Foreign Affairs › Re: Multiple Attackers Kill 12, Wound Nine In Johannesburg, South Africa by shagasha: 9:08pm On Jun 10 |
There are also mass shootings in the white man's country Stephen0mozzy: And when someone once said:
..the person was being insulted and called a Racist. Apparently, apart not having the mental capacity to govern society, it appears we don't even have the mental capacity to LIVE PEACEFULLY WITH EACH OTHER! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia & China Sign Over 40 Economic, Military & Energy Agreements (Photos) by shagasha: 3:00pm On May 21 |
Ok
adverts or affiliate links outside the areas where adverts are explicitly allowed. 7. Don't say, do, or THREATEN to do anything that's detrimental to the security, success, or reputation |
Family › Re: What's The Cost Of Getting A Divorce? by shagasha: 7:52am On May 21 |
Onegai: Please calm down, can I send you information via email?
And offer counseling
Let us step back from the cliff.
Because Divorce is wonderful for lawyers looking for rent money.
2 years mandatory separation, if you want to file before then it will cost more.
N1million-N6million to file (yes, I am not joking, especially if you're in Lagos or Abuja). You will pay for extra like printing and any other documents lawyer needs.
File in High Court, she will be served a month later, she has 30 days to respond and your first court date will be 4 to 6 months after, just for Mentioning.
After that, another month or 2 for Conference (you and your wife will go before the Judge, no lawyers allowed to speak and mediate).
Then another month or 2 after for your trial.
Courts are backed up, so unless she responds back Uncontested, expect to spend 3 years on this matter, some people that got caught during Covid spent 10 years.
Even with no kids, you fit spend 2 years if clerks go on strike and since na high court, I dunno how backed up it will be with election tribunals next year (Political Aspirants pay more so their cases will be heard faster than your inconsequential marital issues, sorry )
Are you fighting for custody? Add an additional year plus you'll pay extra for Child Welfare Officers for the mandatory house and school visit. You need to be financially buoyant because you have to pay Child Support or she can garnish your bank accounts
If you start dating, she can sue you for Adultery and sue your side chic for alienation. Upto N10million, another court case.
Court cases are open, so everyone in court that day (bloggers, other petitioners and anyone who just feels like attending) will be listening to you and her air your very dirty laundry in public. They can write about it too, mentioning your name. Not a crime.
Still interested? There's more o...
Oya please drink water, let's talk
Well over 50% of marriages are salvageable and in 5 years time you'll probably feel different.
But if we work on it now, and you give yourself to this process, in 5 years time, I pray I never see you again 
Please, let's talk @Op don't mind this person o. Don't you ever trade your peace of mind for anything. What people don't understand is that there must be willingness from the two parties to reconcile before reconciliation can take place. Anyone trying to counsel you is trying to play on your emotions to cajole you into submitting to the woman. Like I said earlier on..... PEACE OF MIND is priority. Goodluck to u! |
Politics › Re: Sen Adamu’s Death Shows Nigeria Under Siege, Reveals Tinubu’s Failure – Atiku by shagasha: 8:50am On May 13 |
Atiku dey talk because presidency dey hungry am |
Education › Re: Aba To Get NOUN Study Centre by shagasha: 2:51am On May 07 |
Nice one
Nice one
NYC 1
Not enough original content Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 20 characters. This will make the forum more |
Education › Re: Fee Hike Anger Shuts Down Catholic School In Awka by shagasha: 1:41pm On Apr 29 |
It's like having investments under the umbrella of religion.
Missionary schools of those days were affordable to all. Now only children of the rich can afford missionary schools.
It's well |
Christianity Etc › Re: Godly Transformation Of Unbeliever As The Transitional Process Of A Butterfly by shagasha: 9:48am On Sep 14, 2025 |
AntiChristian: Christianity is all about miracles and prosperity! Remove those two and all that remains is negligible!
Who told you you will move to big big things?
Who told you countless victory is yours?
Who told you what God is set to do is bigger than you?
Na so Una try all the gimmicks during Obi presidential elections! He still failed despite touring churches and calling for a religious war in his popular vural telephone conversation! I sense you are fighting THE TRUTH deep inside you. |
Food › Re: The Meals I Have Been Cooking With 1500 As An Understanding Wife. by shagasha: 4:31pm On Aug 27, 2025 |
Dey play |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Will Deliver Uninterrupted Power Before He Leaves Office – Minister by shagasha: 7:28am On Aug 04, 2025 |
Story for the gods |
Crime › Re: Remembering Amara Tochi: Young Nigerian Footballer Hanged In Singapore by shagasha: 2:52am On Aug 04, 2025 |
Maybe he innocently took the "package" to deliver to someone without knowing the content |
Crime › Re: Court Sentences Ex-guard, Cook To Death For Killing Ex-Katsina Commissioner by shagasha: 8:50am On Jul 31, 2025 |
kaunafemzy: Swift judgement for the poor , impunity for the rich.
