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Religion / “it Is Not Rape: How I Had Sex With A 15-year-old Girl In Church” – Bishop Chibu by sedebay: 3:52pm On Jul 09, 2013
Bishop Chibuike Nwabueze has blamed the devil for his alleged rape of a 15-year-old girl after ministering at the Calvary Army Ministry, Rumuoji Eneka in Obio Akpor local government area of Rivers state.

He said he did not rape the girl explaining that what happened between them was consensual.

According to him, the young girl (names withheld) who came to him for deliverance started removing her dress but

before he could restrain her he found himself on top of her having full-blown sex.

“But to my greatest surprise, I was surprised when I saw her pulling off her blouse and skirt. But, before I knew it, I had a carnal knowledge of her. That is the truth of the matter.”

His head suddenly dropped after the confession, then went up again; this time he said anybody could have fallen for it.

Nwabueze said he called ‘junior’ pastors in the church to pray for him when he realised he has sinned against God.

Nwabueze reportedly said he took a second look at the little girl who probably was still lying nude and waiting for a second round and what he saw pissed him off.

“She started laughing at me. She said ‘are you angry?’ I told her that I did not know she had hypnotised me. She said I should not bother,” the bishop said.

“I was so angry and annoyed that I called some of my pastors and made a confession, that I did not know what was happening.”

While trying to explain what led to the temptation, the bishop maintained that the pastor of the church where he went to preach set him up.

“We have different Colleges of Bishops. I am the Chairman of  the Communion of Bishops in Rivers State. Well, what actually happened was a set up. It was set-up by my enemies. I have so many people who are my enemies. The man in-charge of where I went to minister is my enemy. He is the person that set me up,” he stated.

“He invited me to his church for a programme, claiming  to be my friend. After the programme, he set me up because of  the tussle over the chairmanship of the communion.”

The police in Rivers state have advised Christians to be vigilant and ask the right question so as not to fall prey to dubious pastors.

Deputy Commissioner of Police in charge of  Rivers SCID, Samuel Okaula, who paraded the bishop and a male nurse who allegedly facilitated the abortion, also said people should be conscious of worship centres. He said Nwabueze would be arraigned before the court to serve as a deterrent.

Reacting to the development, Executive Director, Institute of Human rights and Humanitarian Law, IHRHL, Ayankwee Nsirimovu, described the action of the bishop as unfortunate as  it was done by one in a position of spiritual trust.

Celebrities / Nollywood Actor, Tony Umole Has Died. by sedebay: 7:17am On Jul 06, 2013
Nollywood actor, Tony Umole has died. The actor who is popular as “Daddy”, a character he interpreted well in  One Love, a TV serial drama. His demise was confirmed by Taju Adepetu, the Executive Producer of One Love.
Umole acted in Abuja Connection back in 2003 with the likes of Eucharia Anumobi and Enebeli Elebuwa. He has since featured in many movies after that. He was also known to be a great script writer.
Celebrities / Desmond Elliot Has Has Gone Bald For A Movie by sedebay: 7:06am On Jul 06, 2013
Desmond Elliot has has gone bald for a movie he his currently shooting. It is funny because fans are begging to wonder if Desmond is being paid N5 million Naira for going bald just like Nollywood actress Chika Ike was paid for cutting her hair on set of a move role

Fashion / Is This Fashion Or What by sedebay: 6:50am On Jul 06, 2013
I just wonder, why some people have Sunglasses on their faces at night and in the Morning? Have we got Moon-glasses, or Morning-glasses? Can someone educate me? undecided
Jokes Etc / What Will U Do If U Were Her Father by sedebay: 9:00am On May 13, 2013
A girl mistaken sent an sms 2 her father saying; Swthrt i dnt wnt 2 abort dis pregnancy cuz i might damage my womb,dnt 4get dis wil b d 10th pregnancy i wil abort 4 u,dnt worry am preparing my parents food,i wil poison dem both so we cn acqiure their property 4 ourselves alone. Question: wat wil u do if u were her father?
Celebrities / Re: OMG!!! Rick Ross Propose To Girlfriend With A Diamond Ring Worth $500,000 by sedebay: 12:30pm On May 09, 2013
Good
Celebrities / Re: Ngozi Nwosu Returns To Nigeria by sedebay: 12:23pm On May 09, 2013
God is good grin
Crime / Re: Jealous Woman Burns Friend Bosoms by sedebay: 5:59pm On May 07, 2013
Orisirisi undecided
Celebrities / Stella Damasus Did Nt Ruin Doris N Daniel Ademinokan’s Marriage by sedebay: 8:13pm On Apr 28, 2013
Stella Damasus did not ruin Doris and Daniel Ademinokan’s marriage –

