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chenzen:
when l see things like this l wonder if ll ever get to make a final choice on who to marry... l can't imagine my wife not being a virgin. l ve seen terrible things... some girlz fvcking with reckless abandon and then marrying one fool when they are tired!

marrying a virgin is not bad, but make sure you are one.

na2016:
If its on the 5 point scale, it is the same 2:1.
However, your brother needs to know that if he accepts the 3.80 CGPA with 2016 graduation date, his transcript will likely show "F" grade on a particular course and when going for an MSc, that can be a problem to get admission.

okay, thanks.

HumanistMike:
Chances are, your dad has slept with a female young enough to be his daughter. Chances are!

The bolded part shows you lack logic.

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Abagworo:
Nothing wrong. Our constitution allows personal consent at age 16 and she was never his patient.

our constitution allows consent at age 16?why don't u go and sleep with a bunch of them?
Just pray ur 16 year daughter won't sleep with a man old enough to be her dad... since there's nothing wrong with it.

soberdrunk:
Good!! I wasnt trying to be funny, i was just showing you what a truly 'stupid comment' looks like. Did you not catch the part in my first comment where i said if they had given her proper home training she will not be following man at her age? For your information 'Miss Morality' the 'age of consent' in more than a few advanced countries is "16" so jump off your high horse Missy

In which country is the age of consent 16?Nigeria?Even if it were so, that doesn't give the old man the impetus to sleep with a very young girl. Yes, the girl might lack hometraining, but the man as an adult should have said No to her and rebuke her.Sleeping with her is all shades of wrong. Having self control is not wrong, you know?
sorry, not jumping off any high horse because I'm not on one right now.

soberdrunk:
Oya sorry!! Oya enter the room......... *Now stroking all over your body.......... nibbling your ear.......". The mood is right........ Wait!! I hope you are above 18? Yes!?? Oya touch your toe!! Touch it my friend!!!

unfortunately, I didn't find that funny at all.
it is guys like you that rape underage girls and term them "wayward "after the act.

AbdelKabir:
If its on a scale of 5 then its still the same 2:1

okay. Thanks

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pocohantas:
Never deny him sex?
Then after spreading her leg like compass and allowing him turn her anyhow on the bed, he'll come online with his 10MB to talk about virgins?

Do you know how many calories you burn during sex?
That energy he uses to thrust and strive to hit Gspot, he should channel it into lucrative projects.

Is a broke guy even supposed to have an ereçtion?

This is the funniest post I read on NL today. You are funny o.

Herrmes:
I don't argue, I am not trying to convert you, finally God did not make any laws but do what thou wilt

You are trying to convert me? Try that in the next hundred years.

chemystery:
I will prefer marry an [already made] atheist, or marry a christian, muslim, hindu, buddhist, traditional religious girl and what have you, then show her the way.

You see, we atheist don't discriminate

And show her the way? The way to what exactly? Atheism? Lol.
Good night.

Herrmes:
Lol, one of the perks of religion, what nobody knows the answer to, it gives an answer to and makes people not able to question it by instilling fear.
Someone made the law you so wonderfully live under, so why should another person want to?

No need arguing with you.
I am not righteous but I try my best to do what pleases God. God has shown himself to me and my family in so many ways. I will never denounce Christianity till the day I die. I live under the law of God and it makes me happy.

chemystery:
With or without religion, you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion.

I'm an atheist and i live a morally upright life.
I use to heed to your quote up there before but i think that is bullshit! I will be glad to die and find out there is god cos he deserves some bashing for his blunders

Okay. I hear you sound and clear. continue with your belief.
I'm sure you will find a fellow atheist girl to marry. just don't go and confuse a Christian girl.

Jman06:
How i wish Nigerians especially ladies would realize that religion is a scam and that one must not be a religious person to be morally upright

Relate with people based on their individual characteristics and not based on their religious views.

If religion is a scam,then why are u striving to be morally upright?
why not live the way you like since u are not to be judged by any one.
I don't think a lady who is a Christian will agree to marry an atheist.
There are some certain things that can never be overlooked.
1)No morning prayers
2)you won't even bring up God's name in front of your kids becos their dad is an atheist and so many others. I rather remain single at 40.

nurshah:
Sincerely repent and stop deceiving your self that there is no god.. As far as am concerned your belief stems from the desire to do evil with out being held accountable in which you are lying to your self

How can you expect her to like you ?

Exactly! That's how I see atheists. They are people who don't want to live under the law. They want to do as it pleases them.
ITS BETTER TO BELIEVE THERE IS GOD AND DIE TO FIND OUT THERE ISNT THAN TO BELIEVE THERE IS NO GOD AND DIE TO FOUND THERE IS.
make hay while the sun shines.
ignorance is not an excuse for atheism. Even ignorance itself is a sin.

Poor girl. it's good she discovered on time.
I would have done the same if I were in her shoes. I can't marry an atheist,no matter how much I love the guy.

Why are people always sad whenever someone mentions she is a virgin.is virginity an abomination? The world has become so corrupt that men think all girls are prostitutes.The girl might be a virgin.You don't know virgins by appearance. Something that should be celebrated is now frowned upon. God have mercy on mankind.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Tell your nephew about it.An ex remains an ex.

Prince4945:
I also learnt that getting rid of it at this early stage is easier than at a latter stage, true.?

Oga,take responsibility for your actions and stop talking of abortion. some girls have lost their lives through abortion. I don't think you love that girl. And try and zip up.sleeping around when you know you are not ready for marriage.smh

Prince4945:
I'm in a really big dilemma here, by my calculations the pregnancy should be a month by now

You are now a father. Be ready to take responsibility. let this a lesson to u.

ikp120:
Sorry for that bro. Just hope there would be a safe miscarriage.

seriously? you see women as nothing, right? Do you even know the meaning of miscarriage? As someone who saw her mom had miscarriage when little, I won't wish that to my fellow woman.
The guy should man up and take responsibility when the child comes, that's the only solution.
please, let's watch what we say.

I am a lady of 27years old, a virgin,weird?i know.
I have been having problems with relationships,probably because all the guys I dated requested for sex and I walked out several times when it became unbearable for me.
I dated a doctor last year but he walked out on me cos I refused him sex. The guys that keep approaching me are the guys I don't like, including the doctor.
Now, I am involved with three guys, the first one is one of my classmates in university. He loves me the most out of the three guys and he is very caring but the problem is that I don't have feelings for him at all. Don't get me wrong, I tried but no feelings whatsoever.
The second one is nice too but the problem is that he told me that his dad married two wives and that he is not in good terms with the dad. Another thing is that he is too religious, he says he doesn't like girls that wear makeup, he hates weavon, hair relaxers and so on. I am scared,i feel like he would control me too much if I marry him. He told me one time to plait weavon with my natural hair so he can check whether I look beautiful with it. I refused anyway. He scrutinises every little thing I do or the way I dress. He doesn't like trousers on women too(i don't wear trousers) .He even noticed when I carved my eyebrow and asked me not to do so again.
And lastly, the third guy is the one I have feelings for. He was my sister's classmate in school. He made it clear he won't marry me (maybe because of my sister) but I keep going back to him. I love him so much and I really feel bad about it. but havent had sex.i told him I'm a virgin
Now, I don't really know what to do. I feel like I will say yes to either the first guy or second guy because they have started discussing marriage issues with me.
I pray I forget the last guy.
Please I need advice. Time is not on my side anymore