MRbrownJAY: ^^^^ again, if his father saw that tweet, it "could" be a reason why he is reluctant to reach out TODAY. homophobia is very real in 9ja, even from your own family. anyone who think otherwise is living in LA LA LAND!

my twitter screename or username is alejandrobadii, my problem with my father started from infancy, try again

adebisicutie:

Pls just ignore him. From a person who has been through your exact situation (genotype and father leaving) I believe your decision is the best. Remove that man from your mind and heart, don't hate him because he isn't worth it. Just live your life like you would if he was dead. Try and get a job that won't be too stressful for your health and save what
you can then later you can ask for help from Family to assist and add to your savings. It is well with you in Jesus name.

Please send me a massage with your account number. I don't have much but I know exactly what you're going through and how hard it is.

sure he should be ignored, it's hard not to hate him but I will try
BTW I don't know how to message you here or text but here is my phone number 07064625761

delpee: I pray that you succeed so your father can look back at his folly. You should avoid bitterness; just move on knowing that God never fails those who trust Him absolutely.

BTW I have a cousin who went through a lot of difficulties and trauma as a sickler. Many times, people feared for her life but today she's a graduate with a good profession and happily married with two lovely kids!

So shall it be for you by Gods grace. Amen.

that's nice, ya being a sickler really suck buh it's nobody's fault (sufferer )...sometimes I feel guilty as if I caused it..

MRbrownJAY:

bro, if you are not gay then so be it, but the evidence shows that you are........ and although it may not be the case here, many African parents frown upon the act and disown their children (or worse) because of that. now, i am not saying that this is what happens here (your father has been absent all your life) but that could be a reason TODAY why he cant reach out to you.

HINT: go check what you posted on your Twitter account that anyone could read (including your dad)

again I won't insult you, I think you should go back and read it again, reading is fundamental.. talking about twitter I only use that to interact with my friends who love music, am a big Rihanna fan... if liking music makes one gay then so be it... I think you are mean too ,perhaps my father's type.

MRbrownJAY:

ok it is your life, and you are the one living it. suerte!



you have to give us as much details about him but, most importantly about your person, in order for us to be able to give you advices as accurate as possible. the fact that you want to hide your gay status (which is an IMPORTANT factor when living in 9ja society) while this is a faceless forum and nobody knows you, can only be counter productive.

you wanted advices and i gave you mine.......dont try to kill the messenger simply because what you hear is hurtful (but true).

I don't want to be disrespectful, can you quote to me the line where I said am gay?

onirugbon1:

Don't worry. I have seen your countenance in your pix. It looks suspect but not conclusive. I will set up a panel to investigate and you dont wanna be found guilty.

you can really tell if people are gay by their countenance... it takes a thief to know a thief... am not gay and it has absolutely nothing to do with the thread, why accusing me? you have to know me to pass judgment... well like the other guy said it's a faceless forum.. looks can be deceptive ...bye

wow owk goodbye

MRbrownJAY:

ok it is your life, and you are the one living it. suerte!



you have to give us as much details about him but, most importantly about your person, in order for us to be able to give you advices as accurate as possible. the fact that you want to hide your gay status (which is an IMPORTANT factor when living in 9ja society) while this is a faceless forum and nobody knows you, can only be counter productive. again, we are not here to judge your se.xual orientation, but i am just trying to be honest with you about certain things. the sad truth is that 95% of Nigerian parents would disown their own children if they were gay.

you wanted advices and i gave you mine.......dont try to kill the messenger simply because what you hear is hurtful (but true).

am sorry but when did make mention of being gay and how did You come to such conclusion?

thanks for all your all your comments, I really appreciate. for those getting it wrong it's more than you can imagine. when I was younger I was really bad that I even had to question God the essence of my living buh with age I found out that life is what you make out of it, am grateful to God for giving me life no matter how painful it is am see still thankful.. to move on with life I realize I need to get away all toxic and future threatening people like my father.. the people that said I need him the question is does he need me. my relationship with him is like a boy deeply in love with a girl but very much away she doesn't give a rat ass about him, buh he still cling to her.. it's more than you think.