In a mail titled ”Revelation about Daniel and Doris” and sent to popular celebrity blogger Stella Dimokokorkus, new facts reveal that Stella Damasus did not exactly ruin Doris Simeon and Daniel Ademinokan’s marriage as some blogs initially reported.

Read the mail below:

Hello,

I have stood by in the last couple of days to see this drama about Stella Damasus and Daniel Ademinokan unfold. I have read countless blogs, reviews and comments from all over the world and I have come to the conclusion that people have no clue what they are talking about.

I LIVED WITH DANIEL AND DORIS FOR ABOUT 4 YEARS SO I CAN TELL YOU FACTS! Not hear say or assumptions. I will even mention names that can be verified.

Let us not be distracted by this stunt that uncle Daniel just pulled with the party and the gift. Let us focus on the root of this matter. When we know the foundation, we will know how to direct our anger and “insults”.

I lived with Daniel & Doris because my sister was close friends with aunty Doris and at that time I needed accommodation in Lagos because my parents were based in the south south part of Nigeria. I lived with them when they were still on Salami Street in Mende, Maryland, Lagos and even when they moved to their Idowu Akindele Crescent residence in Magodo GRA, Lagos.

Daniel was a good man and the perfect husband to Doris and he made her feel special in every way. He always spoke to her nicely and was quick to defend her in many ways. He supported her career and was determined to make Doris rise to the top above her colleagues. He used to say that a lot and felt she deserved to be at the top. He would always say, “Dem Toyin, Funke, Dayo and co no fine pass you. Dem nor act pass you. I have to position you at the top”. He did everything in his power to put her her there. Daniel cannot come and boast to people, especially me that he single handedly financed all of Doris’ films. HE CAN’T. He was responsible for getting the finances but it was not HIS money entirely that did films like ONITEMI and OMO IYA KAN. The marketer named EPSALUM financed these films. I know that Daniel may have added about 10%-20% of his cash at some point but it was almost insignificant. The only film he did with his money for her 100% was the film ASIRI. So if he ever claims he did those films for her….quote me or ask EPSALUM.

Doris was a good wife in her own right. She supported her husband’s passion to change the industry. She encouraged him into making Yoruba films which he really didn’t want to get into. She enjoyed the fact that out of most of her colleagues, she was the one that had a STEADY home with a young and successful guy…ambitious man too. She was the minister of finance. That’s what Daniel used to call her in the house because he always gave her all the money to handle. He would bring money home an hand it ALL over to her because she was efficient in money management, unlike him who was a free giver and really had no respect or regard for money! Whether he had enough or not, he never did care so much about cash. NEVER!

For the 4 years that I lived with them, not for ONE day did I ever hear them raise their voices at each other in arguments or quarrels. You would see them come out of their bedroom sometimes with weird expressions and we would all know they just fought but you would NEVER hear Daniel raise his voice. NEVER!

One thing that the world never know was how much both families NEVER wanted them to get married. Doris’ parents didn’t like Daniel and Daniel’s mother (in particular) never liked Doris. She was against the relationship from the beginning. She is known to be a heavy prayer warrior and she said God was against the marriage from scratch but Daniel never listened to his mother.

