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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: British Council Invite by sayittome(m): 11:34pm On Apr 07
My angle.
Been a while.
How are you and where have you been?


Ndawe:


I don't know you but please send me your account number. I can send something small to cover your tfare and maybe some lunch. PM me ASAP and I hope you see this in time.

Alternatively, you can drop your number as well. I'll be following for updates.
Cheers and all the best
Family / NO SUBJECT by sayittome(m): 10:25am On Mar 13, 2022
NO SUBJECT
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I've Just Been Sacked by sayittome(m): 2:56pm On Feb 24, 2022
ok.
brimdans:

It's fruitless sir, I've tried it before.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I've Just Been Sacked by sayittome(m): 1:59pm On Feb 24, 2022
TRY THIS OP
Omihanifa:
From the look of things, the woman just wants you to come and beg her no be say she truly sack you. If you go back to the office and beg she go tell you to resume back.

See ehen just play the fool. No be say you dey foolish o but just act like you are foolish so that you can plan your exit out of that place.

My former boss just be like this your boss way you describe. She go shout and shout at the end of the day all nah GRA GRA
Business / Re: Can I Sell My House To Invest In Business ? by sayittome(m): 2:18pm On Feb 21, 2022
ok. nice one
RapistOnBail:

When there’s no money for maintenance

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Business / Re: Can I Sell My House To Invest In Business ? by sayittome(m): 2:12pm On Feb 21, 2022
When did a house become a liability?

RapistOnBail:

I would rather stay in a rented apartment and amass billions and then build a retirement home so I could relax when I’m old.

Op,

Sell that house. You no come this life to come relax. I know you are still young. You can start up that business and grow it.

Naturally, your instinct go tell you when you need to relax and let the younger generation run your business.

Use your head!

The people advising you against selling off that liability called house never hold enough money for hand when them Dey young and active.


Family / Re: Married Men: Share Your Bitter Marriage Experience by sayittome(m): 6:47pm On Feb 18, 2022
shocked grin shocked
Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 1:41pm On Jan 26, 2022
This is why i agree with the OP when he says that Woman Love is Conditional


OlawaleBammie:
must he be crippled before u can show you care??

That is what we are saying, "hisses"

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Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 9:15am On Jan 25, 2022
frozen70:


Is my man crippled

can you imagine?
so u cant give money to someone u claim to love?

The OP is actually right.

Women are intrinsically self.

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Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 10:51am On Jan 24, 2022
finishmatter:

Not really bro

Ok
Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 11:04am On Jan 22, 2022
SarutobiEky:
Fvck me. Bro might actually be right though.

How is he right?
Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 11:03am On Jan 22, 2022
So you agree with the OP?
worldclass68:




Its not the matter of hurting someone alone..
That's just the simple truth....




But that girl wey hurt OP mad ooo embarassed

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Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 11:02am On Jan 22, 2022
Guy be calming down.
Your blood is hot

Lightway:


Look at your life...

You will definitely marry and be a weak man
Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 11:01am On Jan 22, 2022
Lightway:


Look at your life...

You will definitely marry and be a weak man

This is deep bra
Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 11:00am On Jan 22, 2022
finishmatter:

Not really bro

Oh really?
Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 9:12am On Jan 22, 2022
Your buz.
finishmatter:
Let's face it: Relationship is purely and solely transactional! Nothing more nothing less.

The saying: "Money for hand, back for ground" captures this reality. And this is true not just for a prostitute but for your wife and girlfriend.

She feels no emotion nor empathy for you. She is in the relationship mainly and solely for the cash and security a man provides.
She will neither contribute financially not encourage you to make money. She meets her end of the bargain of managing the home while you provide the finance to run the home. Failure to meet your end of the transaction (union) will incur her insubordination

Therefore, men are not expected to invest any emotional gesture on her. It is not your job!
Don’t be deceived by societal or religious expectation that you should love your wife. Lies. She does not love you.

Love, affection and care should be both ways. Not one-sided.

Do not invest your emotions/affection on your wife.

A woman’s love is conditional. She does not deserve a man’s unconditional love.

