₦airaland Forum

Married means nothing. A lot of married men are in sexless marriages.

Memyselfu2009:
If you love her marry her.

Only a woman will write such nonsense

Jflex07:
Can you please share your experience? Albeit briefly.

I jus know if I have to d this all over, never with a single mum. Ever Too many negatives over positives

godwon01:
Some single mum are more better than the so called single girl, They have tested love and learned their lesson in a hard way . They behave when they get second chance. Bro, go ahead with the marriage. Accept her child as your first child and train the child with your future kids. Okay.

Bad advice

micflo28:
Most single mum's are just desperate and can settle for anything called man. Most are also bitter with men. Though they are strong willed, but you need to be very careful with them. Before you marry her or decide to marry her, tell her that her child will bear your surname to test her commitment to you. If she refuses, run away. Don't judge her by a single mistake though of getting pregnant out of wedluck. But put her through series of test before you marry her. Tell her to convert her properties to your surname and her first name after marriage. Ask her for the picture and name of her baby's daddy and check if the guy lives in the same state as you from social media. If the guy stays in the same state, their is likelihood she is still seeing him.

Will not advice this. Bear your name for what? Is the child yours, has the baby father been informed.? You can't just claim someone's else child as yours.

oziegbep:
Greetings All,

Please I need serious advice.

I am currently dating a lady that I truly love. She is caring, enduring, financially stable etc. The truth is that this lady really loves me. But she's a single mum and its like an extra baggage to me. Am single and planning to get married to this lady, but the single mum status gives me sleepless nights.

I have asked her several times about the baby daddy, but she keeps telling me the dude abandoned her and the baby long ago and that she doesn't know he's whereabout.

Please I need advice on how I can cope. Because I truly love this lady alot

Don't try it. It is a death sentence. I married one and its my biggest regret ever. Realised my mistake and got out quickly. Now I am happily married and can tell you there is a difference. Do not try it. You will always come second in your own house. You will never be number one. EVER
A. She might be submissive now - its a game. she is just looking for a dad for the child.
B. Once the ex has hit it, he can always come back and hit it.
C. Yorubas will say. A house that has peace means the bastard child there has not grown. Once the bastard child grows up, that house will not know peace.

Edygrin:
Sowore has never proffered any solution to Nigeria's problem, all he does is lead protests and criticize the government since the days of Goodluck Jonathan, at least Peter Obi has told Nigerians exactly what he will do different, but you see Sowore, nothing just criticism and fault finding.

Well thats a start. We have to identify the issues before we start looking for solutions.

josh123:
Being a teacher or whatsoever wont really pay your bills in this current economy. The best thing to do is try to earn in dollars, learn a high income online skills.... I am currently learning one and i am determined to become an expert in it, i am sure my dedication and sacrifice will pay out

And you think thats the way out. How many people can earn in dollars? Are we a dollar spending country, why should you earn in dollars. Nigerians instead of fixing the issue , they will be looking for an easy way out. I do not see anyone in America saying...oh to survice earn in pounds.....

Kobicove:
Never heard of her before

Well you have now.. and she said the truth....

I doubt the Ffinnish government will extradite. Looking at the way KANU has been detained illegally for years, the Finnish government will not want to be part of that kind of human rights abUse unless FGN can guarantee he will go through a transparent legal process and not just held illegally in detention for years.

You will not see women commenting here...........

About time.....

Bendeco02:
Yoruba man

If you want to attack Igbo, do that alone.

Stop looking for who will team up with you.

You just mentoined buhari to draw north on your side, so that you will fight Igbo together.

North don't send you. Stop mentioning buhari

Everyone know you guys

Everyone that condemns tinubu fuckup must be Igbo to you guys. Go and do mental check up

The fool may be Yoruba but he does not speak for us all, definitely not for me. He is a Tinubu paid arse licker.

I really do not see this working; we are not ready for this yet, though it is an idea I fully support However, our Macroeconomic Convergence, Political political instability and Economic Disparities remains an issue.

All under Tinubu's APC.

This is just one case out of many. We do not know how many people have lost their lives or are waiting to be executed because of miscarriage of justice in this country. Nigeria's judicial system has faced significant challenges with corruption, which has undermined public trust and the effective administration of justice. Issues such as judicial bribery, procurement fraud, and the misappropriation of public funds are prevalent. Despite various reforms aimed at establishing legislative structures and formal rules, informal social dynamics continue to perpetuate these corrupt practices

He built Lagos. He did wonders. He has destroyed Nigeria's economy

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MaiDeribe:
UK police steals and is also corrupt.
Kemi was not elected to identify problems in Nigeria.
Kemi was elected to solve problems in Uk.
Kemi has not clue about her Job or what to do, she is deflecting by focusing on Nigeria.

Shut your mouth, you think the people that voted Kemi in took bribes like your poverty ridden masses.

You should be in jail then for lying to the people. The oath of office you took was to serve Nigerians.

