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Hello People

You are encouranging me.

Almondjoy, you are so funny. I smiled a lot when I read your e-mail.

Yes, I will enter 2008 alone.

He is going to Nigeria next week and he will be back just in february. The time I need for start geting used with his ausence.

I re-read every posts and re-think about myself and my "reproductive years" and you are all right.

I ll finish this romance.

Kisses
Simi

Leilah, If I were you I would say the same thing. You are 100% right. I am a kind of stupid when we love we dont think racional. Then I ll get old and single with no babes because of him. Yes, I dont deserve it

Octopus, when he told me it I thought he was joking (culture issue) it doesnt exist here and when I tell people they dont believe either. That's why I enter here and I realized that the issue is real serious


Kisses People, you are so kind

Where are the catalogue ? I want everything compilated as a book

Octopus

He is Igbo !!!

Leilah

I was trying to "became nigerian" for change his mind. You know? Hopefull never die. My friends used made the same question that you did and the answer is as I love you him so much I ll be cool , suffer a lot at first but I will survive.

I had plan a lot of things for my life and nothing happened as I had planned, so NOW IS LIKE THAT WHATEVER WILL BE WILL BE, IF I DIE TOMORROW AT LEAST I LL DIE HAPPY.

FemiATL

At first I had prejudice with nigerian food because it doesnt look like good, that okro melting , etc,  I didnt have courage even to eat. For my babe oga a woman that cook is very important, he told me he d prefer my food than the food the most expensive and chic restaurant. So I start learning and I think everything delicious and I have been enjoying eat with the fingers. I still don't eat meats like : tongue,liver, bush, foot and head and he love it . This one I still don't have courage even to touch because I feel disguting. Example: he likes egusi with fish,meat and chicken togheter, it doenst exist here, my friends look and say wooooowwww this guy is crazy, or you eat one meat or another but everything togheter ? so I made it just with Fish and he liked anyway and my brazilian friends too, is a kind of adaption and I wear african clothes e don't complain about nothing , lol

T@medo,

No you are wrong, he is Igbo. Thanks for the Advice anyway

Leilah, again

Do you have crystall ball girl ? so tell me 5 number for i play in the lottery. Yes, my name is Simone and my nickname is Simi or Brown Sugar Doll (smile).

He is going to Nigeria for Christhmas and I have been insisting to go with him (I pay my ticket) and he said NOOOO, I start crying, he said: Why you don't want I go to Nigerian ? I have been far for years and I want stay with my family and I replied of course I want you go to see your parents but I want go togheter, he said for I stop disturbing him.

Leilah I have already dated a lot of men during my whole life, I am 32 already and he is the only one that I feel in love, he is perfect, he is handsome, he is too strong (people fear when he get close because he look like bad too) and I feel protected, he is strong cristian, he kiss very good like that actors in hollywood movie, when we are sleeping he hug very strong , awake me with kiss, we talk a lot of bullshit sometimes and have fun, his butt is just amazing, sometimes I sleep on it as pillow, he take care about me he is very honest , wise and he make me became a better person each day.

I am not a homely girl (his wish) I am business woman, I have a lot of contacts, friends and thats why I fear don't find another man like him. I know the world and average men is "dirty", unfaithfull.

Like him just exist he, God made 1 sample and put in the trash the "round shape" 

I am Brazilian my babe oga is nigerian. We have been dating for 4 years and he wont get married with me (he said) because he must get married with a naija woman because he is the oldest son. If he marry me his family might die (he said it).

Trying to became nigerian I start studying the culture and get envolved with nigerians and make nigerians friends. I learned how to make egusi, stew, jollof rice, I care about his food, I learned how to cook just because it is important to him, take care of the house but I didnt learn be quiet when he say something I dont agree and others stuffs.

We are happy!

The difference of cultures made our relationship became more rich became we learn with each other everyday. (my opinion)