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I was reading a post this morning here on nairaland where a guy disflowered a young girl with her consent and said he's ready to be committed to her,, if you see the way pastors,,imams where raining curses on the op and even wishing him death... just because of sex BTW two adults.. now look at the main ochestrator of your problem in Nigeria.. people form the East would call him nzobuwa.. yet no one is doing anything about him.. I weep for Nigeria. Tueh

Merch:
your papa na mumu, no wonder a naija girl get mind to slap you because you no get level..you should have disfigured her face with injuries when she slapped you goat

When iam bored..I just come on thread like this and laugh

KnowledgePower7:
Yoruba language sounds horrible when singing. It's sounds like animals making noise. No offense
Just listen to Seyi vibes
Yoruba sounds very trash on songs

But only asake has been able to make good song with Yoruba. It's still shock me how he does it

Igbo is the best
Igbo sounds sexy and flirty in songs
Listen to Love Nwantiti by C.Kay

Hausa sound kinda cool with their autotune voice

I'm Delta but I love phyno and asake

you don't have sense..no language sweet reach Yoruba for Nigeria

drlateef:
All the stupid mammy water powers have nothing to do where Allah has decided. All evil powers must be demolished in shaa Allah.

be careful.. don't think you can't b located.. it not everybody you talk to online the way u like.. you might pay dearly for it.. the world is bigger than u thought..kid

Nawao ... people are really starving in Nigeria.. you guys should use this hunger to fight the government

ppogba:
You should have used a better platform to advertise. I bet you would.have made it.big.especially.before the election.

What makes.you think your own winch, winchcraft, wizardry and spiritually pas Tinubu own?

Better locate a better platform maybe maga go fall plenty

save this post for may 29th

So many people might not like me for this.. but I don't care and i am going to drop the bomb.

Tinubu won't be sworn in.. The physical world is ruled by the spiritual.. don't ask me how I know..it only takes the dorminus to langua... 778 is my code.. Tinubu has been rejected.

smalldivk111:
I'm still thinking about it tho I may forgive her but I'm hurt at the moment

smiles.. just forgive her so far there's no intercourse

smalldivk111:
Yes she is still begging said she was down and her friends invited her to cheer her up tho they didn't have sec but kissed and cuddled

you should have forgiven her... since no sex

smalldivk111:
I broke up with her cuz she cheated on me with a guy at a house party when she was drunk

.. this case serious.. but she was drunk... then again why did she attend a party... she begged u Sha?

smalldivk111:
Funny what makes you think she doesn't like me??

why did she left u?

Ojukwu007:
Intelligent ladies always make my day. Seagodess, what sacrifice should I bring to your sea? Well done.

lolz..

smalldivk111:
Leave this your story a gal I disflowered it took me a month to finally get in cuz of her tightness plus blood no be the girl day cheat so?
Girls are rags just use and dump them then move to the next prey

.. she no really like u but still..she go still dey give u ur respect if she come From better home

faithfull18:
Omo, if you have girl children, you should always be on your knees praying plus show them excess love, e get why.

Just be praying a good guy is their first.. girls will always be girls

ExudeLoveToAll:
I don't understand why people look than on others when probably they lost their virginity before they turned adults.

Mind you the age of consent is 18, what is the fuse about other people's sexual preferences when they actually acted properly and legally.

An 18 year old doesn't know what she is doing? You guys are really funny. When did you loose your virginity?

Don't expect you to answer, keep it in the cooler.

Their matter just tire me,, some evil pastors are even quoting the Bible wishing him Death..ha.. for what exactly?

RepoMan007:
how Archimedes principle take enter this one sir?

Archimedes' principle states that the upward buoyant force that is exerted on a body immersed in a fluid, whether fully or partially, is equal to the weight of the fluid that the body displaces. Archimedes' principle is a law of physics fundamental to fluid mechanics.

Negroid001:
I no fit marry juvenile. The guy senior the babe with like 15 years. Na like 2 years she collect from my hand sef

that 15 y years na him sweet pass.. men age like fine wine..if you like go marry ur age mate..fool.. the woman na LovePeddler that's the fact

I was shocked o.thinking it the men's team

It B it has the lightest object and the most water because when we remove the objects the water level Will fall

godliman:
Nothing unique about fornication it is like every other sin that leads to hell. I am particular because that was what he came up with here. Had he spoken about stealing we will have focused on that, sin is sin. I didn't wish him death, death is the natural consequence of sin and I advised him to repent and avoid death. If you are an honest man who loves God, loves truth and righteousness you will be agreeing with me. Evil is evil and it thrives when good people say nothing.