Sijo01: You're a warrior, keep fighting and you will survive.

thanks sis, yes I must survive

fingard02k: you will still need him

I still need him to torture me right? what exactly do I need him for? remember he doesn't need me. he once called me a dying child what sort of father does that huh.. thanks for your comments maybe you can give reasons of me needing him

Yomieluv: Do you really need all you did? You should have allowed sleeping dog lie,than raising unnecessary dust. You ought to prove your worth in life,by turning out successful,than hating on someone who doesn't care you exist..learn to love life.

thanks alot, I will surely turn successful In life I have no reason not to.. it was necessary yo cut ties with him to enable me heal ..I have to accept I having never had s father and struggle like others.
thanks again

MRbrownJAY: @OP
i understand how you feel but i would advise you to reconsider..... whatever you do wont change how you feel about that man, whatever you do wont change who he is, whatever you do wont solve your financial problems. i understand that you expect this man to be YOUR DAD, but circumstances in his life may make it difficult for him to do so.

the man is broke and there is nothing you or him can do about it, blaming HIM because you didnt get the money for admission is certainly not the way to go about this issue. if you want to disown people for that reason, then disown your mother as well since she was not able to help you too.

here is something to remember: whether you like it or not, whether good or bad, whether talking or disowned, this man will remain your biological father.

it is never too late for someone to make amends for their actions, so although it may not be whe
n YOU need him, it could still happen.

sometimes YOU have to make the 1st step.... what stops you from going to meet him, to engage him in convos, to spend time with him etc? not all adult act like adults, and its ok so long as you know who you are dealing with.

you are too defensive of him, well the said he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches him right? what haven't I done to get close to him yet he kicks me away like I have leper.. he is just mean and wicked and the best is to disassociate with him.

I have never had a normal relationship with him, it was strained from childhood, am 18 now and it seems to be getting worse each year.
my parents divorced when I was just one, am 18 now I grew up without knowing what having father was like, I rarely see him and when I do it doesn't even last upto 5mins,to me it meant a lot to me to him nah.
he never for once supported me emotionally, financially, he just doesn't give a damn if we are alive,his actions said it.
I got admission last year and things were really tough for mum (she lost her job ).I phoned him and told him about it he replied that he has no money having paid for two of my step mother's siblings, I was devastated and later lost the admission.
I interspect in all I have gone with him and concluded on 'he doesn't love me'.maybe cause am ss or some personal reasons.
I wrote him a text concerning my feelings and why we ought to cut ties, he's yet to reply albeit but my mind is made up, it's the only way I can escape his emotional torture.. life is too short to be associated with toxic and life draining people. I'M A SURVIVOR

dude please why seething like a bleeped your gf

Conversation between AIDS and
EBOLA VIRUS...
Aids:Hey baby girl! Glad to have you
here in Nigeria.
Ebola:Thankx boss. How has your
mission been? Aids:Has been very much
successful,but just a couple of
impediments I ve encountere since
the introduction of
condom and a few other
contraceptives..... Ebola:Really!
AIDS: Yea! That not
withstanding, i'm still making impact
enormously.
Ebola : Kudos boss! More grease
your elbow. Aids: Thanks baby
sharwarma.Hope you've set down
good strategies for the
achievement of your quest?
Ebola:Yes of course! I'm no dumb
head! Infact, a victim of mine died recently.
Aids: Like seriously! That's
awesome...
So tell me more.....
Ebola: The issue here, is that i'm
trying to bring the popular
saying "there's love in
sharing" into play. Nigerian bats
and apes have decried
the constant share of their meats by
bush meat lovers;
without partaking in their problems
as well. So,my aim is
to balance the equation
and erase partiality.
Aids : Waoh! That's good. So what actually
motivated
your migration into Nigeria?
Ebola: During my intensive survey, I
discovered that so
much of Nigerians enjoy munching
bush meat,and for that,I ve come to make them
also, partakers of me as well!
As u know,"DIARIS LOVE IN
SHARING".
Aids: So, who is free from your
TENTACLES? Ebola: Those who desist
fromconsuming bush
meats;especially monkeys and bats
have less possibilities of contacting
me.
Aids: I discovered that you'remore powerful and
contagious than I do. What's the
secret?
Ebola: (blushing).....O yea! Well,the
secret is the
incessant complaints tabled by monkeys and
bats.
Their complaints have made me so
furious. I've made it a
point of
duty to move into anybody who
comes in contact with those I ve affected.
Aids: Hmm! You're really awesome!
Can we hang out
sometime?
Ebola: (smiling)Stop flattering me
boss! Will be on my way
now. I've got someone to
inflict somewhere......About the
hang out,I will give it a
thought(winks).
Aids: Alright. Take care and good luck my Rosalito
Pepperto.
Ebola: Thanks boss!!
Funny!!! Right!!! But very
serious.........
Well,brothers and sisters,avoid bush meat and
other meat
that is said to have the disease,
make a wide research
about the virus in other not to
caught upon,be vigilant,so
you don't fall a victim...... Pray without season
and
ceasing.
We shall only hear of it,but it will not
befall anyone of us in
Jesus Name.

