Romance › Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 9:10am On Jan 22, 2022 |
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But that girl wey hurt OP mad ooo  |
Romance › Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 9:09am On Jan 22, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Why You Should Not Love Your Wife by sayittome(m): 7:24pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
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Career › Re: 2022 : New Year, Fresh Start by sayittome(m): 10:34am On Jan 05, 2022 |
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Career › Re: 2022 : New Year, Fresh Start by sayittome(m): 9:51am On Jan 05, 2022 |
finishmatter: Turns out, we’re pretty bad at sticking to our new year goals, with most of us abandoning our efforts to change before we’ve even taken down the holiday decorations. Naturally, we don’t want to be in the camp of folks that fail to achieve their aspirations and dreams, so I have put together few tips to follow through on your resolution.
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Be Purposeful The biggest mistake most people make is setting a goal on something they feel they should be doing instead of something they really want to do. They simply forget to look at their own values before goal setting. Values are the underlying units of the things we do in our life and they are by definition never finished. It is important that you take time to reflect on what is important in your life and endeavour to put words to these main categories. Failure to reflect on what is important to you will lead to arbitrary goals resulting to wane determination and wasted effort. Therefore, you are advised to start by identifying your values.
Strategize Well Not much can without a plan. After establishing the right kind of goals based on your values, develop strategies to help you accomplish them. Without specific strategies, it’s unlikely that change will occur because we are all creatures of habit. However, once you create a game plan, you will be more likely to shift your behaviour.
Know Your Environment Construct and follow your own regimen, but don’t rely on willpower alone to change your behaviour over the long term. Often time, people will have great ideas about how they can change their life, and all of that excitement might help the person achieve their goals at first. However, as time goes on people return to their day-to-day routines, which is usually counterproductive to their resolutions. You can’t control every aspect of your environment, but planning ahead for situations that could potentially derail your goals can keep you on track.
Think Small and Reward Yourself Sometimes, the overwhelming stigma of a New Year’s Resolution carries with it the pressure of change. Try working toward small wins before tackling larger goals. Want to be healthier? Instead of making a goal to hit the gym for an hour every day, start by taking walks three times a week. Once you master this, move toward a bigger goal. Your confidence in establishing a new identity will reinforce your behaviour and provide motivation for further change.
Measure Your Progress Without a figurative (or literal) yardstick to measure your results, your actions will have little meaning. You can measure goals is many different ways. Some people do best with a simple list, others like to create a calendar with daily tasks to stay on track. A fun way to keep things moving is to use the tried-and-true kindergarten approach of giving yourself a star or smiley face whenever you take a small step toward your ultimate goal. Keeping conscientious track of your goals also allows you to analyze your values, strategies, and behaviours, and to make adjustments as necessary.
Get the Right Tools for the Job And whether you’re a traditional pen-and-paper person or glued to your smartphone, there are a multitude of free and low-cost resources available to track your goals. Try creating a vision board or use a traditional goal-setting worksheet. As you measure your results, whether on-screen or on-paper, keep friends and family involved. Accountability increases your chance of success. Create a support network of people related to goal setting. It is important to have a community of people that you share your goals with. This allows for motivation but also allows for you to learn from other people. The support network can be online or in person.
One thing is certain: once the confetti falls and the ball drops, you’re left to face your New Year’s goals head on. Follow the above tips and make your 2022 resolutions a reality.
Thanks guys Thanks for this. It is really eye-opening |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 9:00am On Nov 06, 2021 |
Wow. I'm very grateful for the insight. Thank you so much. Osemigho: It is easy to get minimum wage job for students. 20 hrs ×$15×4wk = $1200. After tax, you get about $900. Shared room (utilities included) about 500 in Calgary. $300 monthly Food budget is very good. You can also work 40hrs during break. You will ikely survive, not blow, with tuition scholarship that pays all your tuition and the 20hrs work restriction for international student. All the best. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 8:58am On Nov 06, 2021 |
Youngman911: I am not speaking from experience but there's no way $300 a month will be able to sustain you. Your rent alone will be anywhere between 250 and 500 at least depending on province. You still have to eat, transport, pay for utilities, phone bills, miscellaneous. This really help bro. Thanks so much |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 1:12pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
I am so cool with this info. Really helpful. Gracias. Regarding cost it living in Canada, do u think $300 will sustain me in Canada for a month? Better still, how much is your monthly expenses in Canada in term of food, accommodation, transportation, data, electricity and water? Ketima: Hello Sayittome,
I can see you're so much concerned about getting a job and finance once in Canada. In fact, all international applicants worry about that a lot.
Now personally, the way I advise people as I was advised and based and in addition to what PapaObi said. Canada is a country where provinces have their minimum wages. as a student, you're permitted to work 20hrs/week
Now moving to Canada as an international student, please try and have money that can help you pay between three to 4 months of your stay once you get to Canada. The reason is that you will need the first three months to balance and put school stuff in place, get accommodation and all that. mind you getting a job first three months isn't that easy as a newcomer who doesn't know around yet. but that doesn't mean you cant oo. a lot has gotten it so you can if you try.
Then as per making money, for example, a student in Saskatchewan works 20hr/week(Minimum wage). so d the calculation and know the least amount to make in a month. then considering your living expenses lifestyle, you do the rest of the maths.
on a lighter note. try pack enough foodstuffs that can last long for you ooo lol
(20x11.81)4 = 944.8/month |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 3:46am On Nov 02, 2021 |
PapaObi: Realisticly speaking getting a job may take 1-3months. Pay, depending on hours he gets 500-900 a month. Thanks alot. How much do u think he needs to have on hand before he secures he job bro? I mean pocket money than can sustain him be before he finds a job? |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 3:37am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Waskylala: Let's say he gets the visa, any idea what he needs to do or what other requirements he need to meet? Does he need to do medicals or provide some other documents? I am asking to know the the financial cost. Will he need to buy books when he gets there and what is d cost of accomodations in Canada? Seems you haven't done your research on Canada? There are so much work to the extent they are bringing in migrants to help fill up those works.