P.S: WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.


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Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 9:10am On Jan 22, 2022
i dey tell u
worldclass68:




Its not the matter of hurting someone alone..
That's just the simple truth....




But that girl wey hurt OP mad ooo embarassed

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Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 9:09am On Jan 22, 2022
Ibaaboy:
Dis fish matter tire me o

Honestly
Romance / Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 7:24pm On Jan 21, 2022
Definitely this guy is heart-broken

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Career / Re: 2022 : New Year, Fresh Start by sayittome(m): 10:34am On Jan 05, 2022
finishmatter:

Uwc

Thanks
Career / Re: 2022 : New Year, Fresh Start by sayittome(m): 9:51am On Jan 05, 2022
finishmatter:
Turns out, we’re pretty bad at sticking to our new year goals, with most of us abandoning our efforts to change before we’ve even taken down the holiday decorations.
Naturally, we don’t want to be in the camp of folks that fail to achieve their aspirations and dreams, so I have put together few tips to follow through on your resolution.

Happy reading

Be Purposeful
The biggest mistake most people make is setting a goal on something they feel they should be doing instead of something they really want to do. They simply forget to look at their own values before goal setting.
Values are the underlying units of the things we do in our life and they are by definition never finished. It is important that you take time to reflect on what is important in your life and endeavour to put words to these main categories.
Failure to reflect on what is important to you will lead to arbitrary goals resulting to wane determination and wasted effort. Therefore, you are advised to start by identifying your values.

Strategize Well
Not much can without a plan. After establishing the right kind of goals based on your values, develop strategies to help you accomplish them.
Without specific strategies, it’s unlikely that change will occur because we are all creatures of habit. However, once you create a game plan, you will be more likely to shift your behaviour.

Know Your Environment
Construct and follow your own regimen, but don’t rely on willpower alone to change your behaviour over the long term. Often time, people will have great ideas about how they can change their life, and all of that excitement might help the person achieve their goals at first. However, as time goes on people return to their day-to-day routines, which is usually counterproductive to their resolutions.
You can’t control every aspect of your environment, but planning ahead for situations that could potentially derail your goals can keep you on track.

Think Small and Reward Yourself
Sometimes, the overwhelming stigma of a New Year’s Resolution carries with it the pressure of change. Try working toward small wins before tackling larger goals.
Want to be healthier? Instead of making a goal to hit the gym for an hour every day, start by taking walks three times a week. Once you master this, move toward a bigger goal.
Your confidence in establishing a new identity will reinforce your behaviour and provide motivation for further change.

Measure Your Progress
Without a figurative (or literal) yardstick to measure your results, your actions will have little meaning.
You can measure goals is many different ways. Some people do best with a simple list, others like to create a calendar with daily tasks to stay on track. A fun way to keep things moving is to use the tried-and-true kindergarten approach of giving yourself a star or smiley face whenever you take a small step toward your ultimate goal.
Keeping conscientious track of your goals also allows you to analyze your values, strategies, and behaviours, and to make adjustments as necessary.

Get the Right Tools for the Job
And whether you’re a traditional pen-and-paper person or glued to your smartphone, there are a multitude of free and low-cost resources available to track your goals. Try creating a vision board or use a traditional goal-setting worksheet. As you measure your results, whether on-screen or on-paper, keep friends and family involved.
Accountability increases your chance of success. Create a support network of people related to goal setting. It is important to have a community of people that you share your goals with. This allows for motivation but also allows for you to learn from other people. The support network can be online or in person.

One thing is certain: once the confetti falls and the ball drops, you’re left to face your New Year’s goals head on.
Follow the above tips and make your 2022 resolutions a reality.