Now, the HORRIBLE thing about Daniel is his stubbornness and hard headed nature. He never listens to people and if he believes in something, it would take a manifestation of the 10 plagues in Egypt to change his mind. He is an extremely stubborn and very determined person. Which was one thing I hated about him. Yes he is nice, loving to his family and friends but do not think for a minute that you can convince him easily to change his mind when he has already formed an opinion or decided on what he wants to do.

He went on with the marriage. His family believed that Doris trapped him with the baby but that is a big lie. I have always disagreed with his mother on that note: I respect the woman but Doris DID NOT trap Daniel with a baby. They were already living together for 3 years before David was born. So the woman should get her facts straight. Her son (I believe) wanted the child as much as Doris did.

I think along the line Uncle Daniel started to realize that in many ways he and Aunty Doris were different. Much different than he had thought. I believe Doris started to relax on several things because she felt she had her husband and he was going nowhere. He was always very expressive about his love, she was the opposite. He would run around the house and want to play love games with her but she thought that was a waste of time and energy. I personally experienced that with them on several occasions. I guess Doris was more concerned about how people perceived the relationship on the outside and not how sweet it really was on the inside. She always wanted pictures of them out there. Daniel was more concerned about making his marrige very “Oyinbo-ish” because that’s who he has always been.

At some point I started to feel that Daniel started getting tired of her excuses about being expressive with her feelings even in the house. I think it suddenly dawned on him that they were from two different worlds. Their command of English was too far apart, their ideologies were different, approach to situations, educational background, family, upbringing, etc. I believe she just stopped being his wife and turned herself into a MAMA in the house. I remember him buying her all sorts of short clothes and sexy outfits from the US. I thought they were too daring but he didn’t mind.

The marriage meltdown goes as far back as 2009. I know that I heard them talking in hush tones a few times about how sex was a problem in the marriage. I know for a fact that Daniel used to joke about it around the house but you could see he was serious in those jokes. He was always clowning about how he had to fill forms like an embassy to have sex with his wife. I know at some point it was so bad that for almost 6 months they didn’t do anything. One thing I can tell you for a fact is that in the course of their marriage, Daniel never cheated on Doris. This was a known fact and EVERYONE knew how crazy he was about his wife but really….is lack of sex enough to ruin a marriage?

Some people Daniel confided in where his bosom friend ALEX EFFIONG who was there when Daniel and Doris hooked up originally. I know I overheard Daniel and Alex talking about it in the editing studio at the BQ in Magodo. Two other people I know for a fact that Daniel confided in when he was in America where his friends BUKKY EBUN of Nollywood View and ‘LAMIDE DAVIES TALABI. You can ask them because they are on Facebook. These two people will tell you the whole story and how they tried to step in to advice. Even Bukky came to the house in Magodo at some point when she visited Nigeria. She came with KAHA the singer. That’s how I found out. He was desperate to save his marriage that’s why he took drastic steps to talk to people.

I blame Doris in some ways because she just relaxed, trusted that everything was OK and that her marriage was going to last forever. In marriage, you gotta keep working to make it good.

What annoyed Daniel the most was when he found out his wife had a shop that he didn’t even know about. He found out from outsiders and when he confronted her, she said she was trying to surprise him. That really pissed him off! He was enraged! This was when he grabbed his son and left! Daniel was a very, very patient man but I hate the way he did it. He just left!

While everyone was celebrating the happy lives these people shared, the marriage was already over!! They were just patching things up! They kept holding on because of “What people would say”.
Doris also messed up in certain ways because she could not fight to keep her man. She was too comfortable and never imagined that Daniel would get frustrated and leave. Not in this lifetime. I could see it in his eyes everyday that he was just tired of struggling to make it all work.

Look for people like ALIU SHORINMADE who was his personal assistant for 5 years. These were the people who knew Daniel very well and how he avoided women like a plague. Let them tell you facts. Let them tell you truths. Stella Damasus did not break up Doris Simeon’s home. That home was scattered long before Stella came into the picture. I believe Daniel got the attention that he craved so much at home in someone he considered a friend and sparks flew.

