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YOU MUST HAVE THAT SEX!

Prepare well for sex before you get married! You must have regular sex in marriage whether you feel like it or not. What? yeah! There are days heavens know you have no single libido left, hitting and pounding is the last thing at the back of your skull. Your whole body aches from head to toe and nothing you need badly at that moment like a sweet, sound sleep! Then hubby suddenly found you by his side, roves his eyes all over your body like freshly baked bread and wanna devour you like a sweet smelling sacrifice, what will you do? Have that sex of course!

A successful marriage involves two parties who constantly make sacrifice for each other. You don't joke with sex in marriage! Libido is not something you play with. Denying your spouse sex is playing with fire! You either give them the sex or watch your best friend impregnates your wife! It is a two way thing. As long as you are not sick or tired, you shouldn't deny your husband sex. As long as nothing is wrong with you physically, you shouldn't deny your wife sex.

Many singles think marriage is a place you can behave anyhow, that's childish! Marriage is not a place you act as you like, it is a place you act as you should!

Yes, your husband should understand you when you are sick and tired, understandable! Yes, your wife should give you a break when you are fatigued, understandable, but when it has to do with low desire and nothing else, you have to step up your desire or simply make sacrifice to accommodate your spouse!

Many men are starving their wives sex and wonder why she's running after men. Many women use lack of sexual desire to starve their husbands sex for weeks and months on end and wonder why he has an affair!

There are days both of you will have hot desire for sex and can't wait to pounce on each other, thank God for it and enjoy every bit of it, and there are days one of you just don't feel like it while the other is seriously burning, yearning, desiring, hungry and out rightly begging to have sex, make the sacrifice!

Singles, you need to prepare your mind to please your spouse and make them happy within your capacity. Genuine love seek the happiness of others!

I and hubby don't joke with this area of our lives. Heavens know I like sex with hubby. That thing is just plain delicious and I always look forward to the next episode, I can't do without it in a week but there are days (rare though) the libido goes down below zero and no single desire to be touched, talk less of sex, I still respond to my lover and hubby never takes it for granted. He is extra-ordinarily tender and appreciates me profusely after.

There are days hubby just don't feel like it; very busy, lots of things on his mind, tired or needing rest, yet, he wouldn't say no. Once he finds me restless, he calms me down and I keep saying thank you every time I have the opportunity to do so.

Yes, rest whenever you need to. Understand when your spouse needs rest and allow them to rest or recover from the illness but when it is becoming a habit to stay off sex just because you don't feel like it while your spouse is almost burning to death, you need to review that attitude. May the Lords grant you understanding. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele, 2017; reposted, 2024.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com

BEFORE YOU MARRY A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER...

You have to take note of the high disparity and see if you can cope.

Will he see you as a friend or a daughter who must always listen to his command and nothing more? Or he will put his age aside and be your best friend, gist mate and romantic partner? You need a young blood to enjoy your life with and age doesn't really determine the freshness of the blood. Attitude is, if you understand what I mean.

I have met guys who were just few years older than me and treated me like a kid with no thought of her own and I have met men far older who treat me like a buddy, some even say "Yes ma". You get it? Attitude basically matters not just the accumulation of numbers.

At forty, your sexual desire peaks and you want more sex like no man's business. At forty, his own sexual desire begins to decline talk less of when he is sixty years old! But with good diet, enough sleep, right attitude to work and a very young heart, the man can boost his libido, desire you like crazy, have sex 2 to 3 times a week and stay on top of his sexual games with you!

One lady separated from her elderly husband because she was starving sexually! There are young men less than thirty or a little over thirty who also starve their wife sex!

Attitude matters.

God's will matters most!

If God says at 25, you will marry a man who is 45, who are we to say NO?

When Jesus says YES, nobody can say NO my dear!

Do not box God!

Still, don't do what your power can't carry!

Not every lady can marry a man far older than she is.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

You will not mis-choose in Jesus' name!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

ARE YOU GOOD IN BED?

A wife may be poor at any other skill but not sexual skill. Being good in bed is a must for any marriage that will last. It is not dignity for a wife to say, "I am not good in bed" like she just won a trophy -that is a shame not virtue!

Other activities in marriage may be delegated but not sexual activity with your husband. Someone may help you cook for him but no one should help you have sex with him, that is exclusively your job and you must do it with excellence!

Sex with your husband must rate an A!

Holy ghost filled, virtuous women don't lie like a log of wood and let their husband "do" it. They are active! They have vibes! They enjoy it! They moan! They tweak! They kiss! They Romance! They are their husband's "LovePeddler!"

Born again men who are not good in bed will receive judgement for making daughters of Sarah burn in marriage! The Bible says "it is better to marry than to burn." Now that she is married, she is still burning! You don't take her to heaven when she travels with you through Jerusalem! You don't make her gasp for breath! You don't raise her tempo! You don't make her body shiver! You don't make her long for your touch, your caress, your mouth, your body, your all of you! Why is she getting tired? Why is she losing interest? Aren't you doing your job as a husband? What is your problem? Why will you allow her burn to death?!

Bottom line, be the best, sweetest spouse you can ever be for your spouse in bed! Let your sex in marriage rate an A! That is God's perfect plan for you!

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© Seun Oladele
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

LADIES, KEEP YOUR HEAD!

Smart ladies don't enter relationships with their hearts, they enter with their heads. If you are too emotional, you will become a football in the hand of playboys!

So many ladies are broken, battered and shattered by agents of satan they call lovers because they keep their brains in their purse while entering the relationship and get burnt forever! if you give your heart to the wrong man too soon, he will shatter you and blame you for being so stupid!

