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chimkaire: Thanks. This is it for me. Ummm...Shizzy, is Star-Lite ok by you?

ok my lady would prefer i keep shinning. Thank luv. , Jbluv55, let her wish be my command, Star-lite for me

Jbluv55: The Lord is indeed good all the time

So the lady says to offer you anything on her bill.

*whispers to him*......I personally have a thing for ladies that take the initiative in this kind of situations

Not so fast bruv, you may want to look elsewhere

Erm...any brand of red wine would do just fine

neighy: shizzle am a Chelsea fan... You're Up against Me... Buh Madrid is my second Team...

ok bruv! we still got something in common thou. I dont dislike Chelsea, i only support them occasionally but my favourite English club is city. Madrid all the way

Jbluv55: That is my 2nd club after the BLUES .

My premiership club is the blue side of Manchester, City all the wayyy

chimkaire: I go with Barca FC for no reason

Darn! Theres no love lost between us then as far as club football is concerned, its all good thou. As a pure madridsta, i wish you (barca) bad luck, i hope you lose tm'row

chimkaire: K'o yemi . I got a feeling you letting me in on how you do the chasing . The speed I see 'em footballers put in, o ma n'ja mi l'aya

Im a soccer buff myself, an ardent supporter of Real Madrid fc, the kings of Europe, you don't like football, its understandable. Football is such a big game and a delight to watch, you don't have t let your heart skip when watching

chimkaire: Whatever he's gonna take's on me. JBLuv, we here, let's roll

Interesting, The Lord is good.......

With this, Jbluv55 just got me where he wanted me

Jbluv55: Aha!!! I knew you would .

*offers him a seat*

So what shall I serve you and the byoootiful lady sitting beside you?

lwkmd! you funny bruv! wouldn't mind the 'byoootiful' lady, it would be a near perfect match trust me, my instinct tells me so. Will check in as much as i can....cheers

Jbluv55: Hehe . You are welcome and I'm glad you found your short stay interesting and exciting . Hope we'll be seeing you sooner than later .

i came back sooner than i thought, thanks to chimkaire. I already took a liking to her for some reason. My pleasure

chimkaire: Lol, Shizzy, howya? Good-evening

Im good, thanks for asking. Nice evening to you too.

Pleased to meet you

Jbluv55: Hehe . You're welcome sir .

So not even a drink while you do so sire?

No thanks, i wont be staying for long, infact i will leave any moment. I had a nice time flipping through a few pages thou, and enjoyed the chit-chats between/among you peeps. It was nice being here. Thanks again

@chimkaire, i gave you the likes

Jbluv55: *sights ShizzleStar @ the entrance, approaches him and guides him to a seat *

Evening sire . What shall I serve you this evening?

lol...thanks bruv, only a visitor here just came here to read comments.

oladapo obasotoro

abiodun olugbenga

South West style-sophistication

South West again? what is wrong with yorebola people?

nwapastor: @ Shizzlestar you are completely right It's all about perspective. What I said was as seen from a single lady's perspective.

i understand you and that's why i said you'll appreciate their feelings(married women) better when you become one

@ moca I like your spirit jare. It's not all about the negatives. A girl friend of mine once asked me what it feels like being engaged and what came to my mind was the word 'freedom' 'cos it was like I lost that. There are so many things singles enjoy which we do take for granted. So lets enjoy them while they last

.it is both ways, men are also barred from certain things/attitudes when they become hitched

As for the parry it is on already welcome on board.

abeg make una invite me too abi na only ladies?

And why would a woman keep such a secret? for what? ill never trust her, she could be hiding a bigger/more dangerous secret. In fact that could be the beginning of the end of the marriage

nwapastor: I love kids too but that one is a story of it's own. I'm in the children church but some people said that I'm not qualified because I don't have children and so can not handle them. Some mothers come around when their child cries and just take the child away as if you are the cause of the child's cry.

You are a woman too, hopefully one day you'll get married and bear kids too, then understand why women are over-protective of their offspring and behave this way

What of the "greeting wahala" sometimes in the company of married friends and family people come in and greet them (even the ones much younger than you) and just pass you as if you are not there.

This is the way 'most' young married women behave, they tend to draw a line between themselves and singles (for certain reasons)and rather form a clique among themselves, i have experienced this before. I still withhold my empathy cos if you were married, maybe, just maybe you would also behave in the same way

What of working in a place where you are the only 'miss' and you see others getting more preferential treatment and respect just because of the 'M' word (married/mother).
Most of the time people relate to you based on your marital status than your age

The common notion among them is that married women have similar responsibilities, thus they empathise with each other a lot

Once you are not married automatically you must be younger than the married ones so people treat you in like manner. If you have a younger one that is married he/she is referred to as your elder one. So many things, it's easier for me to talk about them now because I've managed to cross over a little. I'll still tell the story of how that one happened. Stay tuned

Yes, marriage wise she(your younger one) is older, age wise maybe not. Its a fact you have to live with. I refuse to take part in the emotional dance here. Nothing you have said here is new, just a mere re-echoing of what we've always known. Stopping this trend of unhealthy discrimination is at the door-step of you women.

na wa for this man'o....smh