My people the thing tire me oo.

when I was serving in Kogi state, during the presidential election and I was the P.O in my polling unit back then. you need to see the way people are looking at me and what they were saying, na only cry I no fit cry. If no be sey me self no they gree for people at times, even girls own self na wahala.

you need to hear one man asking me that am I a remedial student when I have already finished final year and waiting for my NYSC call up letter.

I'm 24 and I looked like I'm still seventeen and still no sign of any commendable change only slightly deep voice and strong head

make person no get height and even beard self na your enemy.

but it's fun at times cos you get to confuse people.

Apart from that one, you are on your own oo

Goddey18:
It has not been easy I must confess. What pains me most is that most ladies I'm far older than keeps calling me smallie.

that's the problem bro, especially when you no tall no con get beards join. its not easy at all, na because sey we self too stubborn na im make us dey get the respect we they get now bro

KingZaddy:
Shylord7

Looking at your second question, it looks like girls call the shots for you, she has no right to give you conditions never!


you should be calling the shots but when she said you should wait for her to finish you kept pushing at her, now thats gross. dont be a pest, you were acting like you were already obsessed with her.


now listen, when you want a girl, approach her mutally with the intention of friendship, dont give her the impression you want to date her and if she is very attractive friendzone her and make sure she knows you did.


when you go with friendship she would open up to you and in the circle of friendship you should create an attractive personality

(read through my posts)

thanks a lot bro. I have learnt something

KingZaddy:
a part of my book is titled "the touching and the playing" ladies give body languages or coded words, watch out for such and later when you are connected feel the room with music try trap music (e.g young thug) or soft slow music, both create two different impressions depending on the type of girl.

I am new here, and I must confess that I am not that successful with girls. But I was wondering what to do when you are trying to connect with a girl and by the time you think you are hitting the marks, she then tells you that she have a boyfriend. I usually get stuck in this phase quite often and it sucks when I don't know how to proceed. Could she actually have said that to play hard-to-get or what? or should I ask them if they have a boyfriend before starting the taming game?

my second question is: what to do when you are wooing a young girl and she keeps saying that she is not ready to date now and until she is done with her education. Because, there was a time I asked a girl out when I was much younger and she said that she will date me if I can wait for her to finish her education, but I didn't mind her and I kept following up with wooing her then she started avoiding me afterwards. Only for me to find out that she started dating another guy after about three months later. Now the same things is happening again, what should I do?

please I need enlightenment, like badly