Start your relationships on logic not emotion! Enter with your head not your heart. Be inquisitive. Spend the few months getting to know the guy instead of declaring the love that does not yet exist.

Know how to answer and ask questions. Never be naive with a man. Until you trust him, never tell him you love him, he will play with your emotions, get your back on the ground and tell the world you seduced him.

Godly men exist but how will you know he is godly if you don't open your ears, eyes and brain?

Some men are scared of intelligent women, they get threatened and try to make a fool out of you! If he doesn't respect your values and principles, quit the relationship before he quits it. Ending it first is a smart choice you will make. It helps you save face and keep your self esteem intact.

Do not compromise your standard for anybody. Raise your head, tilt your chin, stand tall and declare "I am a virtous woman, I will not cheapen myself before any man."

If after all the prayers, questions, enquiries and test, you discover he is the king fit for your heart, you can then slowly, gradually and wisely open your heart to him but if not, end the relationship without any apology.

A little word is enough for the wise. Stay blessed.

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

If he didn't pick your call the first time, assume he is busy, the second time, assume he is away from phone -probably in the toilet or on an emergency.

If he didn't pick the third time -assume he is sleeping. If he didn't call back latest the following day and you know he is alive, hale and healthy.

END THE RELATIONSHIP and never look back.

No one gets too busy to pick the calls of someone they love and respect. Thank you!

© Seun Oladele

WHY LONG DISTANCE MARRIAGE DOESN'T MAKE SENSE!

I know you need all the dollars, can't reject the promotion and we all seek the greener pasture. Fine.

Your spouse is giving you headache and you need the break, good!

Many men "run away" from marital challenges; once any opportunity to travel out of the country or state presents itself, they grab it with both hands and legs! That is better than committing s√icide or dying of high blood pressure.

Women do same!

More women are travelling out to make more money for hubby and kids. Good!

It's okay to seek more money and provide for your family.

It's okay to eradicate the shame of poverty and be seen as a financial hero upon your return from over seas!

It's okay to fend for your family and loved ones!

The challenge is, many things suffer; hubby suffers, wife suffers, children suffer -emotionally, psychologically, spiritually and physically.

Money is not the main reason we get married. We get married to help each other keep sane and whole. This helps us balanced to serve God, pursue our dreams and achieve success. When emotional, physical and sexual needs are not met, you have a very serious problem in your hand!

Your spouse needs to see you and talk daily, not just on phone but one on one. He or she needs to have sex at least once a week! Your children need your touch. They need physical and emotional support. They need parental care, guide and training. Most importantly, they need both dad and mum together to feel safe and secure. No amount of money can do that.

There is too much emotional gap in long distance marriages. When one spouse is gone for 3 months, another for years, Jesus, what is that?

How do you guys have sex? Through sending nudes, video sex, flirty chats or what? Are you serious? How can you pump a man up showing him all the goodies and expect him to keep sane? A man is never going to be normal until he releases the sexual pressure you just put on him. A lady close by may help him douse the fire!

Pumped up women may seek sexual satisfaction from male friends while waiting for husband's arrival.

Adultery is getting rampant all over the places because people are living in denial!

Money is being placed over intimacy and friendship in marriage.

Legitimate sex is being destroyed!

Nobody cares because you bring back the money, live large and the society respects you.

You can't eat your cake and have it!

Either travel with your family and enjoy all the money and intimacy together or stay together wherever you are and pray that God blesses with a job or business that won't take you too far from your family.

It's okay to travel out once in a while or as often as your business/ministry/career demands but when it is becoming too frequent, taking several months and years and your spouse is dying both physically, spiritually, emotionally and sexually, you need to sit down and wear your thinking cap.

May the Lord grant you understanding.

God bless you. Cheers!

Facebook: Seun Oladele
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com

© Seun Oladele.

CAN I TAKE YOU OUT?

Don't marry someone you don't want to be seen with in public, someone you can't identify with, someone whose looks, spoken English or dialect makes you weep!

Some ladies tell me they don't like the guy's looks yet he is God's will.

Some guys said the lady is not their spec, yet she is God's will!

She is either too crude, short, tall, not busty or buttockish enough!

The guy either has tribal marks, looks archaic and speaks horrible English!

God won't give you someone who embarrasses you in public! You either heard the devil or you were sleeping when proposing or accepting proposal from your so called God's will.

Our father Abraham to Isaac to Jacob loved, admired and were proud of their wives!

Marry someone you are proud of or help them become someone to be proud of.

Encourage them to improve on their looks and spoken English.

There is nothing anyone can do about tribal marks, height, breast shape or buttock shape!

You either totally accept or reject them!

Don't marry someone you can't take out on date, show to friends or loved ones. Its a bad omen!

Accept them 100% or reject them 100%.

You can't manage! You are not a manager!

Learn to hear God properly!

Discover ways God speaks!

To think about a guy all day, dream about him all night and conclude you had a vision from God when you have zero knowledge of the Bible and know nothing about how God leads is to walk in gross darkness and high level of stupidity!

Most people who claim they heard God were hallucinating!

Get to know God.

Know the word of God.

Have fellowship with him daily.

Learn how he speaks DAILY not when you are desperate to wear a wedding ring and start having sex!

Bottom line, be proud of your spouse.

Get it?

May the Lord grant you understanding.

Be blessed!!!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

DON'T MARRY HER!

1. Don't marry her if you don't love her, you must love your wife in marriage, I mean you MUST!

2. Don't marry her if you can't accept her past including the baby she had by mistake.

3. Don't marry her if you don't want to have anything to do with all her family members.

4. Don't marry her if you hate her looks.

5. Don't marry her if she hates you or finds you disgusting.

6. Don't marry her if she does not believe in your vision and future.

7. Don't marry her if she is an unrepentant waster of resources.

8. Don't marry her if she is totally lazy, completely laid back and incorrigibly idle.

9. Don't marry her if she shamelessly flirts around.

10. Don't marry her if she is proud, rude, pompous, un teachable, abusive, saucy, sassy, arrogant, snobbish and high minded!

