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NEVER say ul never fall in love again coz love always has a way of finding u wen u least expect it!
dnt worry dearie, theres someone out there for you. just keep ur heart and eyes open and ul surely find love and happiness again

u know what? I have a story simila to urs.

but if u maintain such thoughts u may find urself in some big trouble.

my last date is causing me some heart ache now, I sent her away; ie ended the relationship & got into another, only for me to relize that I somehow loved her. I made up my mind to stick with the present and make smtin out of it

I knw exactly hw u feel cos i hav gone tru that 2 so bt u need to work on urself n face reality. Ur nw into a new relationship so jst try n 4get abt the past. Jst knw that therez sm1 out there 4 u n u deserve to be happy again. i knw its nt easy sha bt u can get over it.
Cheer up!!!

DONT GIVE UP U WILL FIND ANOTHER PERSON LIKE UR FIRST

Do u want to hear the truth? It's simple u are still holding on to the past. You are yet to accept the fact tiat ur first girl is gone and the earlier u do that the better. Until u do that even if good girls come your way you would only see them thru the spectacle of your first relationship and they would never be good to you and u know the funny thing u would be the looser in the end. You simply have come to accept that u cant fall in love a again but u see it's a lie, u can and it will only get better but u need to make a conscious effort. Free your mind bro it aint easy but u can do it. There's a lovely lady waiting out there for your affection.

@POSTER,
u can fall in love 10,000 X.

Since u love her and she's ur first date and two of u seperated peaceful,d feeling wl remain constant and d vacuum she created wl still b empty till u get another good one to fill it.
I cn feel ur feelings bt rememba dat beautiful ones are stil around nt yet born. Go out,u wl find them. Gudluck

poster is one of those that have felt the same like I did wayback. A girl chioma that I first fell in love with, love like I cud never find again, she travelled to yankee, I was empty for 3 months, until love came knocking on my door.

Good advise for you here, if you are enforcing yourself into dating in order to fall back in love, you will end up wasting your time. Just chill out, dnt set ur mind into dating, trust me dude, love na blowing wind, when it reaches your turn, nobody go tell u when u go dey jam dbanj " omo u don make me fall in love" and that time will be a love stronger than the former one.

you will fall in love again, it will only take you longer and you will be extremely choosy. I know, i've been there.

Of course you'll fall in love again. . .and when you do it will heal all the past hurts. . .trust me!

god help us all.

I had a similar experience. I couldnt stop loving my ex-gf, even after she was married and became a mother. But God helped me that she is far away - out of the country.

However, you will only find someone else if you take your heart off her. She now legally belongs to someone else. Forget that feeling that you will never fall in love. My guy, you go 'creep in luv' sef.

Just take your heart awy, you go see someone else. You go like the new person pass the former one sef.

Shinzo

With such past on da top of yur mind, it'll b difficult 4 yu to give yurself anoda chance.
Itz not da end; Accept it n muv on!