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relationshìp is based of trust.confronting your spouse with evidence is like offering him a chance to defend his person.remember he has a choice to defend his/her integrity.
investigating your spouse is like proving to yourslf that what you suspect is right.it is weakness on your part.it is time-consuming.
in essence,there are better ways to influence your spouse.
nikinash and nawah could be right

she is growin colder wit each passin day.no calls 4 like 5 days now.though calld her twice.txt her ds nite i need her luv.no response.damn!what shld i expect.
ronke,what do u mean by not tellin d honest?if i am willin,ow do u intend 2 sakara her?
as per girls not avin hat over,she might av a edge over them.

u know he/she is lying when he/she claims she/he is a friend cos u av read it all in his/her mail.he/she doesnt know u av his/her mail password.how do u confront him/her?

ronke,i really appreciate d advice.i wish i dont av d pw,bt come to think of ds:do u think i wld av known abt ds witout d pw.i knew of d affair b4 d guy left 4 yankee last yr,bt she claimed nothing was btw them.it was a big conflict btw My mind n My heart.i am deeply hurt.i just realize dat.ow wld u feel if u were in her shoe?do u think ur idea ll b smart enough.i need to know why she lied to me.

she is My baby.but i read in her mails about a boy in yankee because i av her mail password.she claims d boy is a close friend which contradict d content of her mails.she didnt know i have her password,which is why i am so hurt.d boy sent her money 2 get a phone last month,about 75g.wish i cld tell her about d password.things av bin bad between us because of similar occurrence last yr.i am loosing her.wht nxt?