11. Don't marry her if she is an unrepentant feminist and you hate feminists.

12. Don't marry her if you are the very jealous, hot tempered type and she is very beautiful and intelligent. No matter how faithful she is, you will distrust, cage and abuse her. Men with borderline personality disorder, the alpha males, narcissists and paranoid can't handle an extremely beautiful and intelligent woman.

13. Don't marry her if you hate her religion.

14. Don't marry her if she earns more than you and you are jealous of her success. Either you go out and earn more or appreciate her, respect her and encourage her to earn more and succeed other wise, marry a woman below your size.

15. Don't marry her if she is not God's will for you.

Bottom line, marry someone who you completely agree with and agrees with you. That is what is in Amos 3:3.

Marriage is the complete acceptance of someone else while helping them to become better.

If you can't accept her totally and help her become a better woman, please, don't marry her. Marriage is not by force. May the good Lord grant you understanding.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

TO THOSE WHO ASK ME FOR MATCH MAKING...

Abeg oooo! I am not God!

That is His personal business, not mine!

He is the best at pairing two different people together and you are sure it will work 100%!

I can only guide you on how to find your S0UL MAT£ with ease, that's my job here.

Read this below 👇👇👇 and thank me later!

Several singles have met their S0UL MAT£S and gotten married blissfully!

You too shall testify!

© Seun Oladele, 2024.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

LADIES, I WANT TO BEG YOU, DON'T MARRY A MAN WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM!

Helping your man succeed is not a problem, supporting a man who has nothing and earns low is not a problem, assisting your man to pay bills till he finds his footing is not a problem but helping a man who is proud, stubborn, unteachable, arrogant, naive or narrow minded because he is plagued with low self esteem is a big problem! A huge mistake! A disaster going somewhere to happen!

Never help a man who is not ready to help himself!

Never marry a man with an entitlement mentality!

Do not think of going to the altar with a man who lacks vision, who doesn't know where his future is heading, who envies you, resents you, argues with you or even fights you whenever you advice him or offer suggestions that will improve his life! You don't need any prophet to tell you he is a disaster going somewhere to happen!

Never marry a man who keeps talking faith but has no work! You hear? Remember what the Bible (James 2:26) says!

Do not marry a man who borrows from you and never pays back!

You can only marry a man who has a sound, clean-clear vision for his life he is pursuing! Read that again, HE IS PURSUING! If he has a vision of building a super successful ministry, he is not at home sleeping by 10:00am claiming he is a full time Pastor! By 5:00am (latest) in the morning, he is up, praying, studying, working and out in the area of his calling ministering to people! Not flirting with you on phone, asking for nudes and masturbating till afternoon when all his mates are at work earning decent income!

Wake up LADIES! I often get questions that make me wonder if these ladies ever think or they are under a spell!

Bottom line, marry with sense!

Ensure he has a job, work or vision he is pursuing!

Ensure he is not lazy or idle!

Ensure he has a growth mentality!

Ensure he records progress daily, weekly, monthly or yearly!

Ensure he is humble, teachable and sees you as his partner not a competitor other wise, he will be bitterly jealous of you, limit you and destroy your chances of ever succeeding in life!

May you not mischoose!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

©Seun Oladele, 2024.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

SHE IS THE ONE THAT WILL GIVE YOU PEACE...

A lady who thinks before talking, budgets before spending, works before eating, prays before sleeping and requests for marriage proper before opening her laps for you is the one that will give you peace!

Ladies who talk without thinking, spend like mad, like crazy and open their private part cheaply for your enjoyment without any regard for God and her parents' dignity and honour will single handedly bring down everything you have laboured to build!

May you not fall into the hands of a slay queen!

May no woman slay your destiny and render you useless!

Use your senses brother! Marry a woman who fears God not the one who fears losing your money and your p£nis! You get what I mean?

May the good Lord grant you understanding!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

©Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

WORDS YOU SHOULD NEVER SAY TO A WOMAN...

"You are stupid!"
"You are ugly."
"You are not attractive to me anymore..."
"You are fat!"
"What is that? Stretch mark?"
""You are a failure in bed."
"My EX is far better than you are."
"I regret marrying you?"
"Why are your breasts sagging?" (Who sagged them? 😂😂😂)
"You are a failure."
"You are lazy!"
"You will never amount to anything in life!"
"You are a bad wife"
"You are barren!" (If she is still looking for the fruit of the womb).
"You are a non-£ntity." (Because she came from a poor background).

And so many other derogatory names I'm not comfortable typing. Women respond to words. Words can make a woman blossom or wither. There is no perfect woman anywhere! Virtuous women don't drop from heaven, their husbands made them. If there is anything you don't like about her, lovingly and prayerfully correct instead of abusing and destroying her self esteem!

Women are very concerned about their body image. We love to look beautiful to our man and sexually appealing to him as well. When you focus on the physical effects, criticize, condemn and abuse her, you register your rejection and her self esteem goes down to zero!

No woman thrives on abuse! She thrives on admiration, affection, compassion and love.

What are the areas she is doing exceptionally well? Appreciate her, admire her, sing her praises and she will be more confident to face her challenges and deal with her weaknesses.

Never use her family background against her.Her family means. lot to her. Don't compare her with your EX, if your EX is better, why did she dump you? Never tag her a bad wife or mother because she didn't perform to expectation. Be careful what you prophesy on your wife because they will come to pass ...he shall have whatsoever he saith..." (Mark 11:23).