I have the same fate here,Am 17yrs but mine is doubled with cough (tuberculosis like but not exactly )I was really wondering how I will cope with these two repulsive sickness while in school.. I mean like Am in constant pains all the time.

Ebonyi Speaker impeached
ABAKALIKI-Members of the Ebonyi State House
of Assembly, Monday morning impeached the
Speaker of the State House of Assembly, Mr
Chukwuma Nwazunku.
18 out of the 24 members of the House allegedly
carried out the impeachment of the speaker.
- See more at: http://www.vanguardngr.
com/2014/07/ebonyi-speaker-impeached/#
sthash.tWnMuUG9.dpuf

it's really sad considering the side effect of bleaching agent, but Who is to be blamed? if course it's guys, I mean a typical naija guy will always go for fair babes.

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the covers

shakira 36,and rihanna 25,have revealed the cover art of their hotly anticipated new single titled 'CAN'T FORGET TO REMEMBER YOU' which primieres january 13th.
Sexy is so effortless for queen shakira.

promisechild: u don't need government,even a science student can study philosophy all what u need to study philosophy is just ur 5 olevel credit english inclusive.

#shalom

oh tanx.what is the jamb subject combination

Trendytessy:

I asked cos i received a text 4rm dem dis morning dat i've bin offered admission.
N.B- I didn't take any Post ume exam neither did i put in during my Jamb reg.

i received d same text o

promisechild: outstanding means they are still screening ur government script to verify if u didn't cheat during the exam

Well u can study- masscomm,english, literary studies, library science,psychology and philosophy

#shalom

philosophy? Buh a friend told me u must ve govt to study that,what about linguistic? Tanx bro

emekakelvin:
Adeleke University is nt popular like her counterpart. She run an undergraduate programme into 100Level via Jamb, Direct entry applicants are not left out, they surely admit get admission into 200 When the stated rules are followed.

The school is sited in the western part of Nigeria, Osun state to be precise.Just like any other private Uni, her fees is quite high.
She also run predegree.

For more information, course requirement and other stuffs, click[url=adelekeuniversity.edu.ng][here][/url]

For incase you are not satisfy with this info, I suggest you tell me your desire course. Doing this would land you the Head of your Department phone number.

God bless

lol! Is that sch for real? Jamb sent me sms that i've admitted there twice. I ignored it,thought is scam.

promisechild: post his or her full olevel here

#shalom

eng c6
math b2
literature b3
eco b3
c.r.k b3
igbo b3
bio b3
agric b3
govt outstanding (don't know what it means).

a friend of mine doesn't have govt in o,level, what course can he do?

have u guys listened to Beyonce's new album released last night? There's a track called flawless,she featured Chimamanda ngozi adichie,the writer of purple hibicus and half of a yellow sun.the track is dope.i love it.

mimopel: Emeka kelvin nd promise, pls cn I hav ur contatct mayb a bb pin or whasrapp no??

that's true,it gonna be brilliant for us to make a WASAPP GROW.drop ur wasapp contact plz.