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nikkyharry:
Love me and your problem is solved lol

alexialin:




You are welcome.

Am like that too.

I get bored easily when all there is? Is just sexxx and lame chats or talks in between with an uncomfortable silence.

But!

Wait o! Am a lady

Lalas247:
What's ur main

alexialin:
Op u get bored easily cause all they could offer is sexxx and sweet words, mild character , etc. And after seeing the banging body or soft character? U are like what next.? Conversations is also zero.

But to you, it has to be more than that.
None has been able to keep up a lively interesting convo with u for long and u are so bored already
The disinterest u feel nw is understandable. Everybody is different, we are not all wired the same.
Be patient. Keep making friends and with time, u will end up marrying your best friend. So relax.

Lalas247:
I can cure u of this illness

onwuakpachris:
o.p js relax man..u nt alone in ds predicament..I myself av bin through d same situation over and over again..but d truth is dat what u actually feel 4 all dose girls u v bin meeting is not love but mere infatuation based on a js a particular quality say like beauty..sex appeal..popularity e.t.can. u don't js love pple u av Neva met b4 or gotten really close 2...u js crush over them..hence love dose not cum into effect b4 but after actually meeting sum1 and it takes sum time 2 grow...again it seems like u are a sanguine by temperament js like myself and according 2 Dr.Tim lahaye in "why do u act d way u do"..no one can love u so easily but also forget u so easily like a sanguine..I js hope u finally find d right girl.and dude trust me by my own very experience. only then can u really feel what it means 2 love someone and be loved in return..best wishes.. signing out

Medunah:
haha, I was only joking thou

But seriously, you have to first believe in love before you can fall in love. someone like me, I don't believe in 'love at first sight', so there is no way I can fall in love with someone the first time if seeing them.
So you just gotta believe in love first and every other thing will fall in place.

tosyne2much:
Please answer these questions

Have you been heartbroken before?

Has someone you gave your all to ever left you emotionally shattered?

Have you ever thought love is not worth the whole hype?

Medunah:
OP hasn't met me, that's why

tasiuzubairu:
just try hanging out with d homos guys... it myth workout for u...

ZeroUnity:
Examine what made you start the love at first....

To my understanding of your situation you must have seen something that you do not like in her... That's why you wanna skip,... Have a better understanding of what happened when you started having lukewarm feelings around her...

Just simply personal examination..

Try it..

Rorachy:
Who cares? You are one less problem in the world.

freddywells81:
Perhaps when you were romancing her ,there is/are thingz that u discovered that made u loose interests cos u seem like a person with taste and class credited to your writeup..eg.maybe a huge borehole, a slippers-like Bobby, among others. Atleast,something must av drawn you closer initially. Abeg let her go and stop and quit dulling her emotion s

48noble:
keep forming conscience when she can screw u back to ur senses

48noble:
u need to see a doctor asap... erythrocytes and erectile dysfunction detected