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gideon286:
Do you wish to create a sales page for the product??

Yes, I want to learn how to do that in addition to the telegram thing. That's why I want your training videos before going ahead with creating an ad.

For me, I did an extensive research on products I'd like to sell. Got some pictures, videos and also tried writing a sales page.

gideon286:
It seems here has become cold for a long time ... Ive got to pick up myself ...

Who has started something yet??

Any where you encountered challenges, just post the question with screenshots ...

Welcome back. Please I asked a question earlier.

gideon286:
Good evening everyone ... Sorry, ive not being here for a long time. I was rubbed while coming back from work on the the 17th of this month. Rubber interrogated me in the evening around 7pm at a junction, pointed me gun and started obtaining everything in my car. My 2 phones and some cash where all collected. I have to retrieved my sim cards and but a new phone.

Any devil that won't make me complete the lectures ive got to give on this thread, has got a failed plan. I most finish up what i started.

Sorry about this, at least we thank God you were unharmed.

I'm interested in your training - but primarily for how to work on facebook ads. I can see you focus on the Telegram method here, I want to know if the website sales page thingy is also included.

Thanks.

Temitope009:
Wow. That's so brave of you. It's good you guys are still on a good note, you never know what favors you could actually do for one another in future.
I'm glad you thought it out carefully and didn't give in to pressure.
I'm sure better things are coming your way soon. Keep shining.
All the best ma'am.

Awww!

You're so sweet!

Thanks a lot.

Temitope009:
Hello sleit, I see you. Sorry to ask dear, did you later accept his proposal?

Hi!

Nice thread you've got going

Thanks for checking in.

I kept things going until earlier this year when he gained admission and had to leave. He persisted on going through with the marriage before leaving, I panicked, declined, and cut the whole thing off.

We still stay in contact though - even if we didn't work out, he is still a friend. When we speak he sometimes say if it was meant to be we'd always find a way back to each other. I think not.

Ucheosefoh:
Access bank visa card

Thank a lot!

Ucheosefoh:
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And if you don't know now you know....

As always, make bundles with funnels!

Great post as usual OP.
Please in you experience, which bank provides the smoothest service for paying Facebook ads... And what type of card also?

Following OP. Great work!

I would have some questions later. Thanks

mrphysics:
Just go for the international passport incase they reject the NIMC paper. Payoneer once rejected that paper and I was forced to get the International passport

OK. Thanks a lot

[quote author=mrphysics post=81703834]Your quickest route to an ID is International passport. Pay for express and retain your account.[/quote

Thanks ...i tried the temporary NIMS card and I'm waiting to see if it went through

Comanche:
Why don't you give the temporary IDs a try first, maybe it just might go through...

Thanks. I tried this. My voters card didn't go through but the NIMS slip did. I made the video call after. The video verification was ticked but the ID part said still in review. So I'm waiting to see sha

Hello, please can I get advice regarding the upwork identity verification thing. I only have temporary voters card and that paper NIMS stuff. I traveled down to get my PVC today but was told FG has taken back all uncollected cards.

I don't want to lose my account...please Wat else can I do? Thanks....

sisisioge:
Sweetheart, your tale is one of those that got me completely short of words.

On one hand, I think you should marry him and worry about falling in love with him later. Here, my hope is that since you two are fair and nice people, you would be kind to each other. Awesome sex and good ambiance may breed love. Kids and comfort may endear him to your heart. After all, many sensible people are sodding love and marrying reasonable people these day, reasonable people that turned out to be bae. Hmmmm.

On the other hand, I'm thinking life is too short to manage anyone with the thought of forever. Life starts at forty these days, you are almost two decades away girl. What will it be like before then? After then? Dang, there are several decades after forty to contend with too , if God pleases...whew, I'm lost jare. Do you want to manage your marriage? Do you want to live on tiptoes? Hmmm...it is well.

Biko...take time out with the dude. Spend plenty of time with him....I would have added fork him please but I won't, we are still brethren . The point is, live some with him to see if you could do this. I said no to a wonderful young man some 5 years ago, I'm still unmarried, I would still say no to him...no regret. Life is too shot to live on tiptoes This is all on you, your choice...your life. May God grant you wisdom.

Amen sis. God knows best, I pray he does the best for you.

