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I want you all to meet Mallam Garba. Mallam Garba was a man I met yesterday on my way back from church who sells the local Hausa tea... He approached the company of people I was sitting with and they all distanced themselves from him. However, Mallam Garba is a Human being just like me, he's also a Nigerian just like me, the only difference between me and him is that we share different religious beliefs. That does not however justify the fact that he is less human, or because he's from the North and residing in the South East. I am from the South West serving my fatherland in the South East. What is now the essence of service if I can't relate with someone because of the stigma that follows him as a result of being a Northerner? I stand to say that not all Northerners are Boko-Haram terrorists, we must learn to love each whether we are Yorubas, Igbos or Hausas. We can only fight insurgency and sterotypes through love. #IStandForLove .
#OneLoveMallamGarba.


Lalasticlala

“Because it is in their DNA” is one of the responses I got when I decided to post the question on Facebook. It may interest you to know that this shocking response was from a lady. There were other mind-boggling responses that got me. wondering what informs our perspective on the subject.

Women cheat as well. Yes, they do… with men. I’m not a woman and I don’t know why women cheat, but I have a feeling I might go crazy if I try to probe
into that. So I’d just skip. I have been asked by several ladies, “which of
these three are you into; drinking, smoking or women?” If you dare pull a stunt and say something like “Oh no, I don’t do all that”, they will instantly get
animated and come up with sh!t like “Oh c’mon! Who are you trying to deceive? Are you not a man?” “We sabi as e dey go na”

I’m not a psychologist, but I’m a man. I’m not married, but I’ve been in relationships. To satisfy your curiously, yes, I have cheated on my woman in
the past. I know it is wrong and irresponsible and I’m not proud of it. But that is a topic for another day.

Below, I have attempted to answer the ancient question.

1. Everybody does it. Unlike women, men are not shy about sharing their extra-marital escapades with friends and partners in crime. They have a lot of fun gisting about that other girl from last night. As a matter of fact, they flaunt it. Adding each new conquest as another feather to their jerky hats. If anyone of them present in the meeting has never cheated, temptation to do so increases by 90% (no statistical reference). He will just sit making up immoral plans that will eventually hatch.

2. Love for stolen meats. That’s by far the most popular reason. Another interesting response I got on my Facebook wall is “Okay let’s just say girls are like fruits in there variants, strawberries,bananas, oranges, cherries etc. and guys love fruit salad” Others will claim, “men are hunters”
and “women love to be chased”, so it’s like a game with thrilling adventures for all players. Stolen meats are sweet.

3. To prove a point. As wack as this sounds, men cheat to prove a point. “Yes, I can”, “I am smart enough to cheat and not get caught”, or to simply
convince himself that he is a man too, after all. The simple logic will be; ‘All men cheat’, Mr. Dick is a man, Mr. Dick cheats!

4. Lack of good examples. A boy who grows up watching his father cheat on his mother will likely cheat. After all, dad cheats on mom and they are still married after 40 years. Cheating will in fact seem to him as a recipe for a ‘happy married life’.

5. Most women expect them to. That is the only logical explanation for a married woman who packs her husband’s bag for a trip and conveniently adds condoms like it’s socks or boxers. After all, cheating
is “in their DNA”. Come to think of it, no gentleman wants to disappoint his woman.

6. Some women want them to. A doctor friend of mine told me how that to his surprise, a married couple walked into the hospital to see him because the wife feared she might be pregnant. The pretty young mother claimed the last two pregnancies almost claimed her life and wouldn’t want to go through such again, ever. “I even brought a pretty
girl home for him to have sex with any time he wants”, pointing to the husband who sat next to her smiling freakishly, “But no, he won’t just let me be”.
No, that isn’t a movie, but a real life story. I’m not even sure that could be classed as cheating.

7. The society lets them. Over 2000 years ago, two people were caught making out in Israel, and the woman was brought to Jesus to judge. Do you
remember that story? One will wonder where the man was. It takes two to f**k! Imagine how the story would have gone if it was Hilary who cheated on Bill Clinton. Now bring that home to Africa. Youp! your guess is as good as mine.

8. Other flimsy reasons will include, ending a relationship, because he was seduced, he doesn’t trust her and probably a billion other reasons.

Truth is, none of the reasons stated above is good enough for infidelity. Men and women face tempting
situations that will compel them to cheat at some point in their lives. Choosing to cheat is ultimately a personal decision. Whatever happened to discipline and self-control?
The only valid reason why men cheat is
because they choose to.

Here is a quick question for men; if you knew she was an HIV patient, will you go ahead and still cheat on your partner with her? If the answer is “No”, then you can stop cheating. Simples!

Cc; lalasticlala, ishilove

Source: www.more.ng/relationships/why-men-cheat

[quote author=JibrilJunior post=38240584]Another Unilorite in da building
#TeamBetterByfar
Welcome bro
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flex12:
welcome to d house....where do u intend to serve?

Abuja or Akwa!

I am Shegszy96. Real Name- Segun Abraham, University of Ilorin (Unilorin), year of graduation 2015, Location- Abuja.

FruityLass:
So av been on earth before?
Op miss road

Who knows? Maybe you came earlier as Cleopatra of egypt!

1. You enjoy alone time.
What does isolating yourself have to do with past lives? Well, when your soul is having its first go-round on this planet, it wants to get out there and learn how to live. It’s the same reason kids are so friendly and wanted to go outside and play with other kids. They’re learning to be people! Your soul has to as well. After you’ve lived a few lives and your soul has a better idea of how to live, it’s
less important to you to try to play the social game of life.


