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CrimeRe: How I Nearly Get Scammed By Someone that asked me for Help. by SmartPlug: 1:29pm On Feb 10, 2022
A fake profile
He uses that lady pic as a bait thinking you would fall for it cheaply
RomanceRe: How Do I Keep The Spark Alive In My Relationships by SmartPlug: 12:33pm On Feb 10, 2022
dauntless15:
This is true, I am the problem, and I have been trying my best, I don't think I'd be able to find exactly what I am looking for.
Always be on the lookout and try to make friend(NYC) before initiating a relationship with anyone
Don't rush into any relationship
Sit,study and observe
RomanceRe: How Do I Keep The Spark Alive In My Relationships by SmartPlug: 12:30pm On Feb 10, 2022
uchihaa:
one year without sex? don't come and cry to us tomorrow that you married and she has low sex urge. or she cheated and you didn't know. hopefully you accept the consequences of this decision of yours. i don't know you but it usually doesn't end well bro
Lol
I particularly don't wanna have premarital sex with her and she doesn't want that either
Anything that happen afterwards is my cross to carry
Mind you I'm not the type that come up here to cry about anything personal
RomanceRe: How Do I Keep The Spark Alive In My Relationships by SmartPlug: 12:25pm On Feb 10, 2022
dauntless15:
This particular one likes me way more than I like her, even though she's not making compromises to be with me, but I just can't explain why I got so bored of her despite all of this, sometimes I feel I am way beyond her league, like she's not suitable for someone like me, I'm not an egomaniac or anything, I just thought I could make her the perfect girlfriend but it's not working.
Then the problem is you and not her.
You're not mentally ready for a relationship or you haven't meet someone of your intellect and vibes
RomanceRe: How Do I Keep The Spark Alive In My Relationships by SmartPlug: 12:13pm On Feb 10, 2022
dauntless15:
I have tried all this and more, and she even accused me of trying to change her and I wouldn't change for her, so I stopped, influencing someone positively sounds like manipulation from her perspective, the sudden loss of interest has alot to do with who she is and what I expect of her.
You're probably not compatible
A lady who really love you will try as much as possible to please you and respect your view especially when it's about how to make your relationship stronger

Some Ladies cherish relationship like an Egg
While some see their partner as a second citizen or Choice

My baby doesn't want to loose me so she try to please me most time and I also do thesame
Even though she wouldn't accept all my idea but most
The one she wouldn't do she would explain to me in a calm way why she is refusing with a Good reason
Note I'm not a Dictator to her but I always try to let her know or give ideas what could make our relationship stronger.
RomanceRe: How Do I Keep The Spark Alive In My Relationships by SmartPlug: 12:02pm On Feb 10, 2022
dauntless15:
I'm not good at maintaining long term relationships, majority of my relationships never survived upto a year because I would be so excited at first and give you all the attention until I get bored and run out of things to do with you, then I stop communicating and at the end it'll feel like you're dating yourself and probably end the relationship yourself.

I have been trying to change the norms but it's not working, I recently got into a new relationship and it's happening again, I really like this one but I don't think this would be enough on the long run, so those who have been in long term relationships, how did you keep the spark alive?
I have been in a relationship a year and six month now
Never had sex with her but sometimes we cuddle when she visit me

To be frank sometimes I get a bored and tired of the relationship atimes and feel like I should explore else where
Each time I develop this feeling I always try to think about the Good side of her ignoring her flaws.

I use to share her some articles(nairaland and other platform) that could make our relationship stronger and recommend some movies too
Sometimes I send her some nice dress pic,nice hair pic that could fit her and tell her to always try to look classic for me.

I discovered that I get really pissed off with her and everybody around me mostly when I'm broke so I always let her know when I'm broke so she knows when to avoid unnecessary play or some sort of stupid conversation which I won't found interesting at that moment.

Honestly she doesn't like me in that kinda situation and she wouldn't like to avoid me so sometimes she help me out of the situation.

