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I used to pray very well before but now I hardly do that. I attend all church programmes but not anymore. I used to believe that love can exist without money but not any more I used to trip for tall and dark guys but not anymore. I like Indomie before but not anymore

MrCork:
...ok...so u wentt to a school buildin to beg blind man for moiney n then u frown at him simply coz he embarass u...abi?..u a goldddigger!! (No ofeense)

..you must be blind or u simply have understanding issue.

Harrisibor:
Ok how do I start!
I have this girl friend who I actually did not take seriously, actually for me it was just another free sex and I intorduced her to my best friend because she kept complaining that I was hiding her so to keep enjoying the sex I just had to introduce her to my best friend and explained things to him dat she was just another free sex

Fastfoward two months later am ready for my introduction with the love of my live and I find my friend acting funny and asking questions about my sex mate which I was already strtegising on how to let go and finaly I confirmed my best friend is asking her out and they just started dating

No I know I am morally not justified to queary her as I already told her I can't marry her dat I as getting marreid to someone else but why is it my best friend of all the guys in the world. He is supposed to be my best man on my wedding day

Now am at loss on how to handle this twwo people am sure our friendship will never remain the same

Pls what do you think I should do or how am I expected to react to all this #confused

..seriously you are wicked,after using her you dumped her and now your best friend found her worthy you are complaining, Enemy of Progress.

my first ex...PASSIONATE LOVE, 2nd ex..I HATE LOVE STORIES,3rd ex..HE IS MINE NOT YOURS# and my current BoO#WE are FAMILY#not yet an ex oooo

Sometimes when I remember this I just smile,.. I met this girl on Nairaland when I was seeking for admission back then in 2012, in uniben,she happened to be my coursemate, and dsame department...though we have our own flaws but even till I die I will never forget what she did for me.On this fateful day was my roommate's birthday, I was emotionally down and I started drinking and got my self drunk,I started throwing off,..this is the only thing I could remember,according to what I was told,this my friend change my menstrual pad,wear me another pad and bathed me, cleaned my vomits and washed my bedspread that same night,mob my room...when I woke up I saw her sleeping on the floor,I was told she slept in my room so as to take care of me,..even till now I still wonder if I can ever do such,to d extend of changing someone else's menstrual pad. indeed she's really a friend and am happy I have her.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi guys, ever since I was younger people have always told me I look like Ini Edo.

Do you think I do?[/color]

seriously u are just too dumb..intact u b ode.Ain't u tired of this your silly attitude,..ist u created a topic that people say u look like an India girl..and that makes you sad, secondly u created a topic saying " u are traumatise bcoz ur co-worker said u are ugly, now Do U Look Like INi Edo...total rubbish..I av seen u are just too jobless and don't know what to do with your time..Just Grow up OK.

mamagee3:
Ever since my male coworker called me ugly, I have never been the same mentally, I have lived the past few months thinking I am ugly. The trauma of that event has left me forever damaged psychologically.

Please guys help me out, how do I lift myself above this spiteful attempt at my self-esteem?

....mtcheeeeeeeew ain't u dsame person that posted that "people always say u look like an indian Girl" if don't have reasonable thing to say just go and sleep.

Durentt:
Am done with u, go read ur science books before i continue any further arguments.

...see dis fool oooo, just get a life and change ur perspective of things..say d truth when you see it.#idiot# go prepare for your upcoming SSCE..Am done with u...#cheers#.

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
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I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

There are different kind of prayers,u can't challange God In prayers without getting answers,I feel ur pain coz I av a friend who use to have similar case like urs,hers was worst..just keep praying to your God,notting is impossible,u will overcome it I assure u,but u jus have to open ur mind to love d opposite sex,open your mind to love and love will find you back.Good luck.

Durentt:
I know how to deal wit ur type, da OP is confused in her sexual life and u are here ranting rubbish about "Prayer and fasting" Smh, go and Ask dat ur God why he made her Bisexual in the first place. Rubbbish, u beta get out of dis thread. I hate people who cant see dat every human being cant be same.

Do u see how senseless u are, yes d op needs solution on her sexual life, have gone through all ur writeup and have not see any reasonable advice u av given to d op,rather u keep ranting and running mouth "tatata" like tap water, and quoting pipo up and down, can't u make ur suggestions without quoting someone?God did not make her bisexual, bcoz God himself knows she's a woman and will need to get married someday to a Man not a Women.The fact that people have right to their sexual life,does not make lesbanism and gay right....Every human can't b dsame, but everything have a solution, d op is tired of d bisexual stuff that is why she needs solution and d only solution is talking to God abt it,She's not the first coz av seen similar cases like this and there overcame it tru prayers.Point of correction God never made her bisexual#ode#

Durentt:
Hey shut d fvck up. U lame nigerian, always bringing religion into sexuality.
If she's a lesbian there is NOTHING wrong with it! And no demonic spirit is leading Lesbianism, this is 21st century Everyone has right to sexual preference even ur whole president buhari is Faqqot! Or dont u know, now pack ur 'prayer and fasting trash' out of here before u see da other side of me. Fvcktard!!