That you are facing challenges in your marriage does not mean you should regret your marriage; you are simply going through a phase and that phase will pass. Be careful with your utterances.

Many women are suffering from depression, paranoia, psychosis, mental disorder and satanic oppression due to the constant abuse they are experiencing in their marriages. It is like going through hell! Verbal abuse and rejection are like going through hell. No one experiences them constantly and keep sane!

A happy wife is the product of a wise, godly, mature husband.
Use your tongue wisely and your wife will blossom.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

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Sex...Sweet...Sex!

© Seun Oladele,
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

WORDS YOU SHOULD NEVER SAY TO A MAN...

"You are a stupid!"
"Is this how much your mates are giving to their wives?
"You are a failure."
"You never do anything right."
"How much do you think you are earning? Is that one an income?"
"You don't know how to have sex".
"You are lucky I married you...I am just managing you."
"You look ugly" or "You don't look attractive."
"I enjoyed sex with my EX but never with you"
"You are a bad husband."
"You are a bad father."
The list goes on.

All men have fear: fear of failure and fear of losing respect in the eyes of their loved ones especially his wife.

A man's self esteem is very much attached to how much he earns and how well he performs in bed. If he earns low, it already affects his self esteem and reminding him that is a big blow on his face. Some men get so enraged they beat their wives or partners (I do not support domestic violence, read well before commenting. I'm explaining why it happens).

Verbal abuse sometimes precedes physical abuse. You can advise your partner without abusing them or rubbing their weaknesses in their face.

A wise woman knows how to talk and when to talk. Words affect a man much more than you think. Manage anger don't allow anger control you. Never speak out of anger sweetie, in all honesty, you are gonna say something you will regret and you will regret it bad!

If you are getting frustrated, depressed or discouraged by your husband's unchanging attitude, it is better to go for counseling, best to handle it over to God in prayer and excellent to go for knowledge. There are hundreds of thousands of books that will surely help. You need to read. No successful marriage thrives on ignorance!

What about the woman? What should a man never say to his wife?

Same rules apply. Men should never use those words on a woman, they can d@mage her! Though how much a woman earns does not affect her self esteem as much as it does to a man, there are major weaknesses a man should never hammer on. Such as her looks/physical defects, sexual performance, family background among others.

I will take time to write on that later.

Thanks for reading. Remain blessed forever.

Cheers!

© Seun Oladele, 2020; reposted, 2024.

THE REASON SO MANY YOUNG MEN ARE AFRAID OF GETTING MARRIED NOW is because their income is low and they are afraid of being disrespected, put down and insulted by their wife!

They are rather waiting for the time they have "enough" to meet "all her needs" and "win" her respect!

If you do that, two things may happen: 1. You may never get married 2. You may marry a woman who loves you for your money, nothing more!

Some highly successful business men in the the world confessed they had nothing, I mean nothing when they married their wives. Cosmas Maduka, owner of COSCHARIS, a multi billionaire luxurious car dealer said he was in poverty when he married his wife at 20! Mensa Otabil, a very successful preacher, founder, chancellor of a university and business man in Ghana, also said he had nothing! No plate, no spoon, no chair, no bed, no nothing! When he married his wife! Fela Durotoye said he had only a table and a chair! Ben Carson, the world celebrated Neuro surgion was still struggling in school when he met candy! The list goes on!

You will only have very serious problem in marriage if , you are lazy and have an entitlement mentality! If you believe your wife is the one to pay all your bills and rescue you for life then don't bother to marry please, marriage is not for you!

Some women have married such men hoping they will break into wealth after marriage but their dreams were shattered when the man refuse to dream, work hard, shatter limitations and walk into greatness!

If you marry a woman to impress her with your money, you don't have a wife, you have a contract! She is to supply you respect and submission while you supply her money! The day your money is over, so is your marriage!

Things happen! People lose their jobs, businesses may crash! What will she do when you no longer make money and desperately need her support? That is when you will know whether you married a wife or a disaster!

I hope this post is simple enough?

May you receive the grace to step out in faith and do the needful!

When you marry a good woman who believes in you and you work hard leaning on God's wisdom and power to get wealth, you are the next billionaire the world is waiting for!

Amen?

Thanks for reading, God bless you!

Cheers!

© Seun Oladele, 2024.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

NO SHAME IN SEX...

So many ladies are walking about in shame, premarital sex clothes you with shame. But there is no shame in sex. It is sin that makes it so shameful.

I boldly tell people including the devil I like sex, I enjoy sex, I ask for sex, I look forward to sex, I exercise during sex. I try different styles in sex. I like screaming my husband's name at the peak of sexual pleasure. I'm happily married to my lover. It's my pride I'm giving him pleasure and he's giving me orgasm. There is nothing to feel awkward about that.

The shame comes when you give your most private treasure to the guy who is not yours and you cannot even claim ownership over. Your future is hanging, your life is hanging and you feel totally useless. Your head is bowed and you feel naked, exposed, broken and shattered after he walks out on you. I can't describe your pain baby...it's the reason you have deep seated anger and hatred for men which spills over to your marriage. So many women are easily angry today and do not know why, premarital sex is one of the leading cause.

Saying NO to premarital sex is a smart choice you will make. You keep your confidence. You have good, sound self esteem. You enjoy sex in marriage and you are proud of yourself. Till forever, sexual purity pays. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

MEN WHO ARE NOT SEXUALLY SATISFIED WITH THEIR WIVES

1. Have low self esteem
2. Easily get angry.
3. Are easily sexually attracted to other women
4. Are some times irrational
5. Are easily distracted from their vision, dreams and goals.
6. Suffer financial set backs.
7. Some have sex in the dream
8. Despise or hate their wives.
9. Spend more time with other women.
10. Waste financial resources on frivolities..