When i read that Daniel moved to Abuja and was being taken care of by a woman, I laughed because the people saying this have no idea who Daniel is. He is so arrogant in certain ways that he would rather die of hunger than take a dime from any woman. HE IS THAT KIND OF MAN! He will be too embarrassed to take a dime from any woman. The dude is a workaholic….I give that to him. Films, Fashion, Documentaries, Writing, Photography, Music, Publishing, Visual Effects, name it! He is a master at them all.

There is so much I know and if all these names I mentioned here deny anything…they are lying! I can open a big can of worms!

Look for ALIU and ask him to tell you about the girl BLESSING that DORIS brought into their house that stayed for almost 3 years. Daniel sent her away from the house over 4 times and Doris kept bringing her back. Why? Nobody knows! Can never be explained! He NEVER WANTED THE GIRL IN THE HOUSE but she kept bringing her back. We know that at some point Daniel discovered that this girl was sexually abusing Daniel’s son DAVID! WHAT DID DORIS DO ABOUT IT

If all the parties involved think I am lying, let them confront me! Let them deny it! Daniel cannot deny it! Doris cannot Deny it! Aliu cannot deny it! They know the truth!! There is a girl called SUNMISOLA that used to visit the house some weekends then. She was close to Doris…find out and ASK HER TOO!

All I can say is that Daniel and Doris deceived EVERYONE for a long time about how good the marriage was even when everything was BITTER and SOUR! So those hating on Stella are really wasting their time because STELLA DAMASUS DID NOT RUIN DORIS’ MARRIAGE. Daniel and Doris know what scattered them that led to their divorce in 2011. If any of them claim I’m lying, let them challenge me.

I am … JMK.

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Celebrities / Stella Damasus Did Nt Ruin Doris N Daniel Ademinokan’s Marriage by sedebay: 8:08pm On Apr 28, 2013
Stella Damasus did not ruin Doris and Daniel Ademinokan’s marriage –

In a mail titled ”Revelation about Daniel and Doris” and sent to popular celebrity blogger Stella Dimokokorkus, new facts reveal that Stella Damasus did not exactly ruin Doris Simeon and Daniel Ademinokan’s marriage as some blogs initially reported.

Read the mail below:

Hello,

I have stood by in the last couple of days to see this drama about Stella Damasus and Daniel Ademinokan unfold. I have read countless blogs, reviews and comments from all over the world and I have come to the conclusion that people have no clue what they are talking about.

I LIVED WITH DANIEL AND DORIS FOR ABOUT 4 YEARS SO I CAN TELL YOU FACTS! Not hear say or assumptions. I will even mention names that can be verified.

Let us not be distracted by this stunt that uncle Daniel just pulled with the party and the gift. Let us focus on the root of this matter. When we know the foundation, we will know how to direct our anger and “insults”.

I lived with Daniel & Doris because my sister was close friends with aunty Doris and at that time I needed accommodation in Lagos because my parents were based in the south south part of Nigeria. I lived with them when they were still on Salami Street in Mende, Maryland, Lagos and even when they moved to their Idowu Akindele Crescent residence in Magodo GRA, Lagos.

Daniel was a good man and the perfect husband to Doris and he made her feel special in every way. He always spoke to her nicely and was quick to defend her in many ways. He supported her career and was determined to make Doris rise to the top above her colleagues. He used to say that a lot and felt she deserved to be at the top. He would always say, “Dem Toyin, Funke, Dayo and co no fine pass you. Dem nor act pass you. I have to position you at the top”. He did everything in his power to put her her there. Daniel cannot come and boast to people, especially me that he single handedly financed all of Doris’ films. HE CAN’T. He was responsible for getting the finances but it was not HIS money entirely that did films like ONITEMI and OMO IYA KAN. The marketer named EPSALUM financed these films. I know that Daniel may have added about 10%-20% of his cash at some point but it was almost insignificant. The only film he did with his money for her 100% was the film ASIRI. So if he ever claims he did those films for her….quote me or ask EPSALUM.

