nonhuman:
bro I need advise on whether to go see her parents, is the timing too short, will she ever change from weird characters blind argument, bad language, everything I say is a lie. for sake of loving me. though she is not lazy at her home duties at all

Well first of, you have to recognize that everybody has areas that they fall shot and areas that they excel. Even you, you do have yours.
My rule of thumb is

1- to weigh the shot comings to the good side, which is much more heavy or intense so to speak
2- having analyzed both sides of the individual am I willing to live with those aspects of her that is "bad"

Now if you can answer these questions to your satisfaction, then you have a better shot at having a long lasting marriage. But remember that she will be influenced by you and she is bound to change so are you. So it's absolutely possible that her good sides my grow or her bad side might get even worse. That you have to keep in mind.

Not sure if that answered your question cos its easy for me to say go or not to go but ultimately the decision rests on you.

They should but unfortunately that’s not the case in most marriages these days. Otherwise there wouldn’t be so much divorce. Now before you start on me, I know that the reason for lots of divorce is not just because of lack of attraction between couples but some could be especially if it’s the guy that’s asking for it.

Just as most men will find their wives unattractive after marriage so will most women find their husbands unattractive after marriage. Now the reason for lack of attraction is up for debate and it does vary. In most cases the reasons could be so buried deep in most people subconsciousness that they might find it difficult to actually put a finger to it so the reason such couples should seek professional advice.

But on a more deeper level; attraction between couples after marriage has something to do with the reasons for marring someone and the expectations after marriage. If someone gets married for the wrong reasons or have too high expectations from their spouses, the daily grind and effort that is needed to keep up the union will break them up. Such a person will have little or no reason to push through the difficulties.

Attraction fluctuates during the cause of marriage but if you got married for the right reasons for YOU/BOTH OF YOU and you have reasonable expectations then keeping up and maintaining attraction wouldn’t be so hard.

Now the sixty-four million-dollar questions is how do you keep up and maintain such attraction? Or better still, do YOU want to keep up and maintain the attraction? If got married for the right reasons and if you have reasonable expectations and YOU REALLY want to keep up and maintain the attraction you will find imaginative ways to do that.

Bro, I like sweet p**sy too like any other guy but my advice to you is to never settle down for sole reason that she has it all down there. That in effect could be the worst mistake of your life.

Anyway, I don't get why you posted this, do you seek advice for something and if so I didn't get the question or you just wanted a listening ear?

There is this this lady that I have known for close to 2 years. I mean she's ok to look at but I know most guys won't like to be seen with someone that old. But I have had the hots for her since I set my on eyes her. But the problem is that she lives with this other older guy that could be the same age with her. (not her husband mind you)

But now We have moved to a different city, not together though. She came out here first before me. And before you ask, no we didn't secretly plan it together. Now we got talking and one thing led to another we have agreed to see each other.

But that's not my problem. My problem is that even before her, I have noticed that am more turned on by older ladies than younger girls. Is there anything wrong with me. Please help.

Marshalxv:
Women at times can be confusing.

Exactly that REALLY MAKES THEM SIMPLE !