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#OnToMoreImportantIssues

toba: Thats how we jokingly speak with ourselves here without getting too Zealous.

Im i responsible for ur predicament? why talk to me like that?

Dude, watch it! Your very last warning... You can choose to ignore me, I don't care..but I wont take dungs from you anymore... What predicament are u referring to? Relationship na career? Or what's ur headache... Stay off my case na... You are yet to make sense since I joined tis thread... Respect ur self and do the right thing!
I won't insult u... I will wait till you ask for it!

@Mod ... I wonder why mod hasn't done anytin about this, tis is suppose to be a mumeens' and mumeenats' gathering... Things like this will put people off here... When u discuss serious issues and some clown from God knows where jumps in...make fun and all sort of jokes, what do u call that? Comedy central?? For the interest of dis thread, do sometin about this... There is a section for jokes on NL... I bliv we discuss sensitive matter here!
We should give every new reader a cogent reason to contribute and join this thread.. Not some gimmick posts.... <----- my suggestions, subject to be questioned/contradicted and chastised!

Salaam

toba: sorry oooo.

do u mind picking one of the ladies on this thread?

Pick? Are we auctioning here? You talk about dem as if they are commodities for sale... Respect ladies abeg!

deols: eyyya. lost 50% interest? how long av u bn after her.

Almost a month.... We talked on BBM dis afternoon.. While I was tryna tell her communication is key, she felt I was complaining.. She can't do more than she is doing.. Weekend is d only period we can talk, she just doesn't want to talk jare... Me, I don let go oo...I will delete her off my BBM list in a week sha... She is suppose to meet me halfway, but she isn't ready to do that.. Perhaps she isn't ready for a relationship sef... Wish her luck... I moved on!

Its official; Am Single!

Thanks Deols!

@Deols .... Things av taken another turn oo... We are back to the silence game... I don't want to bother her, just gonna relax all efforts for now and let her take d lead and imma follow. To be honest, av lost 50% interest in dis jare.. Whatever happens, I will let you know... But for now, am still single!

Hi everyone, how was ur day?? Cheetrs!

deols: haha its okay to feel ds way. If not, dr will be no need going after her. But remember you heard someone say somfn about you and not like she told u of her interest. She just may not be ready to showcase her feelings yet. Give her some time.

And you need to give her some space too. She needs time to think about what you are to her, exactly what she wants frrom d relationship, etc. Matter of factly, and ds is a secrete am sharing wv u, many ladies dont like clingy men and dr's an adage, absence makes the heart grow fonder. So, give her a reason to think, Why isnt he calling? Is he having a change of mind?.

And about her having other people. She probably has them. But no other person can be you. When she sees the good in you, they will matter no more.

And like Olawalebabs said, pray well and hard. But unlike him, I wldnt advise you start sending gifts to her. They are a waste if she doesnt feel that way.

I hope this is helpful

All I can say is... Thank You!!!!
So much appreciated... Ur d best... Cheers!

**scratching my head**

Gbamar: REALLY.'I DOUBT IT'

Ehn ehn?? Ok, Mr Hitch... Tell us more...

olawalebabs: cool, being indoor all day. How's yours?

I just dey jare... Been to every corner of lagos today, back home sha... Alhamdulilahi!

maclatunji: See how Shrek4 that was saying he wasn't going to rush with a girl is catching fever over busy girl. Did I not tell you to take it easy, Olawalebab too is now stoking his agitation. Ladies, you see what you do to men, is it good like this?

Shrek4! Start fasting on Saturday, one day on, one day off. We need to get your mind off that girl!

Hahahahaha LWKMD .... Ok, I admit... Am tripping! Fast?? Errmmm.... Whatz d intention?? Hehehehe

maclatunji:

What did I miss

olawalebabs: just a little push and she will be yours.

Hope and pray so.... How was ur day, sir!

olawalebabs: bro. You need to play on and hard. Nothing good come easy, maybe just a step is all you need to get her. Nobody is born to be single in islam. Maybe the nun sha. Be kind to her, show her that you care, give her gift no matter how small. What again. Come out clean and let her know your intent for her. All the best

Oshey.... But am trying my best...leaving no stone unturned... God help us sha...

Gbamar: VERY FUNNY.

Are u thru with laughter?? Ok... Plz tell us, whatz funny?

Dear Deols, She doesn't av my time oo... Added her on BBM lastnight and we avnt exchanged 100words, said she's busy and stuffs... Its killing... **sigh** not even a ping oo.. Does she think about me at all?? Perhaps she has forgotten abt me sef... Maybe there are many more men in her life(people like me.. ) What do I do?? Exercise more patience?? I tried gettin my mind off it, but its not working.... Maybe I was born to b single sef.... What do u think??

bhusayor: It was not deleted, it was hidden

You might wanna re-read the very first post(by deols) on this thread.

No dirty innuendo sufficed from my post! Just let it go.... Am not here to argue!

I wonmder how my post was deleted.... **RME at d mod**

molli: wt a warm reception.feel so
loved...lolz

Mmmmmmm.... Its the appropriate way o jare... That's au we do... U look lovely tho... Whatz ur lil secret?

molli: thanx n cofee will just be it *winks*

Skimmed milk or evaporated??
Its coming right away... What else do u want?? For the next 30mins, I'l b at ur service... Make good use of it!

molli: Assalam,i'm a muslim sis from kwara state...i'm nt really a newbie on nl.just stumbled hia n really elated to know a place like this, exists for muslim faithfuls.barka lahu fil.

Walaiki salam.... U r welkom ooo... Sit back and enjoy the ride, your bowl of pop-corn will be forwarded shortly, tea or coffee?? .... Cheers!

@Bhusayor ... U gave dem Deols and Eniafelamo kisses, u com throw smile at the boys... Not cool at all!!! Fax some kisses to me with immediate alacrity... **patiently waiting**

bhusayor: Olawale, maclatunji, shrek

..... I dey shine teeth!

deols:

Sis Deola, I was hooked with a lady, we often talk on fone...but she doesn't show much interest.. I just learnt she discussed me with another friend.. Said she can't wait to meet me and all.... My point is this... I was giving up on her, cos she wasn't showin any sign of interest in me... Anyway, I will keep my fingers crossed, I will loosen up a bit... See where dis goes... I will keep u in d loop...
Thanks again!

**BUYING ROASTED CORN NEARBY**

toba: how do u know? i have a policy. never say never. she's nt married yet i guess

Chai... see determination ooo... oya... forge ahead... wish u d very best... Godspeed bro....

toba: taken by who? u i guess

Nah.... me ke?? i wish....

deols: understandably protective considering ur experiences. How bad could they av been. Care to share??

I think d best way to learn is by experiencing things. They make or mare though. You dont always allow them control ur attitude towards life.

Right... Am not backing the society and am not walking away from the norms... i just want to be careful and get it right "next time" ... about the experience, trust me... now is not a good time... am weak, tired and worn-out... right now, am rehearsing sleep sef!
I owe u sha.... Thanks for giving me ur time jare...

toba: tell eniafe to look at myside and i promise t be good to her

Eniafelamo's Playlist: Already Taken - Trey Songs

toba: this makes sense

See consolatory post oooo....

Claumy2: Whether the man committed suicide or not, one fact established is that Nigeria has a loose and/or porous security personnels. Highly challenging for GEJ

Lemme ask u a question... : Prisoners dont commit suicide in developed countries??

olawalebabs: Toba, you for don get your 'muslima' tay tay, but your always see your 'helper' as 'antagonist'. Lol. Anyway point to any of them, and 'we' will talk to her. Lmfso (apology to mac)

Yes, we will....