Really, it's been quite confusing for me I must say. On one hand I have security, but I only have to turn to meet the full glare of Y.O.L.O.

baldman:
Dear Poster, A lot of advice has been given to you on this matter. You are lucky to have serious people responding to your enquiries. My take is that, first, there is no need to rush into a decision at this point and if the man you are talking about really cares about you ( and not just himself) he will be willing to wait not withstanding the sexual pressure. I am happy he is being upfront about that. You mentioned that he is going for his masters, this is even good. Let him go out there and test his preferences. You do not want him to marry you only to travel out and realise that your English and dressing is not hot enough. This will also give you the opportunity to grow a bit more , review you feelings and spend more time with you Mum and older sisters and learn some vital lessons about life, marriage and home keeping.

When I was single, I use to avoid girls that are in your age range because I came to understand that they are smart ( sometimes too much for their own good), restless, highly vain and were mostly dreamers (not in touch with reality). You are smart and sensible to be asking questions.

I have few tips (questions) that I believe can help you:

Is this guy your friend (imagine if you do not end up marrying him, is he someone you consider close enough to just spend time catching up with on the phone, and discussing about your current boyfriend/husband and other interesting/ or even embarrassing stuffs you have kept bottled up)?

Are you attracted to him (During those times that you have been with him physically, have you found yourself turned on or feel like you have to restrain yourself from getting a bit intimate with him ( like just kissing him or having him hold you) ?

Do you think there is anything about you that complements or completes this guy ( Will he be a mess ( not emotionally) without you in any aspect of his life if you guys end up not being together)

His is family comfortable with you and is your family comfortable with him.. are you both comfortable with each other's family?

Rating the nature of his care and concern for you, does he look out for you like your father will or your most caring brother will?

You do respect him, will you be willing to submit your life and future to his ideals and principles?

Will you like to have a son exactly like this man ( if this thought melts your heart, you may love him more than you have admitted)?

Do you both share the same christian values?

Do you trust this guy, can you trust him with your life, and trust him to make decisions for you?

How well do you guys communicate, do you feel like you cannot speak your mind or he does not freely express himself to you?

How have you been settling your disputes? Have you guys been managing to settle disputes without external intervention?

You are an introvert, so you may not be the easiest to deal with, how well has he been coping with your personality?

Do you guys pray together? Do you have testimonies of prayers answered when you both believe God for something?


If you have yes to most of these questions, you may have a good guy there. However, subject the relationship to a further test of waiting. Let him go for his masters and come back to marry you, that will give you ample time to process your feelings.

This is deep. I'm going to get a pad, write this, and mull over them. Thanks a lot.

kkins25:
CAPSLOCKED always always hits the nail to the coffin. I salute.

Op, i dont mean to sound abusive or offensive but i must say this: honestly you are not serious.

1)You dont love him. Ok good and fine. So you have been messing with the guy's emotions and probably he must have contributed something to your school livelihood or should i say he was giving you money.

2) Let me guess you are waiting for that kind of love were the guy looks like an angel and the weather is always cool and the sky blue, with rainbow colours lighting up the sky? You've watch too much hollywood.

3) Do you think that when you marry someone you love, the marriage would go on smoothly? You think marriages operate on the hollywood type of love. Better turn off that tv playing walt Disney

4) women with this kind of thought usually end up in the hands of nairaland fuuuuckboys. No worry your puna go tell you. They will bleep sense back into you.

5) Try communicating with the guy, discuss much more about both of you. Learn to fall in love. Love isnt a one day thing, or so I've heard.

6) nonetheless, if you feel you cant settle with him then go ahead and tell him that you don't love him therefore cant marry him. Simple. Unless you have done no1. Good luck.
Don't just come back to narrate how one nairaland guy tear ur puna into two den throway u for 'puna-bin'.

7)ohh i almost forgot, why dont you LOVE him? What qualities disqualify him as your husband. I hope its not 6 pack. Lol

You are quite funny. I always thought the love just refused to pop-up. Someone said it might be because we hardly see physically, I'd remedy that and see how it goes. Thank you.

ImaIma1:
That fairy tale kind of love can give you serious headaches. You will be loving and the guy will be showing you "pepper" in the name of love.