Nonsense....how has this helped nigeria's economy?

EmperorCaesar:


His name is Amadi. A strong reason to trash his useless stories(Its like listening to the opinion of a Biscuit seller on International trade...Very useless)

Losers should move on. Its been 20months+ already

Winners keep achieving, Losers get stuck in the past while actively gnashing their nonsense teeth

Deceive and keep fooling yourself...

Edygrin:
Tinubu's state visit to France was very beneficial to Nigeria, not like Buhari that toured the whole world with nothing to show for it.

And what is France getting out of it.....?

emkz:
It is time we all begin to condemn the weaponization of protests by Omoyele Sowore.

We must not sit idly and be selective when it comes to issues bordering on national security.

Mr Dele Farotimi not only made some damning allegations against Afe Babalola SAN in a book, he also made same in a press conference.

According to Afe Babalola's petition against Dele Farotimi, he petitioned that Dele Farotimi alleged as follows:



What has been established?

1. Dele Farotimi himself admitted there was a bench warrant issued against him to appear in Ekiti State to answer to the summons. wWhy didn't he honour the invitations? He claimed he committed the crime in Lagos and saw no reason to be called to Ekiti. Which law school did he even attend?

2. Instead of attending to the warrants, Dele Farotimi rushed to do a press conference to make claims that Afe Babalola was using the judiciary to bully him. No one questioned his accusations; they just believed him, because in their eyes, he could do no wrong.

3. If there is a bench warrant, how is it illegal? Can it be vacated? How? If yes, why didn't he seek a superior court order to vacate it?

4. Sahara Reporters and People's Gazette are being used to villify Afe Babalola to the effect that they even lied that King's College was considering their relationship with Afe Babalola. I think they should be added to the law suit.

5. Some people do not understand that human rights activism is not a license to bully those they don't like. Many of the latter-day human rights so-called activists are using their voice to terrorize and destroy others. There must be accountability for things said.

6. Atiku Abubakar desperately tried, but failed to effectively condemn President Bola Tinubu for the arrest of Farotimi. His vituperations failed when it was established that both Farotimi and Babalola supported the same candidate, and Babalola is not particularly fond of Tinubu. The candidate both legal pugilists supported took sides with one of them quickly because the mob supporting him took that side.

What we see is that there is unjustified anger by a certain mob against Afe Babalola, which we consider unfair. Dele Farotimi made some allegations against Afe Babalola and the Supreme Court as well as Justices of the Supreme Court, including Justice Bode Rhodes-Vivour. It is incumbent upon Dele Farotimi to prove those allegations so that if anyone is corrupting our Supreme Court, the person is identified and EFCC steps in, and all judges involved are punished. Otherwise, let the law be applied on such if a case of defamation is established. It is also a matter that borders on national security if our Supreme Court is said to be corruptible and corrupted. If justices were compromised, the sensible thing to do would be to submit a petition to the NJC. If that was not done, then it amounts to malice to rush to write a book without substantiating such accusations. I urge the DSS to invite Dele Farotimi to come and give explanations on what he knows about corruption in the judiciary.

As for Afe Bababola, do not bow to the pressure of the mob. The name you have built for yourself and your children is being rubbished. Deploy every legal arsenal you have to ensure that Dele Farotimi proves everything he accused you of.

I'd also call upon the young ones who join protests senselessly. Omoyele Sowore is a failed politician who uses protests to advance his failed political ambitions. He misled some of our young ones to riots last August. Remember that some of them died. Has he visited their families? Do not allow yourself to be a weapon in the hands of a failed revolution monger, please.

Funny how people like this sell their souls. How much can they pay you?

Kewtt:
Try nonsense in Ekiti and be jailed.

Bloody Ekiti that cannot even feed itself...

Okoroawusa:
Let the judiciary do its job, please. This is a case between two Nigerians more so legal practitioners.
All these intimidation of the judiciary will not help Farotimi's case unless you, Sowore, wants to you the matter to trend as usual.

Shut your mouth...you traitor....how much did they pay you?

Stupid woman….na by force

UrennaNkoli:
Can't blame the teacher. Some Corp members can be very arrogant and rude. This one in the picture looks like she lacks basic home training.

You are stupid...Ho w can you say this, how I wish this happens to your daughter.

abysirius:
Dele needs to grow up and start acting his age. Cho..cho.. cho..Nigeria is not a university campus where his aluta activisim can thrive. He is wasting away while his mates are sitting at the table deciding how the country is run.

With a reasoning like this, you are one of the reasons why the country is so backward. There are millions of Deles' in the developed world, and thats why those societies work.....

zoedew:
He is not above the Law!

Police should not be involved in this, this is a civil matter. Nigeria is a lawless country.

garykoeman:
He should face the consequences of his action.


How can u label someone criminal without evidence.

Labelling someone criminal does not warrant police arrest. It is a civil case and has nothing to do with the police....Educate yourself.

Nigeria is such a useless country; thisis not even a police matter, its a civil case.