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Sagamite:
How is patronising them much different from patronising a typical Nigerian girl?

It might even work out far less costly and the return is guaranteed.

A friend just stayed at my place in London and said anytime he hooks up with a Nigerian girl on date or just friends, apart from them thinking and having the air that it is a birthright for the guy to pay for all the refreshments they have, they tend to always order the top of the list beverages.

The guy paying is buying a bottle of Gulder for N500, and the girl is ordering champagne (Moet Brut Imperial) at maybe N7,000.

He said he asked one one day that "Is that how you drink champagne every day?"

She said some rubbish while flashing her 32.

And he asked her "So when you go out and pay for yourself, you always order top-range champagne?"

Of course the answer was "No".

He is not short of money, but it is the principles. Even the guys he hangs with and usually buys rounds for, if they are buying for him on another day, he does not order top of the range things or anything so far different in price from what they are having.

I dont always blame you guys but the ladies for being so stup1d with their life style atimes

DailyNews:
in what way ma

Can you or can you not

RoyalRoy:
Okay.... The search continues.

Success is certain

All the best

chic2pimp:
Nigerians are known for not being able to keep their mouths shut so I need not even ask before the life history of one of those girls are right at my fingertips.

I fit tell you your own history sef

What you do want to tell me about my history that's a big issue

As long as I havent been told I stayed on Allen or Surulere

RoyalRoy:
Am A twin too....do you love me?



****blushing**** in Spanish!!!

I mean I will love to have twins

Shikena!

chic2pimp:
How about those ones i dey see for Allen Avenue and surulere. Dem responsible so?

Do you patronise them? Or how do you know they single moms

Ohh how I so much love twins

Their mum must have loads of swag

chic2pimp:
What part of the world are we talking about here?

Lagos, Nigeria

chic2pimp:
Well that depends on your definition of the term "Responsible"?

If your definition of being Decent and Responsible means being able to keep your legs closed then as someone rightly said you haven't been to certain areas in the States and the UK

I have not been to those parts and yes I mean keeping your legs closed.

Most single mothers living that kind of lifestyles are not setting their priorities right or don't even know what they are.

In this part of the world, most single mothers are responsible and hardworking

Onila am very disappointed in you

I used to think you are very intelligent but never knew your brain is this shallow

I wish this happens to you one day

DailyNews:
many guys here saying yes they will marry single mothers are either pretending or just typing for typing sake. The guy u quoted is real...and what he said is what goes in the minds of majority of guys.

As for ur question, that's y guys can kill any guy who messes with their sister; me, God forbid, but any guy that tries such with my beloved female relation won't find it funny- in fact he must marry her except she doesn't want him.

But I keep wondering y a girl would get pregnant for a guy who isn't ready for marriage, its ridiculous.

Every parent out there should pls forewarn n educate their male n female children on the dangers of premarital sex n unprotected sex pls.


This topic is a big problem in our society now- many young single mothers; which also shows how HIV is being transmitted nowadays, sighs

Mr, please try and speak for yourself. stop hiding under any posts

CharmO1:
Wow! Many comments, mostly negative. I'm a single mother. I did the same thing many ladies have done and will always do: s3x. But I did what only a brave woman with a conscience would do, I kept my son. I laughed when I read some HELL NO's. Better a tokunbo. Car than a car that was wrecked in an accident and then panel-beat, repainted, and repackaged as new. I haven't had issues with men looking down on me because I'm independent and I don't even allow a man I'm dating meet my son. I don't want my son seeing different men in my life. It's only that lucky man that would have the priviledge of meeting him though adopting him is out of the question cos my family won't let him out of their sight. Fertility is not guaranteed because a woman has given birth but there's a higher chance of fertility and if there are no kids after marriage, then na the man get problem be that. As someone rightly said, it takes a mature mind and a good heart to be with a single mother because honestly we hardly trust because we've been hurt deeply before. I haven't met any promiscuous single mother. Strangely, most single mothers can close legs tight because of fear of being used and dumped. My advice to single mothers, don't be desperate, rely on God's time. It will happen for you too. And also be financially independent so no man calls you a gold-digger. And no matter what love your child/children because a man can break your heart and abandon you but your kid(s) are yours forever.

God bless you for this part

Most single moms are more decent and responsible than some single girls.