Your bf is a rare type...a man that can love you even without sex in the equation. Most guys these days will do anything to get in your panties...like fake stomach pains or tell you to prove you love them by having sex and start sulking or throwing tantrums till you succumb.

You have dated him and seen his great qualities. But if you don't think you are the one for him, please free him and don't string him along and waste his time so that he can find someone who will truly appreciate and love him.
I just hope you don't regret later when it is too late. Because when you fall into the wrong hands and experience serious heartbreak, you will start wondering why you let a good man go(assuming he is all you described).

But then, maybe it is good for you to experience the bad so that you can appreciate the good. So that when next you are lucky to come across another guy like your bf, you will grab him without hesitation.

They say that experience is the best teacher but someone once said that it doesn't have to be your own experience. You can learn from the experiences of others around you.

Hmmn. Thank you!

KanwuliaExtra:
You can’t sit on the fence in any relationship.

If you do not think he is the one for you. . . . Move on and find the someone you love.

If you can tolerate him without the “love factor”, let him go and do his masters.
You can stay “virgins” and wait 2 more years.
If he does not come back. . . . Move on.

As for the marriage?
No rush till you can live as MAN and wife.
You spend your courtship as “long distance virgins”, then you get married and live apart as “man and wife” across fantasy oceans

It does not make sense.

The fact that you are SUs, does not mean you should stop using YOUR BRAINS!

Duly noted. Thanks a lot.

zed7:
It's tricky. What exactly is love? If your man doesn't repulse you then you are good to go. All that 'shacking' butterfly in the stomach feeling is a scam. After a while it usually disappears and you ask yourself what you ever saw in that person. However if he irritates you please don't dare consider marriage.
Marriage is more of compatibility, care, kindness and tolerance. If there is a bit of physical attraction (even if it's not your 'dream spec') then you are good to go.
Now answer this question, do you feel a bit attracted to him? Can you show him off proudly? Do you get turned on sometimes when he gets close or you see him or you think of him? If YES, marry him. If NO, let him be.

Yes, I can show him off proudly. For, the rest of the questions, I'd say a bit. I'm not sure if that is healthy enough for marriage.

thorpido:
You really don't 'feel' him and I won't lie to you,it is better to have a partner you 'feel'.
One thing I think you should do is make out time to see each other more.
If after a few months,you still don't think he is the one you want,find a way to break the relationship before February that he plans to travel and you both can move on with your lives.

Alright, thanks.

LadySarah:
I didn't want to quote you but I want to give you advice based on my experience.

I didn't set out loving my husband,I never loved him but that guy's love for me bursts my brain.some yrs down the line mine has exceeded his own love.I dont know how it happened but its the reality now

See if you check well and his love is true,babe go for him.That guy will make you never regret choosing him.I even feel a man's love should be greater than that of his wife's because the way women are being treated today,my head can't fathom it.
Love isn't always enough in marriage,tick some other good traits .Countercheck and know if you can live with them.

No man will have all the traits you will list as a woman.I pray you make a wise decision and let God lead you aright.

Thank you ma. If we work out, I'd love to look back and tell a story like yours.

Wilfredpat22:
If you are not in love with him, tell him and cut it short but make sure the next man you are dating doesn’t destroy that hymen before marriage. Most ladies advising you have lost theirs before Christ was born
And hope you are independent
Hope you are not materialistic


This will draw better man to you

Thanks. I am self-dependent, I even stopped getting allowance from home once I got to my final year. I hardly ever collect things from him, unless he starts to vex.

Treasuredlove:
I am sorry dear, just seeing this. I actually married my high school sweetheart and I must tell you, love is very important in marriage. It covers all lapses. Finance, spiritual, physical etc. Without love, you will not be able to tolerate each other and this will be really bad. I mean marriage is sleeping next to someone who might continually fart all through the night or loves to kiss you without brushing etc(just giving some simple examples) its not an easy ride. A neighbor once told me she married her husband because he loved her more than she loved him and she was tired of heartbreak. Turned out the guy didn't love her as much as he claimed to and she didn't love him atall. That marriage didn't last two years. Thankfully, you say you are a christian, then I will key into our mutual faith and tell you to seek His face because with His guidance, you can never go wrong.

'I can never go wrong with his guidance'. Thanks a lot. Thank you!