If your husband is suffering from any of the above...check your sex life. Is it regular, hot, passionate or boring, sick, almost or non existence?

If it is boring, dead or semi dead...there is fire on the mountain!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

WHEN YOU MEET HIM...

You will have peace of mind and heart.

You will be at rest.

There will be joy in your heart.

He will love you, honour you, respect and cherish you.

Your life, vision and ministry will agree.

You will love him, honour him, cherish him, adore him.

You will be his only focus. He will let go of other ladies because of you.

You will become his best friend.

He will not cheat on you neither will he deliberately do things to hurt you.

He will honour your parents and all your family members.

He won't use your past against you.

He will accept your child as his (if you have had a child in your past).

He will treat you like you are the only woman on earth.

H will not disturb you for sex before marriage.

He will give to you, take care of you and be generous to you.

You will look more beautiful.

You will be more radiant.

You will glow with pride.

You will believe more in yourself.

You will start dreaming big and dare to achieve greater things in life.

You grow spiritually, mentally, financially and emotionally.

You want to be his wife.

You want to take care of him.

You love him!

That is your husband, say YES to him and do not let him go!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

©Seun Oladele
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LOVE MAKING...

I prefer to make love to my husband than have sex, making love is "haaawwwt". Every part of you is involved from the crown of your head to the sole of your feet and the shivers that go through the body at the peak is highly electric! I just pray this guy won't kill me with sexual bliss one day!

Anybody can have sex but making love is very scarce because it involves lots of work, I mean hard work!

You don't just jump in bed and pounce on your spouse. No one will enjoy sex that way. Real sexual intercourse that results in roof breaking orgasm for the woman begins with MIND LOVE MAKING. Until you and your husband begins to make love to each other's mind, you won't enjoy sex!

Learn to enter each others world. Talking and understanding is the key here. Don't just complain your husband is screaming and yelling at you, understand why he does so. Men cry, they just don't shed the tears. They will rather scream, yell or shout at you than confess he is hurting badly and needs you to put your loving arms around him, sooth him, love him, kiss him, cuddle him and make love to him. Men yearn for understanding as much as women do.

No woman is frigid in bed; had Jesus been married, his wife would be the hottest, sexually turned on female in the world. Jesus sure knew how to make a woman feel loved around him. Mary Magdalene couldn't help it, she poured a highly expensive perfumed oil on his feet and wiped it with her hair. Every woman is a tigress in bed! Forget the scarf she ties in church and the tongue she blasts on the pulpit.

Once you can make love to her mind, understanding her thought, feelings, emotions, words, strengths and weaknesses, she will become the hottest, sex star you have ever seen, experienced or even heard of in your entire life. The power is in your hand to turn your wife to whoever you want her to be in bed. If she aint enjoying love making, it's your fault brother.

Singles, sex is strictly for the married. I never get tired of preaching that.

To enjoy loving making in marriage, marry a man who genuinely loves you understands you, respects you, honours you and will do anything in his power to ensure you are happy and enjoy life including sex with him IN MARRIAGE.

As a guy, marry a lady who totally adores, cherishes, understands, loves, respects you and will do anything to ensure you are a happy and at peace living with her. Marry a lady who finds you completely attractive and would eagerly make love to you IN MARRIAGE.

Marriage is more than sex but sex is part of marriage or else we won!t have joysticks and vaginas. We must all enjoy sex in marriage, yes, we must!

Save sex for marriage singles. Hold unto your virginity/sexual purity and never lose it for anything in the world. Your spouse will celebrate you for keeping yourself for God and them.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun.Oladele.
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THE BOY IN YOUR HUSBAND...

No man wants to grow old! No man wants to appear less desirable and weak in bed!

Men love to be admired -always. It's the reason lots of middle aged men are into young ladies -to prove their worth! To show they are still capable of getting a woman drool at them. To ascertain their sexual performance; to feel young again! To recapture their youthfulness, to play, laugh and catch fun! That's part of what your husband secretly wants in marriage but is afraid to tell you lest you abuse him or shun him down!

Successful couples play, laugh and have fun with each other till old age!

There is a boy in every husband that loves to be played with. Play with your husband, tickle your husband, laugh with your husband; caress his head, his chin, stomach or anywhere you fancy and make him feel loved again!

Admire your husband! He doesn't want to look gray headed or bald with flabby hands and protruding tummy. Celebrate him and let him know he still looks stunning, amazing and highly admirable to you!

Encourage him when he is down and doubts himself, we all need encouragement.

Sing his praises often. Look for something nice he does and praise him! Praise his job, his accomplishments and fatherly role in the family.

Honour him, respect him and value his words. When you throw his words back at his face, walk out on him or challenge his authority, you strip him of his manhood and make him feel less than a man.

Make love to him in creative ways. Play with his body, every part of him.

Call him often and let him know you miss him and love him so much.

Flirt with him when chatting and be his girl once again. Men love to have girlfriends. Responsible men have only one girlfriend and that girlfriend is you.

Smile at him for no reason.

Laugh with him a lot. Be generous with your laughter.

Forgive him when he makes mistakes or hurt you.

Buy him gifts on his birthdays and wedding anniversaries. Surprise him with unexpected gifts.

Let him know you love, cherish and adore him so much.

He is the king of your heart.

I love you so much Adewunmi! You are the king of my heart!

Take my kisses, muuuaah!!!

Thanks everyone for reading!

God bless you and keep your marriage strong, sweet and blissful all the days of your life in Jesus' name!