Have it on your mindset that she would be your future wife and not just your gf
Have a Good and reasonable Communicate with her often(Plan for her future)
Give her some ideas tell her to work on it
Ask her for result
Share with her some opportunities.
Share with her stories about relationships and ask for her view
Trust me you're building her and yourself to be a Good Partner

Let her know she should also be a lively Partner.
Above all Make God your 3rd Party
RomanceRe: Man Give His Girlfriend A Dirty Slap Before Proposing To Her In Abuja by SmartPlug: 11:58am On Feb 10, 2022
Okay
Christianity EtcRe: Can Someone Explain First Fruit by SmartPlug: 10:28am On Jan 16, 2022
Read Number 18: 1- 32
You will understand the origin of first fruit or tithes
BusinessRe: Which Digital Skill Should I Learn In 2022 To Get Financial Freedom? by SmartPlug: 5:22pm On Dec 15, 2021
TheOldGods:
Learn 2D animation and Motion graphics. Alot of people now need Tiktok and Instagram to run ads, then need to keep posting, motion graphics is always what they look after. What about Nft? It's all about graphics and design. 2D animation will help you as you go into character design. I don't mean Photoshop oo.. I have over 5 contracts with only 1 paying me 6$ per hour. All are long term over 2 years. The rest are paying me 25/hr.

I have a studio where I teach. And my studio is registered.

Now, I'm even looking to have students I can teach, so I can get more contacts and let them earn. One of my students earns over 200k a month, from the contract I give him. He still has his own job.

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Your contact I need more explanation
BusinessRe: Which Digital Skill Should I Learn In 2022 To Get Financial Freedom? by SmartPlug: 4:54pm On Dec 15, 2021
Tobex4realTobex234:
Learn UX design, you won't regret. By 2023, you will be financially free.
Can you expantiate on this
SportsRe: Prophetess Esther Ajayi Meets Ronaldinho In Dubai (Photos) by SmartPlug: 3:49pm On Nov 26, 2021
Our celebrities here will be with heavy security
Bouncer and even Police Men
SportsRe: CR800: Cristiano Ronaldo Scores 800th Career Goal With Villarreal Strike by SmartPlug: 8:48am On Nov 24, 2021
Wrong info
It's 799
PoliticsRe: Court Sentences Abdulrasheed Maina To 8 Years In Prison For Money Laundering by SmartPlug: 12:11pm On Nov 09, 2021
frozen70:
Chai
What is it far from you?
Scared?
No problem at all
PoliticsRe: Court Sentences Abdulrasheed Maina To 8 Years In Prison For Money Laundering by SmartPlug: 7:13am On Nov 09, 2021
frozen70:
Where is your location pls
I prefer the thiny one's
Ilara border side Ogun
PoliticsRe: Court Sentences Abdulrasheed Maina To 8 Years In Prison For Money Laundering by SmartPlug: 4:03pm On Nov 08, 2021
Penywise:
How do I dm?
08142819609
PoliticsRe: Court Convicts Abdulrasheed Maina Of N2billion Pension Fraud Charges by SmartPlug: 4:02pm On Nov 08, 2021
Amsickindahead:
08165421313
Can I get to you on WhatsApp with this?
PoliticsRe: Court Sentences Abdulrasheed Maina To 8 Years In Prison For Money Laundering by SmartPlug: 3:59pm On Nov 08, 2021
Penywise:
How do I dm?
Drop your Digit Sir
PoliticsRe: Court Sentences Abdulrasheed Maina To 8 Years In Prison For Money Laundering by SmartPlug: 3:21pm On Nov 08, 2021
DaddyBen009:
I’m
Interested
Please your digit on WhatsApp
PoliticsRe: Court Sentences Abdulrasheed Maina To 8 Years In Prison For Money Laundering by SmartPlug: 3:08pm On Nov 08, 2021
BruncleZuma:
You wan go your own jail abi?
Meaning?
I shouldn't advertise my business again
PoliticsRe: Court Sentences Abdulrasheed Maina To 8 Years In Prison For Money Laundering by SmartPlug: 3:05pm On Nov 08, 2021
I sell foreign rice in large quantities
I'm given it out at a give away price
Only serious buyers
Preferably Lagos,Ogun
DM let's do business
Xmas is near
PoliticsRe: Court Convicts Abdulrasheed Maina Of N2billion Pension Fraud Charges by SmartPlug:
Amsickindahead:
Let's talk business boss
Okay Sir
Your Digit
PoliticsRe: Court Convicts Abdulrasheed Maina Of N2billion Pension Fraud Charges by SmartPlug: 2:20pm On Nov 08, 2021
Let's talk business
Do you need foreign rice in large quantity at a cheaper price
I'm just A DM away
CrimeRe: Ilesami Abiodun Alexander Arrested For Recruiting Spy Officers At Police College by SmartPlug: 8:31am On Nov 08, 2021
He promoted himself

He also recruit

I don't actually get this

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