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So is it really possible for a guy to forgive a girl that cheated? Even when the guy did worse things? How about when they both cheat? When the guy finds out himself (forensically)? What is the definition of cheating anyway? Was there sex involved? Babes stop and think for a minute. The guy still loves you, he's probably just hurting a lot right now. There is this ego thing that guys have going, and its very upsetting when some other guy intrudes on your turf (think Lions in the Jungle). It is going to be hard, cos the guys mind is probably going to keep going back to the incident; maybe he's wondering what he did or didn't do right. My advice is to come totally clean, then give it time. Be patient. Show some love. Some humility. Wait and see what happens. Honestly from what I can see here the odds don't seem to be in your favour, but with some hardwork, prayer and counselling things will get better. However I advise you to put the matter aside until after your exams. Thats your top priority. It gets better!

Walk in to a bank with your share certificates or some proof that you have the shares. Get a loan with the shares as collateral. Use the loan money [should be something like 100 - 150 percent of the share value] to trade. Keep the original shares safe for a rainy day. Happy investing!