© Seun Oladele
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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE IS LOSING INTEREST IN LOVE MAKING

Several things can make a woman lose interest in rolling in sheets and make her husband moan her name in sweetness and deep pleasure!

From bills piled so high to unpaid children school fees to low self esteem to stress to depression to rejection, to in-law palava to worry to fear of side chicks to health issues to hormonal imbalance, etc!

Yet! You are burning! You need this thing badly, regularly, often and this hot cake is carrying it everywhere refusing to give you a full bite!

Worry not! Here are few things you can do to make your wife drop her pants in the middle of the room and start yearning for your touch like never before!

1. LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY: Women respond to men who love them for nothing! If you can't love her unless she's perfect, you aint ready for sweet, hot, passionate love making!

2. SHOW AFFECTION: Learn to kiss sweetly, touch gently, caress their head affectionately, stroke her arms tenderly, sweetly draw her by the waist to you unexpectedly.

3. BE SUPER ROMANTIC: Have a good sense of humour. Go right into the kitchen and surprise with washing the dishes or cooking once in a while, look sweetly into her eyeballs when she talks. Sweetly, gently,lovingly feast your eyes on her curves, massage her toes .

4. NEVER MAKE LOVE WITHOUT pre-intimacy: Gently, slowly, passionately work on her body, fan the flame of fire gently till she burst into flames during love making. ..Learn to create sexual tension and get her wet before the real work begins. Both of you should read my book: SEX...SWEEY SEX, get drunk with some strong desire, discuss what you read and explode in bed!

7. SPOIL HER SILLY!
You don't have to break your bank to do that. Buying her unexpected gifts often, taking her out on special dates and rememebeeing to buy small things even snacks for her on your way from work will put a smile on her face and a desire for you in her heart!

8. LISTEN TO HER when she talks to you, allay her fears, reassure her over and over again she is the only woman in your world and will do anything to protct and keep her for life. Manage any of your family member giving her issues so they don't stress her emotionally, let her know she is your top priority after God...oh my...oh my....what a sweet husband you are!

Sex for you will be a regular especially after you have booth read SEX...SWEET SEX and you are eager to get drunk in love!

May your sex life catch fire!

I look forward to hearing your testimony!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

©Seun Oladele, 2024.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
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SIGNS THAT YOU ARE READY FOR MARRIAGE...

1. As a lady, you are at least 23 years old and the man is at least 25 years old.

2. You have a job/ business that can take care of you, your wife and at least a baby.

3. As a man you have your own apartment and you pay all your bills by yourself.

4. As a lady, you can take good care of yourself and another person without any stress.

4. You love children and hope to have yours.

5. You enjoy cooking and do house chores without being told.

6. You can live at least a thousand miles away from your parents.

7. You can make major decisions about your life and face the consequence.

8. You are no longer under the control and command of your parents.

9. You do not yield to peer pressure. You do what needs to be done regardless of what anyone feels.

10. You are sexually responsible. You know how to say NO to premarital sex and mean it.

11. As a lady you have a good relationship with your dad and you are submissive to authorities.

12. As a man, you love your mum, sisters and treat women generally with respect and dignity.

13. You know how to make and multiply money.

14. You are spiritually sound. You pray and receive answers to your prayers. You know how to hear God.

15. You are generous. You give with pleasure.

16. You have a healthy sexual desire.

17. You know exactly what you want in life and you pursue it daily to attain it.

18. You have a strong desire to love, bond with and help another person be all what God wants them to be.

19. You do not have destructive bad habits.

20. You are in full grip of your emotions. You are not hot tempered, lustful and possessive!

These and more are the signs you are ready for marriage. Marriage requires all round maturity: physical, social, financial, mental, emotional, psychological. It is not compulsory you must marry at 25.

Wait till you are mature or your immaturity will destroy your marriage. I see it happen all the time. May the Lord grant you understanding .

Thanks for reading. God bless you, cheers!

© Seun Oladele.
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GUYS, THIS IS HOW TO MAKE A LADY RESPECT YOU FOR LIFE...

Forget about how much you have in the bank, that's not the first thing we are talking about here!

Here are the qualities you must possess for a godly, virtuous, beautiful woman to fall head over heels in love with you 👇👇👇:

1. LOVE GOD: Men who love God and pursue Him with all their spirit, soul and body command the supernatural with ease and win everyone's respect without struggle.

2. PURSUE YOUR VISION not ladies and godly ladies will pursue you! Men who scan profile pictures of different ladies online in search of who to marry lack sound, sensible, godly vision they are pursuing!

3. MAKE YOUR MONEY: Godly men are not poor! I don't know why some young men celebrate poverty as if it's their badge of honour! Until you hate poverty with perfect hatred and do all it takes to break into wealth, you won't lift a pin! You won't open your mind to godly money making opportunities! You won't connect to the right people! You won't make good money! You won't be rich and no woman will respect you for life! Don't stay static financially. Keep growing! keep investing! keep multiplying inc0me! Women respect men who continually make good money! It shows you know your value and you are adding value! Money is an exchange for values added to humanity. The more value you add, the more m0ney you make!

4. DRESS RESPECTABLY: Your haircut, body grooming, facial grooming and carriage should reflect excellence, dignity and honour!

5. BE SEXUALLY DISCIPLINED: Men who can't control their sex drive are a big turn off for godly ladies! You look irritating! You are someone a sensible, godly lady wants to forget!

6. SHOW RESPECT TO OTHERS: Honour all men. Treat ladies with dignity. Respect the elderly. Love children. Be royal. Be dignified. Be kingly!