David did worse... Delilah seduced an anointed Samson.. she did worse.. the op has done nothing wrong.. if they both ask for forgiveness they would be forgiven.. it not as bad as u were panting it

godliman:
Sorry Lady I hope you get married but doubt if you can stay with one man

if the Man is an alpha male

godliman:
Your ignorance and confusion is totally out of this world. I really don't blame you I blame the fake pastors and prosperity preachers who deceive you and collect your tithe promising you heaven. If you know the terror of God and the judgement sin will bring you will be begging the OP to repent and save his own life. Experience has showed that those who justify evil are themselves nettled by it.

so the sin of furnication is now so grievous that God will kill the op? What type of God are u in particular serving? Two people had sex.. yes it a sin outside the context of marriage but then why are you wishing him death? Do you even know if God has a special assignment for the op tomorrow? Pls get out

JOACHINpedro:
I had a nice laugh going through the comments.
One hymen down! that's all I can say

but on a serious note..if we give this same energy we give to issues like this to deal with the bad leaders we have in Nigeria..we would have a better country...two people had sex and he came for advice due to excess bleeding. All he got was bashing.. nonsense

Oboto700:
All of attacking the op are nothing but hypocrite.. most of you are pained you not the first Man that met the woman you finally married.. the op said he won't toiled with the girls hearth you never believed him because you see as every Man out there as a cheat.. things happen.. some of you are even quoting the Bible wishing him death..are you guys okay at all? What offence has he committed? He never raped her..it was an agreement between them. What if he ended up marrying her? Do you know if their love is even divinely ochestrated? What do you guys know about life? The only way he would be wrong is if he do The Young Lady any dirt. The op is 28 for Christ sake.. are we not seeing 40 yrs old men getting married to 18 yrs? Do you know what happened in thier secret? You guys should get out abeg

babe iam just shoked at how battered the minds of some people are here.. they don't even know if the girl naturally loves the op.omotola met her husband at a very tender age..did we know what happened before he got her married? Someone here was even saying he met his husband today at 16 years and they are happily married today.. they attack the op to the extent he deleted his account.. haba.. what has happened has happened.. it now left for the op to treat the girl well.. if she's willing to marry the op fine and if she's not willing fine.. abeg

merrymike47:
in as much as I won't take back my words, I do apologies for calling you a mermaid.

Quick question for you: the guy that disvirgined you, didn't he know what he wants? Why did he leave you after all?

I would have lectured you but it's not like you care to learn, but I'll leave you with a piece to work with. No man knows what he wants, so economics says that human's want are insatiable. You guys concluded that you hardly forget a guy who disvirgined you, it is not the same for men. A man can not even trust himself when it comes to boobs and ass. It takes a disciplined man to stay loyal. A man who is not disciplined can not be trusted.

I am a man, I try to stay loyal, I try to stay disciplined but my babe's friend almost succeeded in stealing me from my babe.

Take this truth from me, you guys are not wise and your emotions will not help you.

. we were programmed differently from u guys

We think and act differently.too..the easiest way to get us glued is giving us memories.e.g.making us give u our most treasured treasure which is our virginity.Ask any girl, if she's being sincere she would attest to this..we want u men to be in charge.. don't show us weakness.. it not about money... bang us to submission.. let our legs go weak at the sound of ur voice.. that's what that op has done to that girl.

Laurene:
You talk from lots of experience

she don see shege

merrymike47:
can I expect less from a marine spirit? Are you shocked that I know what you are mermaid? Sorry that the guy that disvirgined you opened you up for some other guys to penetrate, sorry that you never recovered from the trauma that you got after he left you, sorry he made you become a shadow of yourself, sorry that more guys will still use and dump you. But the little girl that the op disvirgined do not have to go through all of those things, that's all we are saying, who cares about how you live your life in the first place?

let me not answer u for ur assumption about me..I fit still kill u this night.. now the girl is 18 .op is 28..if you ask me.. the girl is in the best place provided the op won't treat her bad.. Dating someone mature won't give space for unnecessary dramas. Iam a lady..I love guys like the op.. he knows what he wants and went for it.. he's an alpha male which is sweet to us. And again mind ur words on me..

GboyegaD:
We are both sure people marry for reasons best known to them and not necessarily because they were 1st at something. Cos there will always be many 1st in life and marriage goes way beyond sex.



I never made any assumption as my statement were never definite on what is going to happen. I just responded to your line of thought on the first guy thing.

FIRST guy shapes a ladies life.. if you see any bad girl out there today
. ask her about her first experience with a Man.. even God placed a seal there because he knows the Best time to open it it during marriage when there's commitments. But then the op Said he's going to be committed with her.. why castigate him?

GboyegaD:
Which implies same can happen to her thus, there is no reason to support the OP with the point of him been the first means she can't leave him because OP as well can get tired of her.

you can't assume that.. the op is 28 he's no more a kid

GboyegaD:
Whether or not she leaves him, her choice to make and vice versa. Neither the OP nor her is really ready for marriage and now that they've gotten what each other seeks, it is their choice to either stay or leave.

you can't sit in your room and assume u know their plans... I insist the op did no wrong... The Best Lady to Marry is a lady you were her first.. iam a lady so I know what iam saying.

GboyegaD:
You don't need to shalaye. If truly it creates a bond, then irrespective of what the guy you gave it to did, you would have forgiven. True love they say keeps no record of wrongdoing. Encourage what is right and I for one am not condemning the lady cos it is her choice but for the guy coming to make announcement, it is because he wants his ego praised although he's admitted he did it for his selfish purpose.

there's no need forcing love oga.. my ex wasn't feeling us anymore and he left... no need begging him back..I really wished we got married because he was my first guy and he disflowered me