This i am 100% sure of

3 idiots

Davidbee:
Veteran actor, Jide Kosoko and his wife Henrietta Kosoko have started living apart. The couple, who have been married for many years, recently started living separately when Henrietta moved out of their matrimonial home in Abule Egba, Lagos. As a matter of fact, reports have it that their marriage have collapsed, but Henrietta insists that she only moved out of her matrimonial home because of polygamy pressures.






Source: http://naijaparrot.com/jide-kosokos-wife-moves-out-their-matrimonial-home/

So she didnt know before she entered that it's a polygamous house

na she sabi

rofemiguwa:
Well Actually he has not asked her out yet, he wanted to be sure the feeling is mutual,or atleast there is some form of aTtraction.


Apparently he feels there is now and wants to make the move ,but when i asked my gAlfriend she told me she didnt feel the same.
I didnt tell her the guy wanna ask her out now . I was actually expecting the same level of excitement the guy had with her, was realLy disappointed.

We actually talk about relationship so i dont tink she should be feeling shy to tell me anytin.
Am engaged and she wants a man,and she is friendzoning this one .what are the odds.??

Anyway its her decision to make dou

I will just backoff and let the guy find out him self.

Let your guy make the move asap if possible after this break.

If she says she's not interested, let him cut her off straight. No more pick up of drop off.

She may say she will think about it but there shouldn't be any time to waste.

I may be wrong but sher is not interested in the guy to me.

If she was you would see it her smile or face when you asked about her feelings.

She doesn't have any reason to hide her feelings for you if you guys are close and she knows you are engaged.

Mind you, don't be offended with her if she doesn't like the guy. You should understand if the feeling is notthere it is simply not there.

Thank you

Joythah:
agree with you whole-heartedly. The Guy wanted to quit at a point but his family and friends won't hear of it. she stood by him when he had nothing, assisted him financially and she dosen't support her father.... What more can a guy ask for
That her father needs head examination. I simply can't comprehend it

He should be willing to join her church then

Is he planning to her or what or what kinda cheap blackmail is dat she stood by him when he had nothing

The girl should talk to her father a beg

They do the wedding without him and go back to beg him later. No be new thing

If he does that, am sure d FIL will come up with another mandate

yes we do spend

Joythah:
A friend of mine told me this story about his church member.
The Guy is a staunch member of Mountain Of Fire while the girl is from Deeper life. They met in school and fell in love. She was with him when he was struggling to get a job and even turned down advances/proposals from richer men. Now the guy has a very good Job in Lagos and she too has one in Kogi.
Problem now is that her church has refused to allow her wed the guy unless he joins deeper life. Her father is a strong local elder and agrees with the pastor. She told the guy that she was willing to go to another church so that they can wed there but the guy dosen't want to anger his in-laws. This matter has dragged on for over a year.... Infact they have spent both money and time travelling from their bases to Edo state to plead with the pastor and elders.
Recently, the guy joined the church but has vowed to bail out once the wedding is done.
Methinks that is deception and a wrong foundation for marriage but does he have any other choice? Honest opinions please and no insults on any church... Thanks.

Did the FIL join his wife's church when he got married to her? Some fanatics and their religious mentality sha

Abeg the guy should leave their daughter alone. Let her parents find husband for her in their church

Please the guy should not pretend to join to church only to back out after wedding.

This will anger his in laws more than the more he was trying to avoid.

He should rather stand his ground not to allow them to control him.

He is a man and his wife to be must attend his church

rofemiguwa:
Hello house
I have 2 friends,a male and female. We all work in the same establishment.
They are both single,so i decided to hook them up.
The arrangement was going so well.
As they have being coming to work together.
The guys goes to pick her in the morning, goes to buy her lunch,takes her to almost everywhere she wanna go,
Everything seems o be going so well.

Well yestaday i asked the girl what she felt for the guy, and she said nothing,she just sees him as a nice guy that she follows to work.
Am like whatttt?? .this is a guy that is almost certain you love him, feels like you have a bond and is willing to do anything for you. I didnt tell her this dou.

The issue is the guy is actually a very nice guy and i feel kinda guilty knowing the girl seems to just be taking advantage of his good heart.

Well am confused whether to tell the guy how the girl really feels or just let them sort themselves out??

Matured response pls
Thank you pals!

You friend may be right ( Girl).

Has the guy asked her out? Has he made his intention known to the girl or not?

If not, the girl may just see him as a colleague who picks her up every morning with no string attached.

Also she may not feel anything for him even though he is a nice guy.

Ask the guy if he has made his intention know before you frown at your friend.

My 2 cents