Doris was a good wife in her own right. She supported her husband’s passion to change the industry. She encouraged him into making Yoruba films which he really didn’t want to get into. She enjoyed the fact that out of most of her colleagues, she was the one that had a STEADY home with a young and successful guy…ambitious man too. She was the minister of finance. That’s what Daniel used to call her in the house because he always gave her all the money to handle. He would bring money home an hand it ALL over to her because she was efficient in money management, unlike him who was a free giver and really had no respect or regard for money! Whether he had enough or not, he never did care so much about cash. NEVER!

For the 4 years that I lived with them, not for ONE day did I ever hear them raise their voices at each other in arguments or quarrels. You would see them come out of their bedroom sometimes with weird expressions and we would all know they just fought but you would NEVER hear Daniel raise his voice. NEVER!

One thing that the world never know was how much both families NEVER wanted them to get married. Doris’ parents didn’t like Daniel and Daniel’s mother (in particular) never liked Doris. She was against the relationship from the beginning. She is known to be a heavy prayer warrior and she said God was against the marriage from scratch but Daniel never listened to his mother.

Now, the HORRIBLE thing about Daniel is his stubbornness and hard headed nature. He never listens to people and if he believes in something, it would take a manifestation of the 10 plagues in Egypt to change his mind. He is an extremely stubborn and very determined person. Which was one thing I hated about him. Yes he is nice, loving to his family and friends but do not think for a minute that you can convince him easily to change his mind when he has already formed an opinion or decided on what he wants to do.

He went on with the marriage. His family believed that Doris trapped him with the baby but that is a big lie. I have always disagreed with his mother on that note: I respect the woman but Doris DID NOT trap Daniel with a baby. They were already living together for 3 years before David was born. So the woman should get her facts straight. Her son (I believe) wanted the child as much as Doris did.

I think along the line Uncle Daniel started to realize that in many ways he and Aunty Doris were different. Much different than he had thought. I believe Doris started to relax on several things because she felt she had her husband and he was going nowhere. He was always very expressive about his love, she was the opposite. He would run around the house and want to play love games with her but she thought that was a waste of time and energy. I personally experienced that with them on several occasions. I guess Doris was more concerned about how people perceived the relationship on the outside and not how sweet it really was on the inside. She always wanted pictures of them out there. Daniel was more concerned about making his marrige very “Oyinbo-ish” because that’s who he has always been.

At some point I started to feel that Daniel started getting tired of her excuses about being expressive with her feelings even in the house. I think it suddenly dawned on him that they were from two different worlds. Their command of English was too far apart, their ideologies were different, approach to situations, educational background, family, upbringing, etc. I believe she just stopped being his wife and turned herself into a MAMA in the house. I remember him buying her all sorts of short clothes and sexy outfits from the US. I thought they were too daring but he didn’t mind.

The marriage meltdown goes as far back as 2009. I know that I heard them talking in hush tones a few times about how sex was a problem in the marriage. I know for a fact that Daniel used to joke about it around the house but you could see he was serious in those jokes. He was always clowning about how he had to fill forms like an embassy to have sex with his wife. I know at some point it was so bad that for almost 6 months they didn’t do anything. One thing I can tell you for a fact is that in the course of their marriage, Daniel never cheated on Doris. This was a known fact and EVERYONE knew how crazy he was about his wife but really….is lack of sex enough to ruin a marriage?

Some people Daniel confided in where his bosom friend ALEX EFFIONG who was there when Daniel and Doris hooked up originally. I know I overheard Daniel and Alex talking about it in the editing studio at the BQ in Magodo. Two other people I know for a fact that Daniel confided in when he was in America where his friends BUKKY EBUN of Nollywood View and ‘LAMIDE DAVIES TALABI. You can ask them because they are on Facebook. These two people will tell you the whole story and how they tried to step in to advice. Even Bukky came to the house in Magodo at some point when she visited Nigeria. She came with KAHA the singer. That’s how I found out. He was desperate to save his marriage that’s why he took drastic steps to talk to people.

I blame Doris in some ways because she just relaxed, trusted that everything was OK and that her marriage was going to last forever. In marriage, you gotta keep working to make it good.