Thanks guys

Thanks for this. It is really eye-opening

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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 9:00am On Nov 06, 2021
Wow. I'm very grateful for the insight. Thank you so much.
Osemigho:


It is easy to get minimum wage job for students. 20 hrs ×$15×4wk = $1200. After tax, you get about $900. Shared room (utilities included) about 500 in Calgary. $300 monthly Food budget is very good. You can also work 40hrs during break. You will ikely survive, not blow, with tuition scholarship that pays all your tuition and the 20hrs work restriction for international student. All the best.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 8:58am On Nov 06, 2021
Youngman911:


I am not speaking from experience but there's no way $300 a month will be able to sustain you. Your rent alone will be anywhere between 250 and 500 at least depending on province. You still have to eat, transport, pay for utilities, phone bills, miscellaneous.
This really help bro. Thanks so much
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 1:12pm On Nov 02, 2021
I am so cool with this info. Really helpful.
Gracias.
Regarding cost it living in Canada, do u think $300 will sustain me in Canada for a month?
Better still, how much is your monthly expenses in Canada in term of food, accommodation, transportation, data, electricity and water?

Ketima:


Hello Sayittome,

I can see you're so much concerned about getting a job and finance once in Canada. In fact, all international applicants worry about that a lot.

Now personally, the way I advise people as I was advised and based and in addition to what PapaObi said. Canada is a country where provinces have their minimum wages. as a student, you're permitted to work 20hrs/week

Now moving to Canada as an international student, please try and have money that can help you pay between three to 4 months of your stay once you get to Canada. The reason is that you will need the first three months to balance and put school stuff in place, get accommodation and all that. mind you getting a job first three months isn't that easy as a newcomer who doesn't know around yet. but that doesn't mean you cant oo. a lot has gotten it so you can if you try.

Then as per making money, for example, a student in Saskatchewan works 20hr/week(Minimum wage). so d the calculation and know the least amount to make in a month. then considering your living expenses lifestyle, you do the rest of the maths.

on a lighter note. try pack enough foodstuffs that can last long for you ooo lol

(20x11.81)4 = 944.8/month
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 3:46am On Nov 02, 2021
PapaObi:
Realisticly speaking getting a job may take 1-3months. Pay, depending on hours he gets 500-900 a month.
Thanks alot.
How much do u think he needs to have on hand before he secures he job bro? I mean pocket money than can sustain him be before he finds a job?
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 3:37am On Nov 02, 2021
Waskylala:


Let's say he gets the visa, any idea what he needs to do or what other requirements he need to meet?
Does he need to do medicals or provide some other documents?
I am asking to know the the financial cost.
Will he need to buy books when he gets there and what is d cost of accomodations in Canada?
Seems you haven't done your research on Canada? There are so much work to the extent they are bringing in migrants to help fill up those works.

I sure say he will be making over 100k(naira) per week, and you know they pay in CAD.

Let him hustle for visa first and Good luck.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 3:17am On Nov 02, 2021
Thanks so much bro.
He is using an agent for the visa stuff.
Hopefully, it will come out.
Waskylala:


Seems you haven't done your research on Canada? There are so much work to the extent they are bringing in migrants to help fill up those works.

I sure say he will be making over 100k(naira) per week, and you know they pay in CAD.

Let him hustle for visa first and Good luck.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 7:27pm On Nov 01, 2021
PapaObi:
Fantastic, he can work 20 hours a week to sustain himself but he needs to show proof of funds to apply for the visa.
Yeah. But his fears are:
1. What is d ease of getting a job?
2. And can he sustain himself from what he will be paid?
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 6:03pm On Nov 01, 2021
PapaObi:
Congrats to your brother. To help answer your enquiry more data is required. What course did he apply for and at what level of study?Does the admission/ scholarship letter state full tuition or part and if the latter what percentage?
It's a full tuition. Masters programme.
Course is biostatistics
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 3:22pm On Nov 01, 2021
Pls I need help. My brother got a tuition free scholarship to Canada but a bit scared as he doesn't know how to survive over there.

Any advice on way forward in terms of securing a job. ease of securing a job, Cost of living in Canada. Etc
Moreso, what does tuition free scholarship mean? Will there be other fees he needs to pay when he gets there?
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 4:41pm On Oct 31, 2021
Hazardd:
thanks bro.... So. Which test result do they required or need
Pls what type of medicals and what is the cost?
Romance / Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sayittome(m): 8:54pm On Oct 03, 2021
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