7. BE HUMBLE but don't be stupid! Don't look down on others and don't allow others take advantage of your humility.

8. INCREASE YOUR INTELLIGENCE: By reading, attending special workshops and seminars. Be up to date with basic, current information. Be relevant, excellent, exceptional, outstanding in your field. Keep improving!

9. BE HOLY. Holy guys are cute and make super romantic husbands! I didn't say, "be a religious fanatic!" I said, "be holy." There is a difference between the two!

May you become charming, irresistible, wanted and desired by your soul mate!

May you increase in honour! In the name of Jesus!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.
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HELLO BROS! YOUR WIFE MARRIED AS A VIRGIN!

Some young men need urgent and serious education on what virginity is before they break somebody's heart on the wedding night!

A virgin is someone who has not had sex with anyone not just a lady who bleed during first time sex because not all virgin brides will bleed! Please, get this fast and get it clear! Not all virgins have hymen. It is the hymen that makes them bleed when it is torn!

Some girls are born with no hymen!

As a lady grows older, her hymen may become thinner and wear out! Some lost it while going for a vagina examination at the hospital for medical reasons, some lost theirs while inserting pessaries to cure a vagina infection . Not all ladies will reach their wedding night with a bulging hymen begging to be burst, puuuuleeeeeazzzeee!

One lady told me she married as a virgin. Because she didn't bleed and sex wasn't painful, her husband looked at her with disappointment! He had expected her to be wriggling with pain and the whole bedsheet stained with blood!

I have taught that sex doesn't have to hurt for a virgin lady unless she has an abnormal hymen or her hymen is very thick! In this case, she had none and sex was easier with no pain and the man wished she had pain to prove she married as a virgin? 😱😱😱

Another lady had married with confidence and readiness to enjoy sex after reading SEX...SWEET SEX! The husband was surprised at her confidence and because she didn't bleed had concluded she didn't marry as a virgin!

This ignorance must stop biko!

I understand there are ladies who lie more than the devil! The lady had had sex with only God knows how many guys then act holy and virtuous when she was tired of being single to hook down and tie up the young man of God! She may even fake some pain during the honey moon and lie she has no hymen that is why she didn't bleed!

Some audacious ones don't have time for stress! They just insert hymen pills you would burst and see the red stain all over the bedsheets, lobatan!

The bottom line is this: marriage is built on trust not on hymen! If you can't trust that she is a virgin unless you see her hymen and a bucket full of blood on the wedding night, end the relationship and pray for a lady with a hymen!

There are ladies with hymen who are no longer virgins! They've had sex, the guy just hadn't reached her hymen yet. I know a lady who has had sex with two or more different guys before the last one deflowered her. She was still a "virgin" with multiple sex partners! And there are ladies who have no hymen and have not had sex with a single soul! They haven't even masturbated or insert their own finger in their v@gina!

All this myths that a virgin must bleed if she doesn't bleed then she is a LovePeddler must be done away with before marriage!

Ladies should be honest, truthful and sincere in their dealing so when you tell him you are a virgin,he will believe you whether you bleed or not but if your yes means no and no means yay, may God help you!

If you have lost your virginity through premarital sex, let him know before marriage to avoid shocking discoveries and unnecessary lies!

Keep your virginity at all cost to avoid ugly trouble.

You have no stories to tell when you marry brand new, holy and pure!

And if you have lost it, repent and turn a new leaf!

May the good Lord grant you understanding.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

©Seun Oladele, 2022; reposted, 2024.
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IF YOU HAVE NOT BEEN ENJOYING LOVE MAKING OR YOU ARE SCARED TO THE TEETH AS A VIRGIN, YOU NEED TO READ THIS...👇👇👇

"I made love to my husband back to back with passion after reading. My husband was amazed because I married as a virgin."

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"I love how you use words in this book, it is raw and down to earth. We need more Christian books like this that are so real."

"Reading alone gets me wet..."

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"After reading your book and practising, my wife keep chasing me directly and asking for more!"

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"Your book is a marriage saver! I have ended the sex strike and now makes love to my husband. Thank you ma."

And many other testimonies...

You too shall testify!

You will start calling your husband the beautiful name his mother forgot to give him.

You will hear your wife moan your name with pleasure.

You will send all your husband's mistresses packing!

You will enjoy sex like no man's business and wish you had read this book before you ever got married.

You will slid in and out of different styles like a pro despite marrying as a virgin.

You will come back with your own tank full of testimony!

You will thank your God you came across this post!

Devour the book and start enjoying maximum sexual pleasure in marriage

You too shall testify!

Sex...Sweet...Sex!

© Seun Oladele
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GETTING MARRIED ON A N3O,OOO SALARY

I asked my ladies if they can marry a man who earns 3Ok. Some said YES, some said NO for justifiable reasons.

A guy asked me if he could marry on a #67,OOO salary. Another asked me if he could marry on a #64,OOO monthly income, I said a big fat yes to both of them! Yes, you can!

The problem is not how much you earn, the problem is how you handle what you earn.

You can easrn 5OOk monthly and still not be ready for marriage! Financial intelligence is different from earning intelligence.

No matter what you earn, have a growth mentality. Ladies, take note, marry a guy who has a GROWTH MENTALITY. Don't marry a man who thinks 3Ok is a fortune and can't think of breaking out of the box.

Always know, that you can earn far above what you do now. It is possible to earn 3Ok by January and earn 2OOk by March. Think, make research, consult, seek counsel, look out for clean ways to make more money.

Save at least, 1O% of what you earn monthly. It will save you from some emergencies and have something handily in case a good, well researched business opportunity shows up. It takes self discipline to save. Some people will never save even if they earn 5PPk monthly. Learn to save for your future, emergencies and opportunities.

