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JERRYxed12:
well i have not been actually embarrassed before, but I would av been.... it all happen when I was dating a girl and did not want her to know I was teaching.... even though the school was a big school and it's pay is not all that bad..... I did not want her to know I was teaching..... on this faithful day as I was teaching she called.. since I gave the class some work to solve , I said let me leave the class and answer this nwa baby....... I was on the call which was getting interesting while I was contemplating to end it.... on known to me those children ( if not God I wod say demonic children) turned the class upside down.... the call was interesting I did not know it was my class the noise was coming from..... while I was on the call, one child ran to me and said sir should I wrote names of noise makers the class is making noise.... I swear his voice was as if the put amplifier..... even the gate man could hear him..... just to cover the shame fast I said okay go... while he was running back the director who has heard the knows came up and saw me on call.... he started shouting what was I doing that my class was noise..... immediately I tried ending the call. not knowing it did not switch off .....the babe hear how the director was just shouting at me telling me how would I act so careless like that.... how would I leave those children.... he called. me some on holy name and said shit........ and told me he would deal. with me later..... well the phone went off after she could not take it any more... I think she felt the shame and embarrassment for me.......

latter that day she called me and said she sorry for the embarrassment and said we should pray about it.... she prayed with me on the phone and then told me things will get better.....

today I am the CEO of my own business... I have a catfish farm and is doing well... and I plan to. marry her

Please can we talk about how to start a catfish farm?
I'm interested in that business

jbnm:
invest that money in catfish rearing in 6 months time u will gain more profit

Please how to start this catfish rearing

frozen70:
If you are very sure they have enough and don't want to give, just look elsewhere

Families, hardly help each other financially

I know they have,
I have a aunty that has more than enough, but she's always giving excuses

ZINIBANKS:
People have their own problem
Don't disturb anyone with yours
Remember they didn't disturb you with theirs

That's true

dollytino4real:
yes continue help will com, go to ur church, they can link u up with someone who can help.

Church will tell u they have other budgets to take care of
Or better still it might take a long time

dollytino4real:
pls don't feel bad, I was in ur shoes some weeks ago. I even came to NL to beg but no help came only insults to even make the matter worst MOD remove my post. just pray to God he will send help where u least expected it. because God did my own

Thank you,have been praying seriously, I pray I don't get depressed because of too much thinking

I'm just feeling disappointed because, I just realized family and friends prefer giving Bible quotes than assisting financially.
Since June I have been begging my family and friends to assist me or give me a loan to start up a business, but they keep saying they don't have, that I should not worry that's gonna be alright "E GO BETTER" I'm just tired of staying at home idol.

Jazzafizzy:
Guy dating site will be better ......I'm on a dating site where I met this precious single Australian mom...... fortunately her only child was fathered by Nigerian guy they met in u.k . The guy was irresponsible but she has this unquenchable love for nija guys. She doesn't wants me to complain she loves me crazy . Covid is what is delaying her coming to see me .
If u can go on the dating site u go see them Wella . But for nairaland you go waste ur data tire , no sugar momma for nija .......funny enough the nija women on that site na money bags &, whitty them they find .

What's the name of the dating site, because this days a lot of dating site scams plenty online

Razzness:
U should not use the money to start Poultry or piggery, its kinda risky for beginers. Look for business that will be giving u steady income with little or no risk of loosing ur capital e.g the computer centre, do a proper feasibility study, u can then be investing ur returns into the poultry or piggery gradually. Depending on ur area u can also consider p.o.s, game centre, drycleaning e.t.c just do a close evaluation in ur area and decide on providing services that are sought after.

Open a game shop
Buy pes 2 pes 3 pe4 and like 2 TV and u are good to go

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

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