However, say no to greed! Can you really call four years swift judgement? One more character needed, I give una jara |
Romance › Re: Save My Marriage Please.. This May Sound Funny But It Is The Truth by shagasha: 5:35pm On Jul 28, 2025 |
You don jam. Una no taste before marriage?
Me sef even need answers to your question |
Crime › Re: Police Or Kidnappers You Be The Judge ( Experience With Men Of The Azuka Police) by shagasha: 8:14am On Jun 14, 2025 |
Bros you forget say voom ka nma karia statement |
Crime › Re: A 21-year-old Nigerian Woman Employed At A Jewelry Store Has Disappeared With ₦1 by shagasha: 9:58am On Apr 05, 2025 |
She'll be caught. She can't even sell the jewellery because she doesn't have the contact to do so |
Crime › Re: Agunachemba Arrest Gays Practicing Homosexuality During Homo Party In Anambra by shagasha: 4:50pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
"lacasara"
Lolsss
Na this one off me o |
Crime › Re: Apprentice allegedly stabs man to death during fight over teenage girl in Edo by shagasha: 10:01pm On Mar 24, 2025 |
None of them will even have the teenage girl again.
Some men sha... |
Romance › Re: My Friend Used His House Rent To Host His Girlfriend by shagasha: 12:55pm On Mar 05, 2025 |
Bros you get time o... Ah swear
Let he that wants to perish perish wella nah
Is he even your friend or your neighbour because that guy doesn't look like your friend to me. That guy can't have a male friend just male neighbours or male gist mates |
Crime › Re: . by shagasha: 2:41pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
The wife is an adult, she probably has parents and I'm sure she has friends and families. She can do whatever she wants to do with her life |
Crime › Re: Leaked Audio! Valentine’s Day Tragedy: Moses Dies After ‘colos’ – Yohana Flees! by shagasha: 7:59am On Feb 22, 2025 |
Say NO to hard drugs |
Celebrities › Re: 'I Spend ₦2M On Smoke Per Day, ₦14M Every Week' - Odumodublvck by shagasha: 8:54pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
I'm not doubting you.... I'm just wondering what you could be getting high on via smoke 2mils daily
Your choice tho |
Crime › Re: Vigilante Operative Allegedly Kills Pregnant Woman In Delta Community by shagasha: 7:27am On Feb 08, 2025 |
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Business › Re: Abia Partners With Radisson Blu To Rebuild Enyimba Hotel, Conference Centre by shagasha: 7:23am On Feb 08, 2025 |
They are supposed to sign the project in Umuahia but we aren't there to know the reason they met in Lagos. Our business should be them completing the project not where it was signed. No matter what Alex Otti does in Abia state, some people will still criticise him .... But who even gives a f**k? |
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Crime › Re: Sad: Father Of Nine Commit Suicide After An Arguments With Wife In Delta (PHOTO) by shagasha: 10:15am On Oct 09, 2024 |
He accepted defeat.
That's too bad of him.
Make person no call tunubu name here o... Na everybody dey chop the hardship. He just decided to quit |
Crime › Re: Governor Alex Otti Condemns The Gruesome Beheading Of A Couple In Bende LGA by shagasha: 6:17pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
Ok |
Crime › Re: Police Confirm Arrest Of 3 Persons Over Beheading Of Abia Couple by shagasha: 6:10pm On Oct 05, 2024 |
Show us their pushures!!! |
Crime › Re: Akwa Ibom Police Arrest 13 Over Beheading Of Marine Hunters by shagasha: 4:51pm On Oct 01, 2024 |
Ritual things |
Politics › Re: Do You Enjoy 20 Hours Of Light In Your Area? by shagasha: 12:42pm On Sep 30, 2024 |
Propaganda govt... |
Crime › Re: Hotels In Asaba And Port Harcourt No Longer Safe For Lodging As People Complains by shagasha: 9:55am On Sep 27, 2024 |
This can happen anywhere in Nigeria... Not only in Portharcourt or Asaba |
Politics › Re: Yahaya Bello: Moment EFCC Stormed Kogi Lodge To Whisk Away Ex Governor (Video) by shagasha: 11:14am On Sep 19, 2024 |
GanagiBitrus: Nobody should be above the Law of the Land. That's the starting point for a saner Nigeria. This your statement funny walahi. Is it not the same person that just visited EFCC recently? Why was he left to go only to come and be shooting upandan in order to re arrest him? This country funny die!!! That's why your comment is funny to me sha |
Crime › Re: 5-Year-Old Girl, Jaden Kidnapped In Aba by shagasha: 8:31am On Sep 17, 2024 |
LORD please let her be found
Amen! |
Romance › Re: Which Nairalander Do You Miss The Most? by shagasha: 5:56pm On Apr 27, 2024 |
I miss Jennyclay |