₦airaland Forum

mydeporch:
She is pregnant. It depends on the how many weeks gone as at the time she did d abortn. All she needs to do is get herr blood checked for antibody. That will tell if her blood is sensitised already or not. She should not just jump to conclusion of divorcing. What if everything turns out to be fine eventually? If u av access to see d person involved, just let d person know. The antibody check shld be one of the blood test to be done during pregnancy checkups .

lilmax:
Most used word in family section "divorce "

cococandy:
If she's rhesus negative, has aborted before and didn't take the injection within the time frame to protect her next kid, she may have a still birth or a severely anaemic baby. That's so sad.
That's why ladies need to be very aware what having a rhesus negative blood type means.
And mothers should encourage their daughters who are rhesus negative to be always open about unwanted pregnancies to avoid spoiling their chances of ever having healthy kids in future.
But this your story.
Your sister-in-law's friend's neighbor.
Aproko too badt.

raumdeuter:
Yes she should get a divorce

jaybee3:
I will direct her/him to someone that properly mediate for them.

aflyingbird:
tell your hubby you're coming

Kazrem:
shericoco, go back to the prayer you did before. If possible give the prayer to the wife of his friend too. Or else, your hubby will be inflicted.

kpolli:
Why don't you wanna go with him? Better go and protect your investment

bennyrazz:
@op, once a soldier is always a soldier. Once a striker is always a striker show me your friends and I can tell you who you are. Your husband's friend might lead your husband astray. So you need to increase the volume of your prayers.

raumdeuter:
^^ you would be surprised at the outcome that the husband would shock her
Women are still in the business of controlling their men. Go see what comes out of it.

Floodgater:
By now you should have learnt how to press your hubby's bottons to your favour, so press it to break that friendship. Whenever your hubby want to go out with him, insist on going with them whether invited or not, it will give the friend some work to do if he must go out with your hubby. Also ensure your countenance express disgust whenever the friend visits, it will make him to avoid you and yours. His continous friendship is hazardous, do well to severe it.

jaybee3:
You will probably alienate yourself if you try to control your husband so that's no option
You should desist from the petty gossips with the other wife
End off

Prixus:
do u think ur brother has been fair to both women? he left his ex cos he saw money, realised it was ill-gotten n is now back to d ex. is that fair? well he deserves more than humiliation to me.

andromida:
Hmmmm the 250k was it a lump sum for a specific purpose and the monies he gave her were they to buy stuffs that men buy for women while in a relationship?

andromida:
If she did give your brother the money with hopes of marrying her he should just return it instead of going to court. He may not have it all right now but he can spread out the payment over months.

firstEVA:
She cannot win such a case if your brother has a good lawyer. Does she have proof that she loaned him the money? I doubt that.

But for the sake of peace, if he has the money he should just give her. I know for her it's not about the money but just a way to get at him for breaking up with her.

Sweetmarriage:
Helo. I want to post your question to our facebook page where you get more mature response (many married people there). On facebook search for Nigerian Papalette. But i need your permission first.

adanduka:
Fact:
Gave your brother 250k
Assumption:
Willing gave your brother 250k

Are you sure your brother didn't leave the 1st one cos of the 2nd lady's money and you're here claiming it's jazz.

Even though the lady should not ask for the money back, tell him to pay back and move on

Welrez:
Tell your brother to pay the debt and move on.

Prixus:
this story is funny. she has two cars, a house n a business. yet she's filing a suit for just 250K? the lawyer gets 10%. she will probably incur costs of up to 30-50K pursuing the case. so she left with less than 200K after everything. if I understand all these then maybe I'll have something to say.

Hazardd:
that one is dating money,she is trying to buy love with money

Creamish:
Exactly. His pride is at stake here... No point getting embarrassed because of 250,000. If she can sue him for dat, lawd knows what else she has planned up her sleeves... Pay up & sever the relationship totally. Get a restraining order against her if need be.

shymmex: Why do people post threads in shorthand?

I can't read what you posted up there, @OP.