LewsTherin:
Love is a choice. The love that comes from a conscious choice to love someone is the love that keeps a marriage after the initial thrill is gone. That's the love that keeps a marriage when the kids start coming in. That's the love that keeps a marriage when the children do not come. That's the love that keeps a marriage when there are financial constraints. That's the love that keeps a marriage when your partners vexes the hell out of you.

However, is the sexual pressure your guy is facing the reason he wants to get married to you? Because if he can't handle sexual pressures here in Nigeria and he wants to go for a masters in a country where nudity is a social given. How is he going to handle that with his sex partner (his wife) thousands of kilometres away?

Thanks for your Input. He also said he wants that feeling of being responsible for a family when he leaves. He mentioned the sexual pressure and said, when he's aware of his responsibility here in Nigeria, he wouldn't be distracted and would double his hustle towards bringing me over.

thorpido:
That is what I think your problem is@bolded.You are still waiting for the butterfly-in-the-tummy feeling like the Israelites are waiting for the Messiah.

LOL. Nah, I'm not. I'm just scared down the line, I'd wake up one day and regret having an unfulfilling life.

Eketem:
Love is important in marriage but not as important as a man who respects and cares for you.


Maybe you need time to discover what you want hopefully he will still be around when you decide you want him.

I don't like anyone pressured into marriage sha.

Noted. Thank you!

thorpido:
What is wrong with you?Since 200 level?
What do you really want to say'you are in love'?You want to feel that butterfly in your tummy?

He's the SU type and that may be the reason why you don't 'feel' him but it's the type of relationship you wanted too.Or was the no-sex relationship just his own idea?

You probably need to re-evaluate what your visions for a life-partner is.Don't be one of those 'too much Mills and Boon got you chasing dreams'.

It is VERY important to love who you marry.I've had some women tell me their skin crawls when their husbands 'get on them'.Don't put yourself in that position.
Take the next few weeks to think deeply about it and if you still don't think it will work,let him know.

No, it isn't because he is the 'SU' type I don't 'feel' him, I just don't have that 'clingy' feeling that comes with love. There are times I feel slightly annoyed when I'm neck-deep in work and he calls my phone. Then I feel sorry immediately after for feeling that way. ( I am like that with every other person - the slightly annoyed part I mean). Thanks for your Input.

P.S. Funny enough, I used to read a lot of Mills and Boon back in the days. But, I never did let it get to my head.

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victorian:
My dear, marry him. As long as he is presentable and he loves you. He will treat u like egg and with time u will get to develop deep feelings that will keep the marriage together.
Cause if u ask me? What's love? You may think love is that butterflies kind of feelings, u feel at the pit of your tummy when u sight a guy. My sister that's not love but lust mixed with infatuation. And most times, such feelings don't end well.
Getting the perfect husband, does not exist nowadays. But getting a presentable and responsible man who loves and care for u, is the key to a lasting marriage, as long as you open your heart, accept him wholeheartedly and with time u will be happy u went ahead with the marriage. Also communication, goes a long way. Always communicate before and in marriage.
Guys these days are not ready to settle down, they will just use and dump, all in the name of I love you. Pls, don't miss this opportunity.

Thanks a lot for this. You don't know how much I appreciate all your input.

tintingz:
If you don't love him(is it that you don't find him attractive or what), my advice, don't go into marriage with him.

Because thinking you might later develope love for him is not certain, I think you guys need to spend more time together, like you said, your relationship is the distance type.

I'd say I find him as attractive (physically) as the next guy. I am not one for looks anyway, I was attracted to his brain from the first day. He's quite smart and has this crazy way of thinking that just wows me. But, that 'chemistry' people talk about is lacking.

I'd go for your advice about spending more time together, because I must admit we don't see quite often. Just about once in months. I hardly want to go out - I'm that weird. I'd work on that first, and see how things go from there. Thanks a lot for your input.

delishpot:
Love can come out of respect. If he treats you right and has no character that may cause you sorrow in the future (Many turbulent marriages show signs before the parties tie the knot but those signs are ussualy ignored because of love) then yes go ahead and marry. If you feel like you will NEVER warm up to him let him know so that he may start looking for someone who would treat him right.

Thanks a lot.