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I call her "BROWN SUGAR"

I had a similar experience. I couldnt stop loving my ex-gf, even after she was married and became a mother. But God helped me that she is far away - out of the country.

However, you will only find someone else if you take your heart off her. She now legally belongs to someone else. Forget that feeling that you will never fall in love. My guy, you go 'creep in luv' sef.

Just take your heart awy, you go see someone else. You go like the new person pass the former one sef.

Shinzo

I dont think this one actually happened. But anyway, I think I have heard a similar story before, so I MAY not doubt her.

The story I heard was that the lady's mum came for Omugwo and one thing led to another, she started poking her son-in-law. Also the man's younger brother came back from School [University] some time, and also one thing led to another, he started screwing his elder brother's wife.

I'm not sure how they resolved the issues, because they called a pastor who handled the situation from there on.

But generally, I think sh**t like this happenz sometimes.


Shinzo

Thanks for your contributions to my post. I really appreciate. However, some of our friends have been a little hostile [without a reason]. Let me just correct some impressions:

I did not start liking her because someone else is indicating interest. The interest just rose at the time it did. Does it not happen to anyother person? Is this peculiar to me alone?

To my friends who are angry with me [Sisikill & D-Reloaded]: I can understand your point, but let me ask you: Have you never behaved this way unknowingly? Personally, I think I just posted my problem for you to profer solutions, not to be insulted.

Even if you want me to leave the girl alone, I think there are better ways to say it without insulting me.

To clear the air: None of my colleagues [or anyone I know] is interested in this lady. At least, I know their girlfriends and to the best of my knowledge, they are really serious with their girlfriends and not thinking of leaving them. So, do you no understand that none of them is dating this particular girl?

Anyway, whatever the case, I have heard what you have to say sha.

Thanks to everybody who contributed to this post.
And also to Sisikill and D-Reloaded.

ok.

thank you for your contributions,

shinzo abe

@Mortiple,

I think you are a good guy. I was expecting something like your post. To all them: Busta, ThoniaSLim, Janami and Deola. Thanks for your contributions. Funny that you people are even ladies giving me advice on this issue.

I did not do anything with her today, but I believe that I now have an idea where I should start.
Will keep y'all posted.

To Cixluv and D-reloaded: Abeg, I wasn't expecting you guys to get mad at me. Wetin I do?

Thanks

SHINZO ABE

PLEASE HELP ME:
You people should help me. I’m in love with someone in my office – but she does not love me back. She is the SECRETARY. I was part of the panel that interviewed her. After then, she started feeling something for me [or, so I thought], but at that time, I was not feeling anything for her.

My major problem is that right now, it is as if my eyes have just been opened. I am feeling something for this girl [just about 24 or 25]. But it now appears that she no longer feels me. Instead, she is now talking to some of my colleagues who she once hated. The more she does this, the more jealous I get. My instinct told me that she is using that to make me feel jealous – but maybe I am wrong.

Please you people should not be mad at me. I am honestly seeking your constructive opinion. If you are here to insult me or tell me how stupid I am, please don’t even start it, because [believe me], you CANNOT stand the emotional pressure I am facing right now. I wan die ooo.

THIS THING IS REALLY AFFECTING THE WAY I DO MY JOB. I AM GOING CRAZY. SOME OF MY COLLEAGUES HAVE STARTED COMPLAINING TO ME THAT MY ATTITUDE HAS CHANGED, BUT I CANNOT TELL THEM WHAT PROBLEM IS.

Please I need someone to give me a solution that will work.

The worst part of the story is that I have tried everything to remove her from my mind, but I CANNOT DO IT. The more I try to remove her from my mind, the more I hurt myself. I do not know what to do.  I have only a few options running within my head:

Become hostile to her – so that I can get her off my mind.  Although, I have tried it a little, it is only making things worse for me.

Get another girl somewhere else. My brothers, this one is not easy ooo, because I have not seen another person to replace her. The more I try to get someone else – the more it seems like there is no one who can match her. The fact is that I am stuck on her.

LEAVE THE JOB. But how will I feed, clothe and sustain myself. But will I leave my job because of a babe?

A brother in need,
SHINZO ABE

Oga,

I am having this problem: I know that Microsoft Access can prresent data in Forms and Reports [it makes it more graphical and beautiful].

I want to know if SQL can do that as well, because I have something to do with SQL and I have to display the data in forms.

Please answer as fast as you can!

Kobojunkie:
Yes. You do not need IIS to use SQL

Contrarily,
I think you need IIS if you are using SQL 2005. Please check well.

Ralvy,

I think I prefer the method you are adopting. I have tried the methods the other guys suggested, however the thing still refused to go away.

Nnah, I am tired with this computer ooo! The location of the program is C:/Program Files/ArchiCAD 8

I will appreciate if you give me the DOS steps to remove the program.

Thanks
Shinzo Abe

Hi everyone!

I'm actually new to this forum and I'm having this problem: I installed a program [ArchiCAD] for one of my clients. However, I could not install the program fully, because the CD was bad [sort of].

Now, my problem is to uninstall the program which I installed with my own hand. I tried using Add/Remove Programs under Control Panel to try removing the software, but it cannot remove it.

A friend told me that DOS can do it, but he does not know how to use DOS to remove a program. He said that someone told him that.

Please, if there is anybody who can remove a program from a computer using DOS, or any other better method, please let me know.

My client needs his PC repaired in a short time. This ArchiCAD is the only thing stopping me from doing that.

SHINZO ABE

I am also a system admin. I once had this problem. Here's whaty I suggest you do:

Check the LAN cables to be sure that all of them are fit. If the problem persists, then the problem might be from the OS on the clients. I would suggest that you put the same OS in all the clients as well on the SERVER.