Av anyone ever told you how stupid and foolish you are?I guess u are a lesbian, my opinion your headache, u are free to vomit rubbish, u ain't d op, so I see no reason why taking panadol on someone else issue, I made my opinion, and beside I see no reason y u should quote me,am not gonna exchange words with u,u know y? coz u ain't worth my time, if u like quote me again,insult me, say rubbish it doesn't remove anything on my body.I av already seen d other side of u there is notting left...

gamaliel121:
You are a lesbian my friend....
That's cooll...
Nothing wrong with it..

did I hear u say notting is wrg with bin a lesbian?...U aint truthful at all,if there's everything wrong with GAY"why can't everything b wrg with lesbian,dia is a Demonic spirit behind lesbianism... and there's everything wrong with bin a lesbian...my dear @op, just pray and fast about it.

lastchild:
gf

u are not serious at all...32 years of age and u are still looking for girlfriend instead of looking for a wife material..and u are bold in saying "gf"wen asked, ur mates av given birth and are training their kids and building a happy family.Like I said earlier u are not ready..infact u no need any advice.

honeeeybabe:
Lol. .u are very funny... y wld I b in love wit smone DAT dosnt deserve me....I told him to stay away from me..but he kept commenting on my post..am nt chatting wit u on watsapp.
I only posted here to enable him knw DAT getting wet fast doesn't mean u ar abnormal or sick ....lik he said I am... I av no bizz wit him...
I c u just here to side him.

sorry to say u are too young to be indulging urself in all dis,ur boyfrd is 19, so how old are u den?is either u are 17/16/18 or u are older Dan he is..seriously u don't need all dis.judging from ur writeup I believe u are still young,u should b concentrating on ur studies.

NoLoveLost:
If am wrecking her physically then she is also. Isnt it a mutual affair?

..u are wrecking her sexually and she's wrecking u financially..wat do u expect in having a school girlfriend that leaves with u, u are d man so sponsor d bills and stop complaining coz u just said u guys leaves together like husband and wife...u don't need any advice.

daretodiffer:
Sorry to say this but you have no right to quote me. How am I to know that the aunty is late?

...That is to say u didnt read d story..u just posted wat u felt lyk..guess u r going try pain.

Hmmmm....cope and paste, u tried for listening to the message and posting words to words..

MrCork:
^^^^^chick liein she from London then gets up set coz I catch her out(read her last post)

..just shut up ur mouth..stop forming wat u are not.Am sure u d b in Onitsha or Aba market hustling for customers and u are hear claiming Londoner and range over...Ur write-ups makes me wanna throw off.Londoner ni#myfrd go and hustle for customers na ur type dey dupe pipo wit ur stinking lies.

MrCork:
....swwery am in london...u in that place nigeria...r we mates??...and juss ib case u ask ..did I mention I drive £28,000(cash) range rover spot!!

....what is dis Hausa cow talking? u drive range rover and so fucking wat? are u d ist..ofcoz we ain't mate,how can I b mate with Hausa cow who talks anyhow..who ur range over help? pipo that have money don't make mouth.. no b ur mate dey drive private jet..Look at dis fool...so bcoz u own a range over we should fly...in fact u must b d biggest fool of d century... just take a look @ ur spellings..range over without brain....u are in London am in Nigeria so wat? I go to London wen I choose to and stay in my country wen I choose to....don't talk anyhow to pipo wen u don't av idea of who der are...better go and give ur life a meaning and stop ranting and fooling urself with range over and London.. just get a life#idiot Londoner...#no offence #mtcheeew

MrCork:
.. are u lightskin?...ever been to resturant?...did u read the quesstion? ..Goat!!(no ofeeense)

U can't spell..Go and rest.

MrCork:
....brother..r u one of those homebase guys that chew sugarcane in front of chicks??...and then when they ingnore u..u call them lesssbiians..abi?

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dont u no its all about gentlemanism...eatin wit fok n knife in front of females? (No ofeense)

#no offence # u claim u are in London and every lady must b impressed... jus pulse and look @all ur spellings,I tot it was typo error,but av bin reading ur post and ur spellings and grammar na bomb..# we don't need guys to impress us,we need pipo DAT are real and can take care of us#Oyibo Boy# #ingnore...ignore#lesssbiians.......lesbians#

[quote author=gab264 post=39130094][/quote]u are just stingy...u still gave her d same#200 not even #500...u wia expecting odawise..,she's smarter than u.

activelyA:
Going for the next batch...
I am a lady but this is my greatest fear...

In fact, I MUST NOT RETURN...

Thanks...this is really a great motivation for me

Am in my final year And d first child of seven children....seriously getting out of Skul and staying at home is my grtxt fear at dis stage of my life.Am determine to make it but sumtyms get scared bcoz der are so many graduate who r better and good and av bin @Home saying no Job In Nigeria....I love ur write up.... Am a mass communicator but not planning on working in a media house.

Sijo01:
Congratulations Nurse Titi

she's not nurse TiTi but Nurse Abigail

Sijo01:
Congratulations Nurse Titi

she's not nurse TiTi but Nurse Abigale.

tonychristopher:
Ukwuani...what about you

Iwu onye ebe?
Ebe ka ina aga igo ogo?

Rekax Igbo bu ofu

Delta Igbo's are nice,am from delta Igbo and ukwuani precisely, u know der must b some bad peeps shaaa, the men are hardworking, and luv dia wife,it depends on ur man and his family.But I can't see myself marrying from der. ...