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Phones / Re: 12 Reasons You Really Don’t Need That New Phone by slamoniker(f): 7:47pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
First of all, my phone is five years old Not 1, Not 2, Five, FIVE! So may I? 1 Like |
Events / Re: PHOTO: This Is The Most Hilarious Wedding Cake Ever! by slamoniker(f): 9:41am On Aug 18, 2015 |
I get the whole "cut your cake to your size thing", and do not seek extravagance. Yet instead of admiring this couple, have they not "over-cut"? What's the need for a white wedding? Even if the groom feels a need to wear a suit and the bride a wedding gown, what significance is this mockery of cake? Would they give their guest bread? They'd easily get un-iced cake for their guest at the same price the excess bread cost and furniture on which the bread is arranged. This is probably a scene from those "trying to be funny movies". And its not even funny#myonekobo |
Romance / Re: Advice Please! One Last Time With The Ex- Or Not? by slamoniker(f): 1:37pm On Jul 27, 2015 |
RuuDie: The annoying bit was they knew we were seeing each other! Yet they waited till it was getting serious before they dug out that story! However I'm making a very hard decision to move on without looking back, thanks to some very insightful comments from Naijaboiy, highdreez, cold, ladyF, gurgle. |
Romance / Re: Advice Please! One Last Time With The Ex- Or Not? by slamoniker(f): 1:25pm On Jul 27, 2015 |
RuuDie: Maybe I wasn't hell-bent enough. I just didn't expect the clog in our relationship, then came the ludicrous story about how our families couldn't inter-marry cause of some messed up ancestral bouhaha. We did try to find "corners/ loophole", but when his parents said the only way we would be married is if we eloped to a foriegn country! And bore children there. We gave up. I'd admit that I gave up first. |
Romance / Re: Advice Please! One Last Time With The Ex- Or Not? by slamoniker(f): 12:26am On Jul 27, 2015 |
libertyfather: You told me to "follow my mind, nothing dey happen". That's hardly a situation helping advice. And you want a thank you? Really? Okay, Thank You Sir! Good night. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Advice Please! One Last Time With The Ex- Or Not? by slamoniker(f): 12:20am On Jul 27, 2015 |
Gurgle: I do get what you are saying. Society's "right" does change. But while right is still "right" the weight feels enormous. And no one else seems to understand how you feel. I have no idea why I'm so nervous, that way I'd have been able to handle it head-on. It however isn't about the day, it's about the "forever". Thank you for your time. Your responses are helping me realise that there might not be something major wrong with me afterall. For this, thank you again. Good night Gurgle. |
Romance / Re: Advice Please! One Last Time With The Ex- Or Not? by slamoniker(f): 12:03am On Jul 27, 2015 |
cold: They do spiral out of control, they do! In my dumbness I must have forgotten this I don't want to do anything stupid. I really don't. God help me. Eyinjuege has suggested cutting off all contact with him, that's what it has come down to. Thank you. |
Romance / Re: Advice Please! One Last Time With The Ex- Or Not? by slamoniker(f): 11:45pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Hm! "If I can keep away from him for two years..." Good question. *heavy sigh*. Be guided? Yessir! Thank you! |
Romance / Re: Advice Please! One Last Time With The Ex- Or Not? by slamoniker(f): 11:41pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Gurgle: Nervous is an understatement! I'm terrified! I realize now I'm such a coward, cowering to the whims of society. My fiancee must have noticed too, just yesterday he asked if I was ready for this. I'm not backing out, no, but "forever" scares the living day light out of me! |
Romance / Re: Advice Please! One Last Time With The Ex- Or Not? by slamoniker(f): 11:30pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Gurgle: Insightful! Thank you so much!! |
Romance / Advice Please! One Last Time With The Ex- Or Not? by slamoniker(f): 10:52pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Hello Nairalanders, I'm set to be married in a few weeks. About my groom; if making love was my most important criteria for marriage, he'd definitely not be my choice husband. HOWEVER he is an amazing, godly, caring man (let me state that I do not believe in "love" the way most people do. I do believe in compatibility, companionship and understanding which is present in our relationship, this is "love" About my ex-; I have an amazing ex-. Love-making: on point. Companionship: on point. Fun/ understanding each other: on point! The relationship however did not work out. I so remember the way he cried when I had to end the relationship then because of serious irreconcilable issues between both our families. That was 2013. We have since remained casual friends, even somewhat cold and distant. The two major things I miss about the old relationship is the way we totally got along and the love-making. With my wedding knocking loudly at the door, I can't push away the thought of spending one last night with him. Since 2013 I have restrained myself from all physical intimacy with him for the sake of my relationship. Right now however, all of my body wants to be with him, for the very last time. At least. So dear nairalanders, my distress and confusion is this, if I make love with him, would I regret it after I'm married? Or would I regret it IF I don't? I certainly do not want any "oh I should have" after my wedding, which if left to foster might lead to adultery. God forbid! And yes, I know they'd be lots of insults and jabs at me but I do hope some of you would please talk to me. Thank you. |
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