Spend below what you earn. This is where a lot of couples run into avoidable problems. With #62,OOO monthly, you should not live in an apartment more than 6Ok annual rent. That is your level, that is your size, to live above that level is covetousness, stupidity and financial suicide!

You will be amazed the kind of houses some people live and still be begging for money to eat.

Get out of that house my friend! Look for something smaller, save up the extra money you have for a business that will earn you money to feed your family and enjoy your life with peace.

What will people say is the reason many have ended in their early grave! People will tell you how stupid you were after you are gone!

You are wiser than that! Don't allow what people say push you into financial frustration!

Live your level per time.

Live in a house your one month income can clear. If you need a more comfortable accommodation, earn more and live bigger.

Spend far below what you earn.

I can keep repeating this till tomorrow!

You can marry with the little you have but don't stay there!

Am I communicating?

© Seun Oladele, 2O23; reposted, 2O24.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR HUSBAND IS LOSING INTEREST IN LOVE MAKING!

Several things can make a man weak sexually and lose interest altogether in rolling in sheets with his wife!

From unpaid bills, to depression, to lose of job/business to mid-life crises to inferiority complex to low self esteem to rejection and chief of all, a controlling, domineering, disrespectful, unattractive wife!

If your husband is no longer showing interest in making you happy in the bedroom and you are burning, almost burning to de@th, here are few things you can do to get him up, hot and passionate for you like never before!

1. Understand that he is going through a trying period and needs your understanding and compassion.

2. Always, regularly, reaffirm his manhood.

3. Admire him always, daily.

4. Encourage him as often as you can and let him know he is a genius at what he does and new doors of opportunities will open to him.

5. Respect him UNCONDITIONALLY.

6. Stop using his past mistakes, weaknesses, flaws, failures and short comings against him.

7. Support him financially and any other area he needs help.

8. Initiate love making. Don't wait for him to ask. You may wait forever.

9. Seduce him regularly. Be sparkling clean daily. Be touchable, cuddle able, feminine, soft, attractive and irresistible.

10. Plan your love making sessions. Get a sex time table. Inform him so you can both look into it together, plan together and prepare your mind towards the next session. Also read my love making book with your husband: S€X...SWEET S€X! It will boost your libido and make each love making session end in roof breaking orgasm!

11. Do not make jest of his weaknesses.

12. Never correct him public.

Public humiliation can crash a man's libido to the point of no return! Men don't take disrespect, insult and social embarrassment with levity!

You will not lose your husband to another woman who knows how to take care of him in Jesus name!

Men are turned on by women who are kind.

Be kind and your bedroom life will be hot forever!

© Seun Oladele, 2024.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com

CHILD BIRTH AT 30 UPWARD...

One of the reasons ladies get very desperate once hitting 26 and above is the fear of conception and easy delivery. A lady asked me if childbirth will be easy at 30+, she heard that labour pains will be terrible and the experience will be perfect hell on earth!

I'm not ruled by medical reports, I'm ruled by God's report. If we live by the medical reports every single day of our lives, we will run insane. These people are not God, you can't live your entire life by every damn thing they predict. They themselves are often confused and sometimes contradict themselves. I'm not saying you should ignore science and medicine altogether. By all means, go see your doctor if you need it and follow their advise if you strongly believe they will work for you. But as born again Christians, we should go beyond the physical, we need to let the word of God rule us!

Don't marry out of desperation because of your age! You will make a mistake! And you will regret your marriage, guaranteed! The easiest way to pick the wrong person is to become desperate! You blind your eyes to sound reality, pick at random and say YES to just anybody in the name of settling down!

Start praying about your marriage early, pray against delay so you won't run off track out of desperation and pick the wrong spouse.

Sometimes delay is God's very special grace and mercy to help you work on your weaknesses so you don't destroy your marriage with your flaws. There are those who marry early and divorce early and some marry late and enjoy their homes. Marrying early is good if you are mature and it is God's will. Marrying at 30 is not a curse! All in all, LET THE LORD LEAD YOU, this is very crucial in picking the right spouse!

Don't use childbirth as an excuse to jump into marriage. There are 20 something year old ladies who have difficulties delivering their babies and there are those who had a smooth ride. There are 30 something year olds who have very easy delivery and some went through hell! It all depends on your level of spirituality, orientation, pre-knowledge of child birth, good antenatal care and a positive mind set, don't let any one scare you into jumping into marriage in the name of having a safe delivery!

I had my first son at 30+, I had my second almost 4 years after and the second delivery was the most beautiful delivery I ever witnessed. The labour was fast, I went through the stages of labour in the normal hours. While I was placed on the delivery bed, hubby quickly went to get the baby things for the Doctor thinking I may still be there for hours, in 20 minutes, baby was out. 2 days after, while hubby was preparing the home for the baby, I had sneaked to the bathroom and washed some clothes. He exclaimed on seeing me. My mother -in-law advised I should not do anything, I felt so energetic 2 days after delivery, I just could not sit down. I went to the bank 3 days after in public transport. Stomach flattened down before 8th day, bleeding stopped at one month. Body came back to pre pregnancy shape in 4 weeks. I had read SUPERNATURAL CHILDBIRTH by Jackie Mize, speaking to every part of my body to line up for supernatural delivery and God did it! Please, don't jump around 2 days after your delivery if your doctor advised not go and you are not strong enough, medically, it is not advisable, body and faith also differs, please!

Bottom line, don't limit God because of your age, don't box God, don't give God ultimatum, don't get desperate. Pray, seek God's face, go for counselling, read godly books and the Lord will settle you miraculously in Jesus! name. Your spouse is on the way, relax as you expect him. Feel free to share. God bless you, cheers!

© Seun Oladele, 2017; reposted, 2024.