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what is the brouhaha for, a cheat will be a cheat. Wht makes a man cheat differs but a lot of times the cheat is also being cheated and hey remember the cheat is the one with the trouble.
what anyone could do in a case of a cheating spouse is to confront and discuss, i have found out that if u tackle the root cause why someone cheats, the problem is almost solved.
another thing is women most of them are too weak around here i mean weak character how many women leave the man after catching him red handed, less than 20%, then another thing a lot of women dont give their men enough time in the bedroom and every man loves his time in the bedroom, and whenever u are not giving ur man that thing, he will most likely go get it outside and lately it is gettin easier.
what makes a man /woman cheat is spice that is currently lacking in the relationship which he/she gets momentarily outside.

The solution is to come clean and thrash it out.

@poster, divorce may not be the best course of action to take right now, let me ask u a few questions.
1 do u make enough money to take care of ur family's needs/
2 do u share this ur money well or u hoard it?
3 how many children do u have together?
4 do u make her feel alive in bed?
5 do u still love her?
why did u go thru her fone?, suspicion? Ignorance they say is bliss.
My candid advice is that u confront her and take it from there, if u guys can work at it fine and if u cant , walk away .

May the good Lord give u wisdom to handle this right.

The post is very individualistic in nature, different men with different needs and wants.
The only thing that almost all men want in a relationship, SEX, I did not see on your list.

in some cases , it is the best form of response by the man, do not forget there are some canterkerous women out there and if the man does not escape, he might have to turn into a beast with the kind of attitude the woman brings up.

Staying away on the other hand shd not be used as a weapon in the home same for no sex, nofood etc. Staying away shd be for the only reason of allowing things cool and heads calm .

IF ANY MAN IS DRIVEN CRAZY, I ADVOCATE STYING OFF.

The truth be said, your friend no try at all, cos he acted like a goat. I have no pity for guys who do not know how to do double control, Condom and then coitus interruptus i.e you withdraw when u feel it coming from the base of ur shaft, God help him, he should see the lady and they should come to terms on taking care of the baby.

The lady might not even be pregnant but if she is he should tell her he will be responsible for the upkeep of his love-child and nothng more. No one should marry the one he/she does not love, No, never.

EQUALITY is very unGodly in a marriage. Any woman who always argues and fights with her husband will never be able to submit and it is in submission that lies a woman's powers. Any sane man would love his submitting wife to a fault most likely other men would call him a sissy or something.She really must stoop to conquer cos the option is to Jazz him for a while.
Men , Love your wife.
Women, Submit to your husband. I am only echoing the bible

Honestly GADDAFI knows what he is ssying. Why do we all like to deceive ourselves .If u have served in the North you will know we are not one not yesterday, not today and never tomorrow.
We need to clean up our homes, Colonel Muammar Gaddafi is an African Leader who loves Libya like Ojukwu loves the Igbos, without apologies to nobody and I know that for any nation to grow you must defy the Powers of the U S and UK combined. This Gaddafi does cos he has performed on the home front. I do not like him as a person but i respect pple who do stuff for their coountry. He reminds me of an African Castro.
Let the idiots whom are recalling our Ambassadors sit down and work to grow this nation and not just looting. Anyone who has done half of what Gaddafi does for Libya should be the first to throw a sone.
Nigerian leaders calling for Gaddafi's head are all a brood of vipers. Time will tell who is right.
GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

caught a pastor?? pastors too have blood and the truth of the matter is that yes pastor should have more morals but girls always love flocking around them tempting these so called men of God.
I know a couple of pastors who do not have anything to do with a lady be it counselling without another person present, I call them sensible cos if a pastor sees nice boobs inside him, he will know what he has seen and knowing and accepting your frailty is the key to winning this war on temptation.

hra,

if u be correct bobo and u and ur friend have come a long way, call his attention to it and ask him a coupla questions and i am sure u will know how to move on from there. if the guy no correct he will be scared and sooner or later they will give themselves away as women will always blurt it out one day but while the grass grows, be watchful and show some love to ur babe

when a man cheats eventually he will be found out or caught. But when a oman does it, she might never be caught though it usually leads to fatality. onthe over all it is a nasty thing to do by anybody.

Mikaeli or whatever your name is you sound like something from the pit of hell, I believe watching too many films has compressed your reasoning and the faculties are presently not functioning well.
You need help and when pple say things that u do not agree with but that makes sense to pple esp a faith issue , learn to keep ur latrine pit of a mouth away.

I am sure you are not totally lost yet, There is hope for you.

Brother, keep the word coming. I love Jesus.

I think this is one of the most important mail trails on Nairaland as everyone can learn one thing or the other.

I had been at interviews where i knew someone or the other except for divine intervention, wil never get the job.

A BANK JOB,
A guy came in with a short sleeved shirt with minimal rumple with an excuse that he was coming all the way fron the east.He even asked me if the shirt were nice enough, I just thought the guy must be crazy,

Of course he failed.Dressing in the banking industry is very key, Dress to Kill for interviews in Banks.

I think it is gross irresponsibility on the part of someone who needs a job to do something that would make your interviewer say in his or her mind that no matter the skill this person has, we will not hire him/her.

Another story i heard is that of a lady whom was invited for an interview by a firm in Ikoyi.The Gateman told her she cannot go in that he was told not to allow anyone shabbily dressed come in as in there awaits bigger embarassment. She called the contact she had and was told that for the kind of pay they offer they need smart and well dressed people.

Some things are key, Dressing, comportment,and my style, i just have fun,

All the best buddies.

Hey guys ,


I have folowed this thread with keen intrest, You have all been wonderful.

I think Inter will clear the Nov 17 test before starting on January 19, But anyhow like someone said, don't lose focus

on other juicy offers that might come up.

Apapa hopefuls keep your fingers crossed, it is happening soon. You are all wonderful.