I sure say he will be making over 100k(naira) per week, and you know they pay in CAD.
Let him hustle for visa first and Good luck. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 3:17am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Thanks so much bro. He is using an agent for the visa stuff. Hopefully, it will come out. Waskylala: Seems you haven't done your research on Canada? There are so much work to the extent they are bringing in migrants to help fill up those works.
I sure say he will be making over 100k(naira) per week, and you know they pay in CAD.
Let him hustle for visa first and Good luck. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 7:27pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
PapaObi: Fantastic, he can work 20 hours a week to sustain himself but he needs to show proof of funds to apply for the visa. Yeah. But his fears are: 1. What is d ease of getting a job? 2. And can he sustain himself from what he will be paid? |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 6:03pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
PapaObi: Congrats to your brother. To help answer your enquiry more data is required. What course did he apply for and at what level of study?Does the admission/ scholarship letter state full tuition or part and if the latter what percentage? It's a full tuition. Masters programme. Course is biostatistics |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 3:22pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
Pls I need help. My brother got a tuition free scholarship to Canada but a bit scared as he doesn't know how to survive over there.
Any advice on way forward in terms of securing a job. ease of securing a job, Cost of living in Canada. Etc Moreso, what does tuition free scholarship mean? Will there be other fees he needs to pay when he gets there? |
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sayittome(m): 4:41pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Hazardd: thanks bro.... So. Which test result do they required or need Pls what type of medicals and what is the cost? |
Romance › Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sayittome(m): 8:54pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
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Family › Re: I Offended My Wife And She Is Denying Me Sex by sayittome(m): 8:43pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
chatinent: Oga, it will not remove any hair from your body to stop being puffed up with pride, apologize for your wrong, and enjoy peace!
Is it a military regime?
Your whole body offend person dey keep malice but your odogwu dey form emissary.
By the way, I see you are seeing cheating as an alternative! It is wrong! Cheating is not among your options! I think cheating is an option if denied sex |
Family › Re: My Husband Paid N580K For My Bride Price But Refused To Help My Family Members. by sayittome(m): 12:05am On Jun 21, 2021 |
Let's face it! Your families members are not your husband's responsibility.
I repeat, your family members are not your husband's responsibility even if he paid one naira as your bride price. |
Romance › Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sayittome(m): 10:59pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
Tonyspecial: God please help me out, I'm also a victim of the situation Don't worry ur self Bro. Just pray, God go remove am. I for talk one thing na, but make I stop for here |
Romance › Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sayittome(m): 10:51pm On Feb 02, 2021*. Modified: 9:25am On Nov 02, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sayittome(m): 10:28pm On Feb 02, 2021*. Modified: 9:25am On Nov 02, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: High Court Judge Weeps As DNA Reveals He’s Not Father Of Three Adult Children by sayittome(m): 6:29am On Feb 02, 2021 |
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Autos › Re: Very Clean Toyota Camry - 1999 Model (pencil Light) For 750k In Abuja by sayittome(m): 1:12pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
archstyle: Very clean car... Buy and drive. - Very chilling AC - New shocks - Highlander's springs (Doesn't go down when you carry people at the back) - Good tyres - Formica interior - Very clean fabric seats - First body - Central lock - Automatic Transmission
Price: 750k Location: Abuja Whatsapp: 08062813093 |
Autos › Re: Very Clean Toyota Camry - 1999 Model (pencil Light) For 750k In Abuja by sayittome(m): 1:12pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
archstyle: Very clean car... Buy and drive. - Very chilling AC - New shocks - Highlander's springs (Doesn't go down when you carry people at the back) - Good tyres - Formica interior - Very clean fabric seats - First body - Central lock - Automatic Transmission
Price: 750k Location: Abuja Whatsapp: 08062813093 Is this car still available? |
Autos › Re: Hyundai Elantra by sayittome(m): 4:35am On Apr 28, 2019 |
clareomiz: been driving a hyundai for over 2years! it not bad at all! Just do wat U have to do & U no go get wahala. Pls can you tell me more about this Elantra car? I am really considering buying it but I hear things about scarcity of spare parts and the high cost of maintenance which make me scared. I'm buying my first car so I need all the info I can get. Thanks |
Autos › Re: Clean Tokunbo Toyota Corolla 2004 LE Going For 1.720 Non Negotiable by sayittome(m): 1:52am On Apr 28, 2019 |
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Autos › Re: Toyota Corolla 2003 Imported From USA, Mint Condition, Duty Fully Paid 1.850 by sayittome(m): 1:51am On Apr 28, 2019 |
fahren: Mint Condition 2003 Toyata Corolla imported from USA with Duty fully paid
Asking price is 1.850
Location Abuja
08104339464 call for inspection Do you have 2004 LE Direct tok in Abuja |
Autos › Re: Tokumbo 2007 Toyota Matrix Selling Cheap In Phc 1.8m by sayittome(m): 1:06am On Apr 28, 2019 |
OROZ: Ur welcome, just incase I also have corolla in abuja for 1.9m 2005 full option Can we see ? |
Autos › Re: 2004 Model Toyota Corolla Toks With Reverse Sensor Selling Fast by sayittome(m): 9:02pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
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Autos › Re: 2004 Model Toyota Corolla Toks With Reverse Sensor Selling Fast by sayittome(m): 6:38pm On Apr 26, 2019 |
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