2. You’re pretty good at reading
people.
My parents say that I was born an old man. I melded well with adults and I was always able to read people pretty well. It’s a sign that I may have lived more than one life already. Like I talked about before, the first time around, your soul is learning how to be a person. Just like as you grow up, you learn important lessons about people, your soul does as well. So a soul that’s been around the block is going to be better at reading people.


3. You don’t go with the crowd.
Everywhere you go, you seem to stick out, be it at school, work, or even with your family. You feel a little bit out of place everywhere. It’s like you’re still getting used to being a human. This could likely be because you’ve been different people before. You may have been Alexander the Great and then followed it with a life of a textile mill worker who married, bore two children, lived a calm life and died peacefully in your sleep at the age of 82. You may feel like a lion in a sheep’s body, or a
sheep in a lion’s body. It’s just that you’ve been different things at different times.

What do you think? Have you lived
more than one life? Do you remember
anything from your past lives? Let us
hear about it in the comments below.

Source:
higherperspectives.com/first-life-on-earth/

Cc: lalasticlala

It seems op has krokro in his eyes. where the heck is d chair? Or are dere no stairs that have different levels to stand on ni? Op park well jare.

She'd grow up and start making the head of some dudes go GaGa now

Fat Dele Momodu roaming everywhere.

Cool!!! My Vision 2020!

What were dey do doing?

Do you agree or disagree with the pix?

Thanks boss!!! Noted

keep on wailing, wailing wailer, clueless wailer, dumb wailer, GEJ wailer, BABA GO SLOW TO THE RESCUE . saTANoids park well!

Not meant 4 original Nigerians, counterfeit can try it out though

Hmmmm...... Watching!!! still Watching!!!

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I finally made FTC. Dedicated to all dos who would have wished to be in my position! Better luck next time.
And as for your question Op, NOMB >>>>NONE OF MY BUSINESS>>>

What's special abt being hosted in an embassy? Its the right of every Nigerian travelling or leaving in another country to be hosted by our missions overseas! No big deal dude. Na because na naija..... Not to worry!!! Baba go slow to the rescue!!!

Benitez is a big joke. I wish madrid knew better

tpiander:
and btw why do your "Yoruba friends" never explain to you people the actual impression of things but always prefer leaving you with wrong and false info which you then come online to spew and make yourself look s.tupid in the process? Could it be they are as clueless as you are?

You know nothing about Yoruba naming patterns and your post is very insultive, gosh.

I blame the site owner!

First of all, I don't have anything to say to you becos I can see that you're just a pathetic little thing, looking for where to pour your anger. Which better place than the social media? Smh in dismay. Oloriburuku
, when you tired get of my thread.

tpiander:
and btw why do your "Yoruba friends" never explain to you people the actual impression of things but always prefer leaving you with wrong and false info which you then come online to spew and make yourself look s.tupid in the process? Could it be they are as clueless as you are?

You know nothing about Yoruba naming patterns and your post is very insultive, gosh.

I blame the site owner!

First of all, I don't have anything to say to you becos I can see that you're just a pathetic little thing, looking for where to pour your anger. Which better place than the social media? Smh in dismay. Oloriburuku
, when you tired get of my thread. Nansense

AwesomelyMade:
First of all arrange this your post

DONE.

YORUBA's ARE PEOPLE WHO NAME THEIR KIDS BASED ON THE BLESSINGS THEY EXPECT TO RECEIVE FROM THEIR SPIRITUAL LORD(s) WHEN A CHILD IS BORN. HOWEVER, HERE SOME YORUBA NAMES & THEIR DIRECT FUNNY
TRANSLATIONS.!!
1. Anuoluwapo- Mercy of God plenty
2. Odeyemi- Hunter fit me
3. Pamilerin- make me laugh
4. Olamide- My wealth don come
5. Timileyin- push my back
6. Adeyemi- Crown fit me
7. Motunrayo- I see wealth again
8. Bamidele- Follow me reach house
9. Ayomikun- My wealth full
10.Oladejo- Wealth turn eight
11. Shile- Open house
12. Wale- Come house
13. Morenike- I see person take care
14. Funmilayo- Give me joy
15. Omoyemi- Pikin fit me
16. Tunbosun- Shift again
17. Feyintola- Rest back on wealth.
18. Motolani- Am big enuf to have wealth.
19. Ifabiyi- Oracle born this.
20. Olayide- Wealth roll come.
21. Ageshin- Horse rider.
22. Adeleke- Crown dey on top.
23.Babajide- father wake come.
24. Bankole- Help me build house.
25. Owolabi- Na money we born.
26. Kosoko- there is no hoe
27. Shina- open way
28. Muyiwa- bring dis one
29. Oyinkan- honey drop
30. Omole- child is hard
31. Tale- reach night
32. Arokoyo- I see farm happy.
33. Shalewa- pick house come.
34. Babatunde- father come back.
35. Gbolahan- prove wealth.
36. Tunmise- repair me.
37. Esan- revenge.
38. Olajide- wealth com @ dawn
39. Adegoke- crown climb up.
40. Adewale- crown com home
41. INTROVERT- Always First to comment.
Add urz nd dnt spoil d fun

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is a lie

Meaning?

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Slimzjoe:
You've Kissed and Fuckd each other already.....what else do you want??

bros you dey vex ooo

Small small children spoiling since 1800 bc