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step 1 Choose your partner wisely. Having similar tastes, hobbies, temper and goals in life is very important even though you will be opposite in some nice ways. If you two have different relationship goals, you should try to find different partners. It will eventually lead to mild and even harsh conflicts, but even these type of conflicts will help both you and your significant other at the time decide what they really want in a relationship, nothing is ever a waste of time. But without compatibility in your basics it is very hard to maintain a happy relationship. If one is always "going, rushing and imagining" but the other (no matter how lovely) always wants to "stay, stop or forget it all"--it is very very hard to be together and make things work for long run.
step 2 Be honest about everything always. Even in the smallest matter. Being honest is the most important thing in a relationship. Secrets or dishonesty is like poisonous venom from a deadly snake that will bite you both... when it comes crawling out and it will.2
step 3 Never cheat on your partner. Imagine what you would feel if they cheated on you. Would you really want them to feel that way? Could you ruin every month/year you've spent together? Could you break their heart? Keep in mind, that cheating could do permanent damage to your partners self confidence and could ruin their love life completely forever. You will never be trusted again, no matter how you excuse yourself. Is sex really worth ruining your relationship? If you don't feel happy with your partner, break up first.
step 4 Be open and informative as much as you can. Privacy is something that couples need to be completely open about and know exactly what the other expects from them and talk about the issues that you might have. As the relationship continues and those initial boundaries are changing then revise them and eventually in a perfect relationship would have absolutely nothing private from there other, but nothing is perfect so beyond absolutely everything make sure to talk to your partner in full about things and respect the others wishes.
step 5 Respect the needs of your partner. Keep your wants balanced with theirs. This way no one gets constant advantage. But everyone stays happy.
step 6 Keep their birthday and your anniversary in mind. This is really important!
step 7 If you want to make them happy, do something you know they like, or something they always wanted to do but never could. Don't feel like you need a reason to do something for them, things completely out of the blue are sometimes exactly what the other wants. Doing something together is always the best choice though.
step 8 Don't expect, buy or even request valuable gifts. These can really poison a relationship if one person seems to be a gold digger. Discuss before hand with your other on what might be OK to spend without having any ideas of items or prices before hand. Plus, if you really put your mind to it the best gifts come from the heart and don't cost an arm and a leg but possibly even free!
step 9 Spend as much time together as you can, but avoid fusion or confusion of your individual goals with the other person's goals! You will fuse family goals such as for having children together, but not you core needs and beliefs. Neither person should lose reasonable and longstanding individual ambitions or goals.
step 10 Before you become impatient or unreasonable try to run the, "Do they deserve my unloading on them?" program. No matter what the answer is to that question--No! They don't deserve a "piece of your mind." Be fair by being patient, and ask for patience. Keep calm, this is the key to being happy together. Everyone can have a hard day, or week. All it takes is a huge breath in and out and let your mind do the talking not your mouth(think about what your going to say before you say it).

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Have a special someone in mind? Wish to strengthen a friendship or relationship? Follow these simple steps to show a woman that you care for her.

step 1:Invest in her happiness. There is no better way to show her you care.

Tell her how much you adore her every day! Everyone wants to know that they are loved and appreciated.
Learn and encourage her dreams. The more you support them, the more she’ll want to include you in them.
Take care not to hurt her. Even if circumstances change, make sure she thinks of you with a smile.

step 2 Respect her mind, body, and soul. She is a unique individual with dreams and secrets you have yet to uncover.

Make her your top priority. Nobody wants to play second fiddle to their partner’s job, hobby, or friends.
Accept her and cherish her for who she is; after all, she's the only one who will always be there for you if you treat her right.
Remember that you're not the only man in this world; there’s a man out there who will love and care for her if you won't.
If you can't do these things, let her be with someone who will.

step 3 Be trustworthy. Prove that you can be counted on daily, not just for big promises.

Make sure your actions reflect your words. It’s one thing to declare your love and admiration but another thing altogether to act on it.
If you make a promise, follow through -- no matter how small. Keeping a big promise every now and again isn’t nearly as significant as keeping your end of the bargain on day-to-day stuff.

step 4 Pay attention to her. Make sure she’s in your thoughts and not just your presence.

Every time she is speaking to you, make an effort to look her in the eyes.
If you don’t understand something she says, tell her instead of playing along. This will show her that you’re listening and want to really understand what she has to say.
Ask questions. Engage actively instead of listening passively.

step 5 Be unconditionally honest with her. Telling her the truth is the best way to build a healthy and trusting relationship.

Even small lies to spare feelings or save face can become problems later on.
While being honest is very important, remember not to be insensitive. Try to take her feelings into account and express your thoughts in a constructive, not destructive, way.

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A Victoria's Secret shop assistant was scarred for life when a mysterious figure wearing a niqab threw acid in her face as she walked home from work.

Naomi Oni, 20, was left with severe burns on her head, neck, arms, legs and body after she was attacked in Dagenham, east London. She has spent the past month having skin grafts and almost went blind, although she has now recovered her vision in her left eye and has partial sight in her right. Her attacker was dressed like a Muslim woman in a niqab, so Ms Oni could not see their face. Police have no idea who was responsible for the vicious attack, or why they did it. The shop assistant - who is sole carer for her disabled mother Marian Yalekhue, 52 - was making the five-minute journey back to their flat from the bus stop when she heard someone behind her.

