well i guess if the husband married a plus- size lady then he must like plus- size women, he's not gonna change what he likes simply because you're the wife, I'm sure we all know by now that the husbands never change, they're the same old people, they never change, girlfriend u know the man whom u married, u should know what to do to keep him coming back. despite having said all of these, i still believe no human should make another feel less of themselves, husband or wife, friend or foe, boy or girl,