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Here is my similar story, no father no mother, my brother and I have been living together since when he was in JSS1(now BSC holder). He does all the cooking while I drop the cash. I pleaded with my wife to allow him stay with us whenever he comes from school of which she agreed.

When we got married, the unexpected similar issue happened, wife was reporting brother to me while brother was reporting wife to me. I sat my wife down and asked her what she wanted and how she wanted it...I called a meeting between the three of us. My words were short but instructive, wife maintain your kitchen since you have agreed to . Brother was ban from entering kitchen without permission. It took me lot of talks and enlightenment before peace reign in my house.

They later became best of friends, to the extend that when my brother is coming from school, he called my wife only and not me.
Now, my brother has finished school and service, he got a job and now on his own.

Please, tell your husband to let his brother know what it takes to be married, dos and donts must be spelt out to his brother. You too should not put up attitude of any kind towards your brother in-law till your husband sort things out.

Thanks

bizmahn: Excellent idea.What is the nature of the fast.midnight to 2pm,midnight to 6pm,total fast,water fast,fruit fast or anyhow?
With deep repentance & radical change there will be clear impact in a sincere self denying fast.

Normal daily fasting to break by 6pm daily. Here are other instruction or info as regards the 100 days fasting:
7 days marathon fasting = 14 days
21 days marathon fasting = 60 days
40 days marathon fasting = 100 days

G.O said you can drink water within the fasting period provided gari is not added to it. ( daily fasting included)
A day fasting missed must be replaced with 2 days fasting.
The only two exceptions are age 70 years and above and the newly wedded couple.

2014 IN PROPHECY BY DADDY G.O

GENERAL/ INDIVIDUAL:
1. God says a divine promise of more than a decade ago will begin to find fulfillment.
2. Someone can expect a prominent divine visitation that will radically alter the course of his or her life
3. Someone will have the first taste. There will be quite a few narrow escapes of tragedies


NIGERIA
1. The future of Nigeria will be determined this year and not in 2015
2. The equation at the beginning of the year will be different from equation at the year end. Therefore, don’t jump into conclusion.

INTERNATIONAL
1. There will be major breakthroughs in medicine and science
2. Pray against noisy highly destructive storms
3. Pray against monumental fire outbreaks.

NB: Other prophecies are not for public consumption, says the G.O

Sunderland 1- 3 liverpool

point of correction pls, prince abubakar audu was not elected under the pltform of PDP, rather it was anpp that elected him.

frosbel: Can Adeboye ensure that there is not ONE needy person among his church members before he embarks on this multi-billion naira project to build a 3-km Long Church Auditorium.

This is madness, building more and more edifices while our people are almost dying of hunger, a classical case of taking money from the needy and using it to build babels to the glory of MAN. Reminds me of India who are investing in more weapons of mass destruction when 60% of their people starve, talk of misplaced priorities.

Do not give a penny to this project , pay your rent, bills , feed your children and then give to the poor and needy around you. Go to the Lord in prayer before you donate a penny, I am sure there are worthier causes all around us.

People, it is time you follow JESUS and stop enriching MEN and their dreams. You do not need to go to a specific place to find Jesus, if we have the Spirit , he is always present for he has said " I will never leave you or forsake you ".

Free yourselves from MEN, follow JESUS, on judgement day Adeboye will not save you or stand in for you, on judgement day RCCG will not save you, now is the time to do the right thing and go back to new testament Christianity.

I wonder why people thing like this, there is need for a new auditorioum because the recent one can't accomodated the ever increasing members of the church. Please note that the magnitude of the church members determine the size of propose auditorium. Giving is according to your capacity and never by force nor cajole of a thing.

Wow!, God is wonderful