She had just finished a late shift at the store and was on the phone to her boyfriend. "I’d been working a late shift and was talking to my boyfriend about what we were going to do for New Year when I saw this Muslim woman wearing a niqab covering her face. I thought it was a bit strange at that time of night, but she didn’t say anything and I kept on walking. Then I felt a splash on my face. It burned and I screamed out. I started running and screaming, holding my face, all the way home. I didn’t look back. I got home and I was screaming and banging on the door. I was hysterical. Luckily my godmother, who is a pharmacist, was at home with my mum and she helped me and kept dipping my face in water and trying to calm me down until the police and ambulance got there. I was in shock. Saying: "Who would do that? Who would do that? How could anyone do this?"

She has released the shocking images of her disfigured face in an appeal for help to catch the attacker whose identity was concealed behind the Muslim women’s dress which completely covers the face apart from the eyes. Ms Oni decided to speak out after police failed to establish any motive behind the December 30 attack or identify a suspect. She said the attack had destroyed her life and left her too afraid to venture out or even show her face in public. "I look in the mirror and it just isn’t me. I’ll never look the same again. I’ve always been outgoing and confident in my job and in my personal life, used to getting attention for the way I dress or my hair, but now I don’t want anyone looking at me."

"I don’t want people to see me in public. I don’t want to get the Tube or the bus. If I have to go to the hospital I take a taxi. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to go back to my job. I was planning to go to college in September to study media and fashion, but I don’t even know if I’ll be able to do that."The store assistant has been told she faces months if not years of skin grafts and further plastic surgery and even then is likely to be left with severe facial scarring. She and her mother say they are too afraid to go back to their council flat in Dagenham. They are currently sleeping on a friend’s sofa-bed after turning down the offer to be rehoused in Tottenham on safety grounds.

Ms Oni said she had been inspired by the story of Katie Piper, the model who launched a charity and spoke out publicly after falling victim to an acid attack orchestrated by her boyfriend, but that she would never feel safe with her attacker still at large. "Even with the support of my family and friends and boyfriend I feel very alone. Nothing is going to be same anymore." A Scotland Yard spokesman said acid attacks were "extremely rare" and that detectives were keeping an "open mind as to the motive." Officers from Barking and Dagenham are investigating. No arrests have been made and inquiries are ongoing.

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Below are various Nigerian institutions and their school fees.. This Thread will be very much Helpful for Candidates who
want to Choose the school in their Upcoming Jamb Exam.
YABATECH => N35000
OAU => N37,000
UNIZIK => N67,000
FUNAAB => N48,000
AAU => N80,000
OOU => N135,000
RSUST => N40,000
FUTO => N40,000
DELSU => N38000
TSUJ => N32,000
FUOYE => N75,000
UNIBEN => N50,000
NASARAWA => N21,000
UNIPORT => N36000
ABU => N41,000
LOKOJA=N38,000
MINNA => N30,000
LASU => N190,000 ? 250,000
UI => N29,000
AAUA => N50,000
UNN => N39,000
NOUN=N38,000
BUK => N42,000
UNILAG => N40,000
ILORIN => N35,000
UNIOSUN => N85,000
TASUED => N60,000
LAUTECH => N95,000
UNAD => N105,000
BOWEN => N550,000
ABUJA => N40,000
IMSU => FREE
UNIJOS => 39,000
ABU => N35,000
UNICAL=N40,000
ANSU => N46,000
KSUSTA => N35,000
LEAD => N1.5 mill
FUTA => N47,000
ABSU => N90,000
YOLA => N34,000
BAYERO => 31,000
UNICAL=N38,5000
AKSU => N30,000
OSUN POLY => N28000
IBADAN POLY => N 45000
FED POLY ADO => N29000
OWO POLY => N32000
MOSHOOD ABIOLA POLY=> N75000
LASPOTECH => N38000
FEDERAL POLY OKO => N28000
FEDERAL POLY ILARO => N30000
FEDERAL POLY BIDA => N23000 (it varies with department)
AUCHI POLYTECHNIC => N27000
KADUNA POLY => N24000
ABIA POLY => N28000
ENUGU POLY => N26500
KWARA POLY => N21000
FEDERAL POLY NEKEDE=> N32000
KSU ANYIGBA=>26,000.
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Harvard Law student Oliver Barrett IV and music student Jennifer Cavilleri share a chemistry they cannot deny - and a love they cannot ignore. Despite their opposite backgrounds, the young couple put their hearts on the line for each other. When they marry, Oliver's wealthy father threatens to disown him. Jenny tries to reconcile the Barrett men, but to no avail. Oliver and Jenny continue to build their life together. Relying only on each other, they believe love can fix anything. But fate has other plans. Soon, what began as a brutally honest friendship becomes the love story of their lives. Written by www.naija2hot.tk

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Jessica Reynolds has a gift. Unlike most people her glasses, are something that makes her special. It hides her ability to grant wishes, and gives her the chance to appear normal to everyone around her.

Ever since she was born she has been expected to act a certain way. To honor her family in a way that is impossible for Jessica to do. Desperate for change after hundreds of years of granting wish after wish she runs away. Wishing to herself that hopefully one day her chains will be broken and she will be able to move on to the next stage of her life, as a fully fledged Witch.

Now in high school she trys to ignore anyone who might blow her cover.

Hiding such a secret proves to be difficult however when the most popular Corey Bryant sends her glasses flying off her head and out the window, leaving Jessica completely dazed, angered and extremely attractive.

To top it all off Corey has a secret that could twist Jessica's life into chaos.

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