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thank you so much for your advice.
i want to correct an impression. i dont love him bc of his money. i'm very comfortable. he's been trying to ask me out for about yrs and i had cleverly avoided him. i met him through my former neighbour. recently, my family moved into a new apartment and we now live close to him. his house is just a stone throw away from mine. so it's easy for him to see me. i think what made me fall in love with him is his persistence. he said he's waited for me for these 2yrs and now, it's just like God is making it work for him by bringing me close to his house. he stops by everyday after work to see me b4 driving to his house. he talks abt the marriage too much. he's not ready to be a friend first but i feel we'd be good friends after marriage. i think he's in a big rush bc of pressure from his family

maybe bc i feel so small when i'm with him. he's a bank manager and i just my degree programme. but i know i love him

this guy proposed to me and he's 12 years older. i am 22 and he's 34. i love him although i am not so free with him., i mean, i'm a little scared of him. my folks dont think it will work out. my elder sister hates his height. my parents dont like his rush. he's in a hurry to get married to me. he wants marriage in 5months time. i dont know what to do now.