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pinkycute:
Ooh.... That means You have never chat wit a lady before ?

Well, if you can't chat wit her.... Just demand for her number.... Ok,

pinkycute:
Why won't him know how to chat wit a lady ?

What's dere to be shy of...
Abi the Op no cute ni ?

spyg1: After going through the whole sh*t, i observed the following about the OP,
1. Desperation (dying for a girl who does not give a sh*t abt U
2. Inexperience ( not romantic etc)
3. Bragging
4. Lack of confidence in himself
5. Idleness(working class person will not have that time for a gal)
6. A person that can see a white thing as red or black.
Suggestion:
improve yourself against aforementioned points.

This is Naija not London worse still UNILAG.

At your statue girls are suppose to be dying for you not otherwise.

sean123: Why

sean123: Very

spyg1: @OP you either accept this advice or your desperation for girls can even help us rescue the 200 girls from sambisa forest

passionate88: @op, I said it before and I will continue saying it... "Never let a girl know just how much you love her", if you do, they will manipulate you to the extent you will think you are a horrible person.... Just try to forget her, she even told you numerous times that you guys are not compatible.

chymystique: are you sure you dnt feel anything for her again? Not wen u go to bed u will start thinking of her.. As for ur ego, when it comes to matters of the heart pride shld b set aside.. It ruins most relationships/friendships.. Its good as u ve made up your mind.. I hope u r happy now and you find someone better who deserves you

Kinkybraids: 1. Lol you are not going to make me go look for the proof in your post coz dam its long...no offence

2. Whoa women are not shallow...she probably likes other attributes and thought the intimacy would improve. Trust me if you were good and with the amount of times you made out you would had your way. No it want mixed signals but her giving you a chance...she gave you soo many.

3. No i dont think she was... I think she also got fed up then missed u and pinged you ect but you were being stubborn. At no point should you beg a woman but if she reaches out...its a blessing so take it. Women are well practiced in ignoring men so thats why its 6 weeks now... Wish i cud hear her side of the story. Im from SA.

You are still young... Hmmm and shes 22... I think she probably has an older bf in naija. The age gap is not wide enough for her to take you seriously. Hmmm ofcourse she was scared coz she didnt wanna be stranded in london because u kicked her out in one of your mood. Also it makes more sense now. You feel angry that a girl of a lower status rejected you (no offence) ... And if she is a girl with pride or wits she probably was using you or likes having you there financially but doesnt wanna give you sex. Luring you with the hopes of a relationship or sex kept you spending. Hmmm this girl is smart she knew you loved her.

chymystique: please don't get me wrong.. I mean she likes you not love but doesn't want to date you/or make whatever u guys were having work due to reasons best known to her.. I said ur attitude cos mayb something about it turned her off eg; ur choice off words wen u r angry as u stated in your original post.. Y don't u try once more with the discussion if nothing positive is forth coming then you move on

PrincessB1: Shz playing wt ur emotion nd nt realy into yu again, so i guess...In short move on

andromida: Call the gal and stop playing with yourself. You might just be pleasantly suprised and worst case she says acts in a way that turns you off then your heart will rest but try before you give up.

PrincessB1: Forget abt ha OP abi oda ladies no dey Its obvious both of yu arnt meant for each other, So move on....Delete ha picture frm ur mind

keyman0007: sighs, wake up!, its obvious u dig her, way more than she digs you. the fact she is in Naija and u r in london, spells doom to the relationship. Especially for an emotional guy like you. You havent gotten so serious and u r having this problems.

Rule no 1 neva ever ever do distance relationship except you are forced in my circumstance eg marriage or wrk transfer cos they always end badly. Unilag babe for that matter. I just have a feeling she will burn you.
Rule no 2: I dont know how you do it in london but over here neva try to sleep with a girl the first time she comes to your place, no mata the attraction and kongi. trust me she will be back and maybe then you can or on her third visit. it works.
[b]Rule 3: [/b]neva cool when a girl tell you she cheated on her man.

You will just kill yourself of hypertension. confirm naija, sweet girls dey london and you are killing yourself on one babe who is using your heart to play games. Sean123 u r a man, a leader!! act like one. you should always be in control, dont let one girl press ur brain like gameboy.

I Hope u hvnt too invested on her? although her age also matters the older she becomes the more serious. i am feeling she must still be very young.

My personal advise dont call her for like a month, if she doesnt call you ignore her abeg, she isnt worth the stress.

Havent said all that, if you think she is the one for you, then go for her but thread with caution. dont shw u r desperate. chat with her dont stress it, if she digs u, she will surely show it. Period.


Please focus on your work abeg, cos that what pays the bills. take it from me many better chicks will come.

Mendo007: mehn! dis ur story is long. I culdnt read it all up I stopped at where u said u had an argument with her & after that I scrolled down here 2 type this reply n here is my advice for u regarding dis whole issue......" learnt to summarise pls"

merieam16: Firstly..@op er u a journalist ,secondly u didn't study her well enough,Every girl u meet er nt d same...so next time try study a girl b4 u make moves nd neva get angry because she rejected u cos ure nt her gf yet.

pweedyuz: soo long i got confused

farano: I'll be back to read the whole story

justi4jesu: Why were you rude to the?