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@ Bolagun12.

I dont want no problem here on these thread. While we are free to express ourselves, I brought my issue here to help me solve them. People are different and so u will expect from someone like me too . abi.

@ Totoeater, Stop all these now. I am getting sick already. I got what i wanted and the general consensus that i have to go and live my life elsewhere. I might have skills in different fields but not in the area of relationship hence i found myself in these.

I dont think it was wrong to bring my issues out to people for advise. Thats why when someone profers a solution , i will thank him or her for the contribution.
Its not that a dumb like u are making it sound. I know what i want and dont wana settle for less.


I need these thread to stop. Am okay now. Thats all i needed.

I thank all that contributed to thread. lets make naija a great place to be and live.

@ Romeo,

The woman ( Wife) in question is a wonderful person. infact you will think she is naija. But there is a problem. No Kid and not willing to have one cos she got one already before we met. i help raise that kid.

If there was a kid , i wouldnt bother thinking about going out there. She loves naija and dont play with any when she comes accross them as a human resources manager with a fortune 500 company in Atlanta. she hires Naija as if she knows them. Even with out kpali. she comes back home to tell me, i just hooked one of your boy or girl up at work.

Sometimes you cant get it right in life and this is one of them. beautiful, good heart, caring but all that with out children dont make sense. Thats my point.

You can force a horse to the river but cant force the horse to drink from it. She dont want it period.

@ Romeo, I take the appology , after all am look for a solution and i brought it to the house for solution and i got a lot from it.

take care my man.
God Bless

@ frank3,16

Thanks for the post. you might be right. i was forcing my way in despite seeing all that. its over any way. I just didnt wanna have any contact at all. I know her, if i continue to pick that call and be her friend like u want it to be, i will hardly move on. That will be constant reminder of everything. yeah i wil talk to her someday but not now.

Thank you Heather,

You are a good sister. i never knew i could have so much support from this forum. Thank you very mch. I m doing much better.

@ SweetT. Thanks for the advice. I wonder how people like ROMEO4REAL can be saying things like that. As if he didnt read my thread. Its easy for one to judge another out there with out look at your self first.

I Think am great full for all the advice i have gotten here and thats all i need.The general concensus is that i ve to let her go. Is it a crime to be married for yrs with out getting it right likeee your mates out there? I think ROMEO u know the answer. Wish you the best.

Wana thank all that contributed including those with constructive criticisms. A man has to take that be stronger.
take care .

Love ya

@ iice,

thank you. it happened like this cos of the pressure. i was not thinking about anyway before all these. u r damn right. its not every woman u meet u wanna end up with. i made so many mistakes.

topup. u are a grand master. You might be right. you just give me energy now to continue what i am doing. i have to move on.

Thank u my brother.

hi topup.

You are the bumb. u just hit the nail on the head.

TheSeeker,

Thank you my guy. who says Naijas are not honest to their brother. I have gotten so much encouragement since i let the cat out the bag. I can hardly trust a woman nowadays. Its terrible how one can be treated like that.

Naija is a great place.

thanks,

I have

Thanks for all the advice so far. Just want to get emails of all that contributed to my posting.

thanks Tinyata, U guys are great. I don borrow Usian Bolt shoes already. I am on a 100 meters dash here.

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take care and God bless.

Mashkov,

I dont know what to tell you. Is it that you are so perfect that msitake were never made by you? Now i know and you learn by making honest mistakes and this was one of them. How i wish i know the yoruba you just spoke?

I wish you well any way.

The general concensus here is that i have to let this go and i have taken it. I should be able to give all my people that contributed to the healing someday, when life begin to improve by having another girl. I know then you will be happy with me.

take care. bye. Thank you all for your help.

Shanda

Thanks.

Oladcity,
I will do it. Trust me . u only live once.

Christ.

Thank you justwise. That can also happen to Bobo2 too someday abi. Its possible.

Hi Peyt,
Thank you

ok , u win now. u be super star. I need to put my findings to a database i call" failure effect mode analysis" to know what went wrong and how to fix it next time.
Its a program that NASA use each time they want to make a flight to space.

Oiza

Th

Ok . My Naija brothers and sisters,