys when u want to come for me, be logical. if he uses transfer receipt i will use whatsapp chats.

CAN YOU SUE SOMEONE IF THEY PROMISE TO MARRY YOU AND LATER DID NOT KEEP TO THEIR PROMISE?

According to a Nigerian lawyer, Emmanuella Ojialor, she stated that you can sue and claim damages.

She posted

"Before you hãr̃m someone who promised to marry you but failed read this.
I have seen some cases where people took law into their hands because someone promised to marry them but failed or married someone else.
Let me explain something to you.
The law recognises a breãch of promise to marry and it is a legal claim which is enforceable.
When someone promised to marry you but failed or married someone else, do not hãr̃m the person, use legal means to claim damages instead.
Picture this.
If you hãrm or kīllz the person because of the brêach of the promise to marry you, you may end up spending years in prisõŋ or sentenced to dêãth depending on the level of the hãrm.
However, if you use legal means, no one will be hãrmed instead you will claim monetary damãges and move on with your life.
How do you prove there was a promise to marry?
Through witnesses, written or oral evidence, formal Engagement or any other means.
If you are able to prove that there was a promise to marry and a breach to that promise, the Court will grant you damages.
A Court cannot forcē a man or a woman into a marriage.
So instead of you to hãrm someone and live with rêgrets, use the Court instead."

please let's educate the public.

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Dpsychologist:
The Reason Why Many Men Are Called “Broke” by People Who Can’t Afford Their Own Demands is Due to A Paradox of Perception

Let’s cut through the noise.

A man can have a solid apartment, a stable income stream, upward mobility, and long-term potential that outclasses most of his peers.
Yet an Almajiri-level critic : someone struggling for basic sustenance, someone who relies on chance, survival instincts, and occasional handouts can look him in the eye and call him broke.

Why?
Because he can’t finance a lifestyle she cannot finance for herself.

That’s the irony of modern dating economics.

In today’s social climate, “broke” is no longer an objective financial status it’s a punishment word for any man who refuses to sponsor another person’s lifestyle fantasy.

And this is exactly where the systemic damage begins.

When a society conditions men to be treated like lepers whenever they hit a financial low, those same men often hit their breakthrough with a deep backlog of resentment, scars, and a revenge mindset.

Suddenly, the man they ignored becomes the man they admire and he starts making choices from a place of memory, not maturity.
He remembers every insult.
Every dismissal.
Every moment he was treated like he carried a contagious disease called “No Money.”

This is how cycles of emotional mismanagement are born.

Because truth be told:

If men used financial qualifications to measure women the same way women often measure men…

90% wouldn’t even make the eligibility list.

Financial contribution is rarely requested.
Economic stability is rarely expected.
Yet men are required to show up as providers even to people who cannot sustain their own expectations.

Here’s the uncomfortable reality:

Economic imbalance fuels emotional imbalance.

And until we fix the metrics, the narratives, and the entitlement,
we will keep producing relationships built on pressure, not partnership.

End.

Keeping romancing ur broke ego

Hmmm. I am sure na man rule that country. Men be doing the worst

Can we start with Nigeria?

Oil Palm is the new Bitcoin

Sicklebear28:
So she was married and yet went to cheat with a pastor. Knowing fully well she was married. When will women start taking responsibility.

Wisdom and common sense is very far from some women

u intentionally omitted the nuddes part. God puniiishh you

essentialone:
Serves her right.

What if it was she who collected 45m from the man, would you still have called it Dupe?

God punissh u more and more. u didn't see where he fforced her out of her marriage? u didnt see where he was circulating her nuddes? |God puniish u sons of Adam

essentialone:
Guys before you criticize Pastor Okafor: Did you marry all the ladies you sexed?

God puniiishe u. u didn't read that part he duped her of her N45m.

There should be a law that if the husband dies, the wife should take over the office.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Use ur head sometimes, two adults having sex what's the fuse?

One adult keeping custody of another adult without letting her go to her parents. This is kidnaping.

Hmm. The boyfriend should be arrested immediately

how many females were nominated?

Come and carry me. I'm available

Hmmm. There's more to this story

All thanks to Fella. Nigeria to the world

Kaczynski:
stories by moonlight



anyone that bekieves this has a brain thats is a null pointer in excesses

na dem

Men and r@peehn. Dem swear for una