holy water with holy bread.

Whao!! their is nothing new under the sun, anyway.
She might have charmed you or you let your emotion and love-craziness block your reasoning faculty. PELE o!
You need deliverance, even if you apply for divorce.

Bros, that is truely a trauma, take heart and understand that life is about up and down.
you stated that you quarelled often, try and recollect those instances when you had a misunderstanding,
The problem might start from their, you might think you settled it afterall ! Are u sure she feel comfortable
with your settlement? or just pretended. A situation like this make you stronger and gives room for internal and external check up so that you don't fall a victim. Who knows their might be something you need to discover by yourself,
Keep your hope alive that you might reconcile but never sit on it. Peace.

Seek advice from those people that have SS child, after which you can decide for yourself the best option. In case you still go ahead with it, be warned and be prepared in case the inevitable comes knocking at your door,