What annoyed Daniel the most was when he found out his wife had a shop that he didn’t even know about. He found out from outsiders and when he confronted her, she said she was trying to surprise him. That really pissed him off! He was enraged! This was when he grabbed his son and left! Daniel was a very, very patient man but I hate the way he did it. He just left!

While everyone was celebrating the happy lives these people shared, the marriage was already over!! They were just patching things up! They kept holding on because of “What people would say”.
Doris also messed up in certain ways because she could not fight to keep her man. She was too comfortable and never imagined that Daniel would get frustrated and leave. Not in this lifetime. I could see it in his eyes everyday that he was just tired of struggling to make it all work.

Look for people like ALIU SHORINMADE who was his personal assistant for 5 years. These were the people who knew Daniel very well and how he avoided women like a plague. Let them tell you facts. Let them tell you truths. Stella Damasus did not break up Doris Simeon’s home. That home was scattered long before Stella came into the picture. I believe Daniel got the attention that he craved so much at home in someone he considered a friend and sparks flew.

When i read that Daniel moved to Abuja and was being taken care of by a woman, I laughed because the people saying this have no idea who Daniel is. He is so arrogant in certain ways that he would rather die of hunger than take a dime from any woman. HE IS THAT KIND OF MAN! He will be too embarrassed to take a dime from any woman. The dude is a workaholic….I give that to him. Films, Fashion, Documentaries, Writing, Photography, Music, Publishing, Visual Effects, name it! He is a master at them all.

There is so much I know and if all these names I mentioned here deny anything…they are lying! I can open a big can of worms!

Look for ALIU and ask him to tell you about the girl BLESSING that DORIS brought into their house that stayed for almost 3 years. Daniel sent her away from the house over 4 times and Doris kept bringing her back. Why? Nobody knows! Can never be explained! He NEVER WANTED THE GIRL IN THE HOUSE but she kept bringing her back. We know that at some point Daniel discovered that this girl was sexually abusing Daniel’s son DAVID! WHAT DID DORIS DO ABOUT IT

If all the parties involved think I am lying, let them confront me! Let them deny it! Daniel cannot deny it! Doris cannot Deny it! Aliu cannot deny it! They know the truth!! There is a girl called SUNMISOLA that used to visit the house some weekends then. She was close to Doris…find out and ASK HER TOO!

All I can say is that Daniel and Doris deceived EVERYONE for a long time about how good the marriage was even when everything was BITTER and SOUR! So those hating on Stella are really wasting their time because STELLA DAMASUS DID NOT RUIN DORIS’ MARRIAGE. Daniel and Doris know what scattered them that led to their divorce in 2011. If any of them claim I’m lying, let them challenge me.

I am … JMK.

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Celebrities / 2face Young And Old Face by sedebay: 7:40am On Apr 24, 2013
Hummmmm any different........ undecided lipsrsealed

Autos / Re: Registered Honda City 2006 For Grabs by sedebay: 11:12am On Apr 17, 2013
Make I carry am for 880 ....serious buyer oooooo
Science/Technology / Re: Russian Billionaire Plans To immortalize Humans By 2045 by sedebay: 4:32pm On Apr 07, 2013
Emmyk: If he aint dead by
then.
Habi ooooooo
Autos / Re: Clean 1st Body Toyota Camry 520k :- Kings Auto by sedebay: 3:55pm On Apr 05, 2013
350k ready buyer. Cash n carry
Autos / Re: Super Clean Registered 2002 Nissan Primera For Just 570k Only by sedebay: 3:49pm On Apr 05, 2013
380k ready buyer with cash.
Health / Re: Baby Born With Encephalocele In Katsina by sedebay: 5:08pm On Mar 06, 2013
Akin-David:
Plz can this be corrected medically..I pray that God will do a miracle for this little baby. I stopped looking at the picture.
. AMEN embarassed
Politics / Re: Bomb Blast Under Amuwo-Odofin/Festac Bridge by sedebay: 3:31pm On Feb 18, 2013
it is well oooooo,may God help us 4 lagos sad

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